ADVANCE PRAISE
For over twenty-five years, Rosalynn Carter has been educating America about mental illness. Her efforts to destigmatize the issue and advocate for those affected are nothing short of extraordinary. Her sensitive book is an invaluable guide to all whose lives are touched by mental illness.
B etty F ord
With her new book, Mrs. Carter not only recognizes the impact this disease has on individuals, but also the toll it can take on family and friends. This insightful guide is a valuable resource for anyone whose life has been affected by mental illness.
T ipper G ore , mental health policy advisor to the President
With this compassionate and singularly helpful book, Rosalynn Carter continues her impressive public service commitment to the mentally ill. It should prove extremely useful to family members, patients, and community professionals.
K ay R edfield J amison , professor of psychiatry, Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, and author of An Unquiet Mind
An important resource for families, friends, and those facing the challenges of mental illness. It delivers its message with warmth, clarity, and candor.
L aurie F lynn , executive director, National Alliance for the Mentally Ill.
Rosalynn Carterno surprisehas done her homework, and has put together a thorough, compassionate, specific, and eminently useful handbook for those who themselves suffer from mental illness and especially for families and friends who must deal with the fallout and the stigma.
M ike W allace
Family and friends will want to turn to Mrs. Carters book first for empathy, information, and advice.
C. E verett K oop , M.D.
Mrs. Carters book offers an amazing amount of good information and a clear, compassionate perspective of mental health issues and the needs of individuals and families touched by mental illnesses.
M ichael M. F aenza , M.S.S.W., president and CEO, National Mental Health Association
A compassionate, very valuable book. Rosalynn Carter reminds us why she was, and is, such a beloved first lady.
J oanne W oodward
Rosalynn Carter has given us an extraordinary book, invaluable to those whose families and friends are touched by mental illness. She gives reason for hope and also wonderful guidance on compassionate, sensitive caring.
H erb P ardes , M.D., dean of the faculty of medicine, Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons
Youre walking out of the doctors office, stunned. What, a member of my family has mental illness? Where do I turn first? Let me recommend Mrs. Carters book as a great comfort and source of information.
T ony R andall
Mrs. Carter says what needs to be said: That mental illnesses are real, that they can be diagnosed, and that effective treatments exist. This is a book that will inform and offer hope to individuals and families who today are grappling with the still grim realities of disabling mental disorders.
S teven E. H yman , M.D., director, National Institute of Mental Health
This book will demystify mental illness for those of us who suffer from it and for those who suffer because of us. I have no doubt its going to help erase so much of the stigma attached to what is seen by so many people as either a character weakness or something evil. I especially appreciate the emphasis on prevention and management of mental illness through awareness and vigilance.
M argot K idder
This book is a prescription for actiona blueprint for transforming ignorance to knowledge, passivity to power, and most important, despair to hope.
M artha M. M anning , Ph.D., author of Undercurrents: A Life Beneath the Surface
A book like this is most important for a truly compassionate and enlightening picture of the pain and suffering of mental illnesses. It also offers the definite possibility of hope. Mrs. Carter should be saluted for her passionate dedication.
R od S teiger
A very informative book that puts a human face on a much-misunderstood problem. It will help those who suffer and their families who love them.
A lma P owell
This is a remarkable account by the foremost advocate for improving our understanding of mental health and mental illness. Mrs. Carter shows us lucidly how this understanding will lead to improved care of those who are ill and how to combat the stigma long associated with mental illness. This book should be widely read to move us toward a more informed, compassionate society.
J ulius B. R ichmond , M.D., professor of health policy, Department of Social Medicine, Harvard Medical School, and former assistant secretary of health and Surgeon General, and first director of the National Head Start Program
Also by Rosalynn Carter
First Lady from Plains
Everything to Gain: Making the Most of the Rest of Your Life
(with Jimmy Carter)
Helping Yourself Help Others: A Book for Caregivers
(with Susan K. Golant)
The identities of all individuals to whom we have referred by first name only in this book have been disguised in name and physical description to protect their privacy.
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Copyright 1998, 1999 by Rosalynn Carter
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Originally published by Times Books in 1998.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Carter, Rosalynn.
Helping someone with mental illness / Rosalynn Carter, with Susan K. Golant.
1. Mental illnessPopular works. 2. Consumer education.
I. Golant, Susan K. II. Title.
RC454.4.C373 1998
616.89dc21 97-39218
eISBN: 978-0-307-80725-0
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To all those who have taught me, guided me, and worked with me since I became involved with mental health issues.
Acknowledgments
This is a book I have wanted to write for a long time. So much progress has been made in the mental health field just in the last decade. With our new knowledge of the brain, medications and treatment methods for mental illnesses have changed dramatically. These illnesses can now be diagnosed, they can be treated, and the overwhelming majority of people who suffer can lead normal livesliving at home, working, being productive citizens. I want everyone to know that. I want them to know that most mental illnesses are biologically based, and that there should be no reason for shame or embarrassment if they or a member of their family is mentally ill, and that there is no need to suffer unnecessarily when help is available.
This book would not have been possible without the help of many people who have taught me, guided me, and worked with me since I became involved in the mental health field. I want to thank them and express my gratitude for their assistance and support over the years.
I am grateful to the staff of The Carter Center mental health program and our task force for their daily help and for the inspiration for this book. I am especially indebted to John Gates, Ph.D., the director of the program, who read the manuscript as it was taking shape and offered many helpful suggestions.