I T WAS THE SADDEST roll call I've ever heard. I'm Nelba; my daughter's name is Ana; she was six. I'm Mark; my son's name was Daniel; he was seven. I'm Nicole; my son's name is Dylan; he's six.
And on it went, as we sat around the table of a sterile conference room at a DC law firm, the confused and confusing mix of tenses signaling the freshness of loss, the impossibility of comprehending it yet. It was late January 2013, barely a month after the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School, and these were the families of some of the victims. Eleven of them had somehow summoned the strength to come to Washington to meet privately with Vice President Biden, members of Congress and cabinet members. But they weren't here simply to accept high-level condolences. They had come to listen and to learn about mental health and school safety policy. And they were preparing to wade into some of the roughest waters in American politics: the gun debate.
They were preparing to wade into some of the roughest waters in American politics: the gun debate.
I was there to help them navigate those waters. The families DC-based advisor had invited my organization, Third Waya group deeply involved with efforts to change the gun lawsto give them a sense of what they were in for.
At that moment, with teddy bears still adorning makeshift shrines all over Newtown, it seemed that progress on gun safety would be inevitable. President Obama had given a resolute speech in Connecticut vowing to fight for change, and members of Congress seemed to be reacting more like parents than politicians. Senator Joe Manchin, a gun-owning Democrat from West Virginia, said on television what many Americans were saying at their kitchen tables: They are killing our babies; this has got to stop.
As Joe Manchin knew, however, it was never going to be that simple. Time and again, high-profile gun crimesfrom assassinations to mass shootingshad seemed to galvanize public opinion. Yet time and again, this sense of urgency had faded, as the gun lobby slowed momentum in Congress to a crawl and then, often, to a halt.
I stood before the Sandy Hook families on that day in January to brief them on the basics of gun policy and politics. These are smart, educated people. They assumed that, in the wake of this horror, Congress would pass some long-overdue gun safety measures. By then, however, this much was already clear to the political classes: there wasn't going to be a renewed ban on assault weapons or high-capacity ammunition magazines, no matter how wrenching the scene in Newtown. Congress just didn't have the courage to take such a step. The Senate wouldn't pass it, and the House wouldn't even consider it.
When I broke this news to the families, one of the mothers let me know, gently but firmly, that I had screwed up. Don't tell us what can't be done, because we just aren't prepared to hear that, she said. Tell us that it could take time, which we can accept, because we're in this for the long haul. And tell us what we can do now to honor the memory of our children.
The Sandy Hook Promise
Never before had the families of the victims of a gun massacre come together with such a focused commitment to bring about legislative and social change to Washington. The group I was meeting with, Sandy Hook Promise (SHP), had gotten its start in Newtown in the days after the murders. It began as a gathering in one family's kitchen, with grief-stricken friends and neighbors of the victims vowing to support their community and to do something good for the country in the wake of such an overwhelming tragedy. Their promise was to listen and to learn, to promote dialogue, and to pursue common sense solutions in the areas of mental health, school safety and gun responsibility.
Staffed by a sea of volunteers from Newtown and led by a few business professionals who took leave from their jobs to run it, SHP grew with astonishing speed into a sophisticated, effective organization. They enlisted a highly respected Washington consultant, Ricki Seidman, to guide them, and she quickly assembled a team of advisors. Within weeks of the funerals, the staff and volunteers from the community, along with many of the victim families themselves, were already working the corridors of power in Hartford. Eventually, they partnered with Governor Dannel Malloy on a strong new gun safety bill for Connecticut that flew through the legislature and was signed into law less than three months after the murders. At the same time, they began coming to Washington, where they were hoping to achieve a similar result in Congress.
Tim Makris, the father of a Sandy Hook Elementary fourth-grader who was not hurt in the shootings, is a co-founder of SHP and runs it day-to-day. He and the other leaders of SHP were building the ship as it sailed, putting together an office, staffing it with volunteers, raising money, hiring consultants, tending to the many needs of the Sandy Hook community, and providing a support group for families of the victims as well as for those they call the survivorsthe 12 kids who made it out alive from the two classrooms that were under attack.
At the same time, Makris and the others, including some of the victim families themselves, were getting a crash-course on Senate procedure, gun policy and, most of all, gun politics. They were beginning to appreciate the degree of moral authority they would wield in this debateand also the severe limits on this unwanted new power.
A Short History of Gun Laws
Before the late 1960s, America had almost no federal or state gun laws. Buying a gun in most states was similar to buying a hammerone went to a store, picked out a model, paid and left, gun in hand.
After the assassinations of Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King, Jr., Congress passed the Gun Control Act of 1968. That law established classes of people banned from buying or possessing firearms: felons, undocumented immigrants, those dishonorably discharged from the military (a category included because of Lee Harvey Oswald) and others, including the mentally ill. The mental health prohibitions were narrow, applying only to those who had been found mentally ill by a court and those involuntarily committed to a mental institution. In later years, domestic abusers were added to the list. The Act also created a federal license for the sale of firearms and a set of rules that applied only to those in the business of selling guns. These Federal Firearms Licensees (FFLs) were, for example, barred from selling handguns to anyone under age 21.
The 1968 Act contained a rather large practical flaw: adherence to it was based on the honor system.
Commonsense as these provisions may have been, the 1968 Act contained a rather large practical flaw: adherence to it was based on the honor system. Because there was no verification method, those who were prohibited from gun ownership could still buy a gun as easily as they could buy beermore easily in the case of minors, because they at least had to show ID to purchase alcohol. Not surprisingly, few gun buyers volunteered to salespeople, Oh by the way, I'm a convicted felon. The law was toothless. And not only was it essentially unenforceable, it didn't apply even in theory to the many who sold guns but didn't choose to describe themselves as being in the gun business. And that was it for federal gun laws over the next 25 years. Some tried to do more. John Hinckley's attack on President Reagan in 1981 gravely wounded White House Press Secretary James Brady. Afterward, he and his wife Sarah became important advocates for new gun safety provisions.