Stefanie Iris Weiss - The Fate of Your Date: Divination for Dating, Mating, and Relating

We dedicate this book to you, dear reader, in your pursuit of true love. Your fate is waiting for you: go forth and find it.

F ROM DEEP IN THE TRENCHES OF THE DATING WARS , you, dear reader, have called to us. And after hearing one too many stories of found-and-immediately-lost love, tales of perfectly intelligent women losing their heads over a simple date, we decided to write this book. The stilettos, the perfume, and great conversation help you land those dates, of course. But when it comes to the front end of a potential relationship, nothing gets you answers faster than a little divination.

Before we get started, lets clear up a persistent myth: divination is not just the stuff of psychics, palmists, and astrologers born with elusive, exclusive gifts. These diviners have simply worked hard to refine innate, subtle talents into usable practices. You also have gifts, darling; youve just been too busy creating your life to develop them. All of this stuff is not really as mystical as you might think. Simply put, our minds are extremely powerful, but most are not trained to grasp all the information that continuously bombards us on so many levels. Any quantum theorist will tell you the same thing. The stimuli we encounter each moment are far beyond what normal human cognition can comprehend. The truth is out there. The divinatory arts simply help us to see the unseen. And that aint mystical; its just plain smart.

The Fate of Your Date aims to demystify the mystical, and make the ancient practices practical, once and for all. We created this book as a one-stop divination source for all things dating; a compendium of the best of the metaphysical arts. Are you ready to get closer? Is your date? Will your potential mate call? Will you call first? As a sexy, single, and available fish that doesnt need a bicycle but wouldnt mind taking a nice ride on one, you need to know if youve got a catch of the day, week, or lifetime (or if you need to throw your date back and recast that line). The Fate of Your Date is here to help.

We understand that each crucial dating stage calls for its own approach, so for ease of use weve divided the book into three sections: before, during, and after the date. The Before section outlines astrology, numerology, and tarot to help you with the inevitable Should I or shouldnt I momentyou know, that instant in the bar or the coffee shop or online when youre sizing up your specimen. Once you decide to pursue the date, you can move on to the During section. Here youll learn how to use divinatory arts such as palmistry and face reading while youre on the actual date. Find out whether a second date is worth your while, do a little bit of getting to know you, and dabble in some Jungian symbol reading. Finally, the After section helps you size up the potential of a relationship with dream analysis, white magic, and psyche-divining. You can undertake each of these divinatory arts surreptitiously, or you can completely give up the New Age goodseach art can be practiced openly or on the down low. Its your choice.

Now, even though the book is broken up into Before, During, and After sections, we encourage you to mix it up. You can use the astrology chapter after your third or fourth date, or after your fifth year of marriage, for example. You can consult the Spell Craft chapter before the date, and apply some of the principles of white magic even before your doorbell has rung. Take your pickuse just one divinatory art or all of them at once. Reading this book will help you hone your intuition. Thats one of the fundamentals of divinationgetting your gut to do the dirty work, and letting your mind take a rest for once. Whether youre reading a palm, pulling a tarot card, or analyzing a recent dream, your instincts are where its at.

Some folks believe that first impressions provide all the information we need about a person, that the initial energy exchange trumps all subsequent conversations, overtures, and courtship rituals. Since we humans are still far from using most of the gray matter were born with, evolution still has a long way to go before we can effectively eliminate in the first ten seconds of a meeting those who will hurt, fail, and disappoint us. This is why everyone needs a divinatory toolbox to draw from. Welcome to your very own.