D uring 2016 I spent more time with Jason than with my girlfriend. We smashed the exhibitions that year as well as playing some tournaments. Since he started with me weve had some great times; yeah, he was there when I won a few masters, UKs and a Worlds, but Im talking about the laughs on the road, the late-night driving back from a show after midnight raiding a service station for every Krispy Kreme donut they have and making me listen to his crap music.
I call him the boomerang as no matter what is thrown at him he keeps coming back. Hes been good for me and I think Ive been good for him. When I got ill after playing Gilbert in the World Champs, he helped get me out of Sheffield, drove me down to London and stayed with me until I was safe with my family. During that week, while I concentrated on getting better, he worked behind the scenes in secret, getting my cue fixed and avoiding the press who all wanted to know where I was.
I know he wanted to concentrate on building a seniors tour so it was great that our last proper event together in York was a winning one. Hes worked hard to get Snooker Legends where it is, never giving up when things got tough.
I know hell do anything for me and I also know hell have me up and down the motorway knocking out exhibitions every chance he gets. We have a saying that none of it really matters, as long as you can get your poached eggs in the morning, every day can be a good day.
Good friend, good mate and he has my back, enough said.
I m just a very average snooker player with a background in theatre who decided to create an event I would buy tickets to myself.
Back in the 1970s a lot of families were poor. It didnt make them unhappy but it meant they had to make choices and budget for essentials in a way people dont now. For me, we could only watch the television if we had two shillings to put in the meter on the back; for my mum and dad it was a way of ensuring that when the rental had to be paid on the TV, the money was there. It did, however, mean that sometimes my snooker coverage went off-air, my screen replaced with darkness rather than an episode of Hairy Bikers or Coast like it is today. The frustration was the same though.
Id watch snooker with my grandfather, a navy veteran of the Russian convoys. Despite the limitations of money I saw enough to learn the nicknames and study the styles of the top boys. Hurricane, Whirlwind, Grinder I was mesmerised by their flamboyance, their champagne lifestyles and their fame. I badgered my grampa to take me to the snooker hall and eventually came to own my own cue: EJ Riley, Joe Davis one-piece, in ash, it was a beauty.
Childhood memories are scarce but my first visit to play a game of snooker on a full-size table with Grandpa Hocking is vivid. After my mates six foot by three it felt like a football field. I wasnt even sure I could hit the ball that far, but I was hooked. From 13 to 16, that place, in the Mens Institute, was a second home to me and my friends. Daily routine: in from school, quick change, out the door, Bye Mum, off to the snooker room. Id only return when darkness descended or we could no longer blag money for the light from one of the older boys.
Cherished moments of our time together in that snooker room left a lasting impression on me; no doubt the tobacco cloud probably did too. Happy times, lifelong friendships, all based around a twelve by six foot piece of furniture.
By the time I left home at 18, Id already secured the County Under 21 Snooker title, but I wasnt leaving home to play snooker: I wanted to be an actor.
I wanted a better life than my parents had; it hurt me seeing them struggle to try and not let me or my brother go without. I made a promise that it wouldnt just be at Christmas time I got to drink something called pop.
In 1998 both my parents died. I was just 28 and felt alone, vulnerable. I channelled my grief and anger into determination and drive, not always getting it right, in fact getting it wrong on many occasions, but I learned and listened and refused to give up.
In 2001, frustrated at not getting any acting roles, I wrote a play about 1960s playwright Joe Orton and cast myself in the main role. It ran in London for four weeks and lost me thousands, and The Times described my acting as ordinary.
Years of debt, too many early mornings delivering newspapers and too many late nights serving pizzas, cold walks home because I couldnt afford a bus, and growing my hair long because I couldnt afford to have it cut.
There was no silver spoon, no helping hand, but there was determination to get up every time I was knocked down.
I never thought that an idea to stage a snooker exhibition with my hero Alex Higgins in 2010 would, within three years, grow into an event that was watched by more than 12 million on Eurosport.
I never thought Id be able to one day call Ronnie OSullivan and Jimmy White my good friends.
I never knew where this crazy idea would take me.
I just dared to dream and never gave up.
18th April 2016
RONNIE OSULLIVAN 10 V DAVE GILBERT 7
I managed to snatch the back of the cue just after it had been rammed into the breeze-block wall of dressing-room three for a second time; splintered and split, it had definitely played its last frame. By now the little plastic disc with John Parris Ultimate Cue etched into it was rolling around the dressing-room floor, everything was going at 100mph and yet there was silence.
Ronnie was broken, as low as Id ever seen him, the crazy thing being he had just won. He went for a wee, door open as usual, and using his left hand to steady the flow he subsequently smashed his right fist into the toilet wall.
The silence broke. I cant do this any more, Jase, its too much. I held him in my arms, a grown man sobbing like a child. He had cracked and whats worse, we were trapped together in an eight by six dressing room with the worlds media huddled in the corridor just outside.
A knock at the door. I opened it a feather to see Damien Hirst and Antony Genn at the front of a hoard, cameras already clicking past me hoping to grab a snapshot of the carnage within. Despite the seriousness of the moment it reminded me of how the press run alongside prison vans holding up their lenses at a blacked-out window we felt like prisoners.
Damien was always with us at the major events, his friendship with Ronnie well documented; Antony goes way back with Damien and is best known from the pop groups The Hours, Pulp and Elastica or perhaps for getting naked on stage at Glastonbury in 2005, a stunt which he later blamed on an astronomical amount of drugs!
I let Damien in but gave Antony a look which meant stand down for a minute. We now know people heard the symphony of cue on wall from outside. Of course the media turned it into a headline about smashing up the whole dressing room like he had morphed into Keith Moon or Liam Gallagher. The only thing broken was a snooker cue and a set of knuckles, both owned by the worlds most famous snooker player who was at this moment sobbing uncontrollably into the worlds most famous artists arms in a room with a failed actor from Cornwall. Ive been in some weird situations over the years but this was right up there.