This book is dedicated to all of the women in my life past and present. Youre all beautiful, intelligent, amazing, and you taught me more about myself than you can possibly know. You put up with my awkward jokes, my bad stories, and all the other BS. Through the lessons youve directly (and indirectly) taught me, my life and my conversations will never be the same. Its also dedicated to my friends and family members who supported me while I researched and wrote the book. David, Danny, George, Levi, June, Mom, Dad thank you all. Im grateful for your support.
How Does He Make It Look So Easy?
What the hell is he saying to her? How does he make it look so easy?
Youre out at the bar, and you see a normal-looking dude approach a beautiful girl. Within minutes, shes completely enraptured by the conversation. Laughing, smiling, touching the guy the whole nine yards.
All the while, you sit back and wonder what type of magic spell this guy has put her under (and why you didnt go up and talk to her first!).
Is he rich? Were they friends beforehand? Are they dating? your brain starts to rationalize whats happening.
Before you know it, she has her phone out and shes giving him her number or worse, shes leaving the bar with him!
Youre hit with feelings of jealousy and envy. You think back to your conversations where you couldnt find the right word, or just couldnt click with the girl.
Has this ever happened to you?
It used to happen to me all the time.
So, what are these guys saying? How are they connecting so quickly, flirting so easily, and attracting women so effortlessly?
Well, what youll discover is that its not all that complicated after all.
The guys who get it they all do similar things in conversation. They know how to make things sexual, make women laugh, have a good time, and connect with women.
Whats more, youll also discover a system so that you can easily replicate these types of conversations and add in your own style.
Sounds great, right?
Hold on a second though
You may be thinking, What about all those studies that say 95% of communication is non-verbal? Is conversation really that important?
Fair point. But tell me, if you try and watch a movie in a different language (without subtitles), will you understand 95% of it?
Certainly not
(Trust me, Ive tried)
Sure, there are a lot of things you can and should communicate non-verbally
But in order to truly connect with a woman, you need to use your words.
This is how you find out her deeper aspirations, her personality, and whether or not shes the type of girl for you.
This is how you ask her the questions that will give the interaction a deeper meaning.
Whats more, this is how you make her FEEL something. And if you can make a woman feel good emotions, she cant help but be attracted to you.
Plus, the more you can connect with people through conversation, the more your world will open up to you.
Soon, you wont have to wonder how those guys make it look so easy. Because YOULL be the guy who the other guys look at with jealousy, as you effortlessly attract women with your words.
Your dating life will be abundant, your relationships will flourish, and youll have more opportunities than you can imagine.
What youre about to discover is a system that anyone can use to unlock the power of conversation.
Whether youre talking to women during the day, at the bar, or at your job it doesnt matter. This conversation system will work anywhere.
So sit down and buckle up. The way you talk to people is about to change forever
How to Use This Book
Anyone can pick up this book and read it but not everyone will see results.
The difference between a man who uses this book to transform his conversation skills and the man who reads this book but fails to make changes is one small thing: action.
To get the most out of this book, you must do 2 things:
1. Be open to accepting new ideas.
2. Take action and implement the conversation strategies into your life.
When it comes to the dating realm, many men are closed off to new ideas. They think, This is instinct. I already get it. I may not be having success with women right now, but itll come. Its just a matter of time.
I get it man. Dating is a sensitive subject. Most men identify strongly with their ability to attract and date women (I know I did). And by opening themselves up to new ideas, they essentially question that ability. Its a tough blow to the ego.
But let me ask you a question
How well have those ideas served you up to this point?
If youre not having the success with women you want, and youre not connecting with women through conversations, then your ideas are holding you back.
In this book youll learn a whole new approach to conversation and dating. I encourage you to read it with an open mind. You may be familiar with some of the concepts. You may have an urge to get defensive when I discuss the conversation pitfalls. Instead of brushing them off and saying, I would never make those mistakes, I encourage you to get introspective and be honest with yourself.
But you cant just read a book and expect it to get you results. Your results are dependent on the amount of action you take based on your reading.
Thats why Ive made the system highly actionable. So, you can put it into use as youre reading.
If you do this, I can promise you your conversations will transform, youll attract more women, and youll start becoming the man youve always known you could be.
But before we get into the system, I want to take a second to introduce myself, present my qualifications for writing this book, and tell you why Im writing it
Who Am I to Write a Book About Conversation?
You might be thinking, Who is this guy, and what does he know about dating and conversation?
I get it man. Youve been fed shitty dating advice and creepy pickup tactics for years. Youre not about to trust your dating life with a random schmuck.
So let me introduce myself. My name is Dave Perrotta. Im a dating coach and the founder of PostGradCasanova.
And while I can rant about how Ive been featured on Simple Pickups Project Go or how my blog gets over 80,000 visits per month, I dont want to be a douche.