adrienne maree brown is powerful both as a healer and as a thought leader. Her revelatory work, Holding Change , arrives at the intersection of activism and whole-wellness, at a time when the world needs it most. Holding Change is about improved communication, achieving conflict resolution, and making space for others while still holding ones self in high regard. A necessary and mighty tool.
adrienne maree brown is not an outsider looking into movement work but a weaver who has committed her life to our collective liberation She helped us advance our structure, systems, and vision in ways that allowed us to stay grounded in our north star. She is a master adapter and a gift to the movement.
Adrienne is the most powerful, insightful facilitator I have ever had the privilege to witness, let alone work with Her technique is a powerful demonstration of how strong, innovative facilitation has the ability to help leaders build visionary movements.
Foreword
My body of work is mostly about attention. I want to bring my attention, movement attention, and the flow of our human attention to the places we as a species most need to learn and grow.
With How to Get Stupid White Men Out of Office (2004), the focus was: how do we practice complex strategy that advances our organizing work while also harnessing our power to contend for electoral territory?
With Octavias Brood (2015), the focus was: how do we attend to, and liberate, imagination, recognizing that we must imagine what we want to create as a future society; imagine who we need to be in order to move and grow in life-affirming directions; and imagine solutions, even when we are told we have reached an impossible problem or condition?
With Emergent Strategy (2017), the focus was: how do we attend to being part of the living world? How do we learn from nature, from the constant force and beauty and power of this planet, and how do we partner with change?
With Pleasure Activism (2019), the focus was: how do we attend to, and reclaim, pleasure, satisfaction, and joy, in and as the work of justice and liberation?
With We Will Not Cancel Us (2020), the focus was: how do we attend to the ways we treat each other within movement, and how do we cultivate an abolitionist attention for humans who make mistakes?
Now, with this book, the focus is: how do we attend to our collectivity in ways that align with nature, with pleasure, with our best imagining of our future, that support the ways we contend for power, that support our visionary abolitionist movements? Which is to say, how do we attend to generating the ease necessary to help us move through the inevitable struggles of life and change? How do we practice the art of holding others without losing ourselves?
This book is about attending to coordination, to conflict, to being humans in authentic and functional relationship with each othernot as a constant ongoing state, but rather a magnificent, mysterious ever-evolving dynamic in which we must involve ourselves, shape ourselves and each other.
Thank you for bringing your attention to this work.
Opening
Holding Space, Holding Change
Welcome to this offering on holding space, or holding change, which can also be spoken of as the sacred way of facilitation and mediation. This is the Opening, and it is my intention in these first pages to give you everything you need to most effectively use this book.
Holding change is a variation of holding space. I use it to distinguish my use from others, but also to foreground that this is the emergent strategy approach to holding collective work, and emergent strategy understands that all is change. Space is never fixed by literal, physical dimensions. It varies according to histories, dynamics, emotional nuances, moods, pressures. It does change. It is change. We hold space for each other to change at the individual and collective level. I will use the terms interchangeably throughout this text.
You picked up this book because you hold space for others, and want to weave your ways and these ways into something exquisite.
Or you got this book because you want to hold change, and hold it well.
Ormaybe youre just like, what exactly is holding change?
Do you remember being young, guided in an exercise of breathing
Breathe with me now, either visualizing or practicing:
In front of you is a ball of energy. It is yours, an extension of you. It hovers in the air, shifting with your attention.
Breathe out while pushing this invisible ball of energy away from you.
Breathe in, bringing the energy into and all around you.
Breathe out, move it up above your head, spreading it into a massive glorious umbrella.
Breathe in, bring it back to center and hold it there.
Breathe out and take it down through your bones to the floor.
Breathe in, rolling back up and bring the energy back into your heart.
Keep breathing.
Whenever I breathe this deeply with others, I feel calm, I feel how solid this presence, this energy, is, in me, in my handseven when I am time traveling from the moment of me writing this to the moment of your reading it.
Since I was young, in most rooms, I could sense the tangiblethe demographics, the looks on peoples faces, the body language, the excitement or exhaustion. But I could alsocan alsofeel the room, feel the matrix of the intangible, invisible, the space between the bodies, the space that is fed by our collective emotion. It feels thick and vibrant to me, nearly solid at times.
Do you feel it?
It has taken me a long time to understand all the things I feel, all the feelings that are possible. Sometimes, there are thrills up and across the top of my spine and shoulders. Or a trembling in my gut. Or deep roots extending down from my hands and feet, growing wide under the room.