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KIND SCHOOLS
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HOW TO CREATE
KIND SCHOOLS
12 EXTRAORDINARY PROJECTS MAKING SCHOOLS HAPPIER AND HELPING EVERY CHILD FIT IN
JENNY HULME
FOREWORD BY CLAUDE KNIGHTS, CEO OF KIDSCAPE
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Jessica Kingsley Publishers
London and Philadelphia
Picture credits: Anthony Horowitz Jon Cartwright (courtesy of Walker Books); Jill Halfpenny Kidscape; Jamie Oliver The Princes Trust; David Charles Manners Diversity Role Model; Baroness Janet Whitaker Friends, Families and Travellers; Henry Winkler Achievement for All; David Domoney Thrive; Jane Asher The National Autistic Society; Linda Jasper Brian Slater; Michael Sheen Carers Trust; Jack Jacobs Beat; Ade Adepitan Kelly Hill.
First published in 2015
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and
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Copyright Jenny Hulme 2015
Foreword copyright Claude Knights 2015
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Contents
Foreword
Kidscape was launched 30 years ago, the first charity in the UK to really examine the culture of school bullying. It remains at the forefront of new techniques and support, and brings its wealth of expertise to consultations with the government on issues affecting children, to teacher training, to the media and to the thousands of parents and children who contact the charity each year.
Kidscape sees the phenomenal work schools do every day to protect the children in their care. It has, though, learned with and from teachers that the culture of the classroom and playground can create an environment where bullying still exists and even thrives. Teachers know better than anyone that children need to feel safe and happy if they are going to learn and so fulfil their potential, and they also know how bullying can sabotage that. They understand how it can have a devastating impact on those feelings of security and happiness, and on childrens learning and results.
This book asks some pertinent questions why do children bully, why does a culture of bullying still exist, and what can be done about it? It sees Kidscape bringing together a whole group of different charities, each with their own specific aims and objectives, but who all at the end of the day are trying to answer those questions and share the single hope of ensuring that no child goes into or comes home from school feeling scared, isolated or excluded. And it visits schools across the UK working with those charities to create safer, happier and more inclusive settings. The schools have some great stories to tell, about how it is sometimes the simplest ideas, and the smallest shifts in attitude, which can have the most marvellous effect enriching not only the life of the child who has struggled to fit in, but also the life of every child in their class. These stories show us how children when given the skills, support, setting and opportunity can be a force for change, the schools most powerful tool in tackling bullying and creating kinder schools. What better way to celebrate Kidscapes anniversary than to share these stories with you.
Claude Knights, CEO, Kidscape
Acknowledgements
I am so grateful to all the schools and charities, parents and students who shared their experiences and expertise with me during the writing of this book, and to the charity ambassadors who spoke to me about the issues and charities close to their heart. I am indebted to Peter Bradley and the team at Kidscape for helping me bring this publication to life. My thanks, too, to my editors at JKP, to Ian Whybrow, Ali Filder, Liz Eddowes and Vanessa Greatorex for their support, and to Mark Blayney for all the wise words and advice. This is for all the children who want and so deserve to fit in and be happy at school, for my parents who taught me how much kindness matters, and for my own children (pictured here, with the wonderful Henry Winkler) who inspired and helped me to write this book.
Jenny Hulme
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Introduction
What Makes a Kinder School?
A school where everyone feels valued where there is a more equitable balance of power benefits everyone, including the bullies and the bystanders.
PETER BRADLEY, DIRECTOR OF SERVICES, KIDSCAPE
Every month you will read about a young person, or more than one, who has taken their life as a result of being bullied. And for every suicide there are dozens of failed attempts. The Carers Trust reports that over half of school-age carers in the UK (and it suggests there may be 700,000) are bullied. The National Autistic Society says that over 700,000 children have autism (70% are taught in mainstream settings), and at least four out of ten are bullied. The Childrens Society says that 63 per cent of young Travellers have been bullied or attacked, and Diversity Role Models (DRM) reports a shocking rise in homophobic bullying. According to one survey, some 66 per cent of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) students suffer bullying at school, and half of them skip classes as a result. Many more charities direct their resources to picking up the pieces once children have left school without either the results or self-worth they need to progress, and they know that bullying features frequently in their stories.
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