HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS
EUGENE, OREGON
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To protect the privacy of individuals who completed the authors housekeeping surveys and/or shared their stories, names have been changed throughout this book.
Some graphics inside this book were created by Linda Moye, with additional graphics by Amy Starns. Used by permission.
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THE HOUSE THAT CLEANS ITSELF
Copyright 2007, 2013 by Mindy Starns Clark
Published by Harvest House Publishers
Eugene, Oregon 97402
www.harvesthousepublishers.com
ISBN 978-0-7369-4987-3 (pbk.)
ISBN 978-0-7369-4988-0 (eBook)
The Library of Congress has cataloged the edition as follows:
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Clark, Mindy Starns.
The house that cleans itself / Mindy Starns Clark.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-0-7369-1880-0 (pbk.)
1. House cleaning. 2. Christian life. I. Title
TX324.C576 2007
648'.5dc22
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Dedicated with much love to my dear friend Kay Justus.
Thanks for putting up with me as a roommate all those years ago, in college and beyond, when housekeeping was a vague intention, the vacuum cleaner mostly served as a coatrack, and the oven was for hiding dirty dishes .
That was then, this is now
Many thanks to
My husband, John, for loving me so completely, even in the midst of mess. You are my helpmate, soul mate, and best friend.
My daughters, Emily and Lauren, the most supportive kids a mom could ever ask for.
Kim Moore, my beloved editor and dear friend; Barbara Gordon; and all of the amazing folks at Harvest House Publishers.
Helen Lerner, MD, for invaluable insight into the psychological aspects of housekeeping issues.
Thanks also to
Dr. Gadget Dave Dettman, Helen Styer Hannigan, Hannah Keeley, Elisa Marshall, Linda Moye, Amy Starns, Jackie Starns, Vanessa Thompson, Shari Weber, Joy Williams and the Memphis HTCI Sistas, and the ever-helpful members of CONSENSUS and ChiLibris.
I am deeply indebted to those who were willing to share their deepest messy-house secrets, fears, questions, problems, feelings, and challenges during the process of writing and later updating The House That Cleans Itself . To protect the privacy of these generous people and their families, I have changed most of the names used throughout this book. Thus, to all of my anonymous helpers, you know who you are, and my hope is you will see how your own transparency has helped so many others who face the same struggles. Thank you!
Finally, my heartfelt gratitude goes out to everyone who has given this system a chance since it first came out and then took the time to provide feedback through e-mails, reviews, blogs, comments, letters, and more. Your input has had a tremendous impact on the new and improved version of this book. You have blessed and encouraged me more than you can imagine!
Contents
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By wisdom a house is built , and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures .
Proverbs 24:3-4
What to Expect from This Book
The House That Cleans Itself is a how-to guide that reveals, step-by-step, a unique and creative system that will:
take a house that tends to be messy and turn it into a house that tends to be neat
take a cleaning routine that takes up far too much time and turn it into a cleaning routine that is shockingly fast
turn family members mess-inducing behaviors into naturally tidy behaviors , often without them even realizing it
take a life where the minutes are eaten away by ordinary household tasks and turn it into a life with time to spare for things that really count
take a person who feels like a failure in caring for his or her home and change that person into someone who is unburdened, unashamed, and successful in caring for the home
As you can see, the House That Cleans Itself System is designed to make your home easier to keep clean, easier to manage, and easier to enjoy than ever before.
Let the redeemed of the L ORD tell their story Let them give thanks to the L ORD for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind .
P SALM 107:2,8
T o say Ive struggled with housekeeping my whole life would be an understatement. As a child I had to carve paths through my toys just to get into bed at night. Later, as a young woman on my own, I was still carving paths, ones that wound throughout my apartment. Its not that I liked living that way, but I just couldnt seem to get a handle on all of my stuff, even as an adult.
In my late twenties, once I was engaged to be married, I decided it was time to get my act together. I naively assumed the mere resolve to change was all it would take. With enough willpower and determination I really would be able to keep a neat and orderly home for the first time in my life.
Oh, boy. Was I in for a surprise.
Lets just say that once I was married and settled into my first home, I really did try. I tried as hard as I could, in fact, and of course my sweet husband pitched in as he was able. But with law school each day and work each night, he was juggling more than I was, so the bulk of the cleaning fell to me. It didnt take long to see that the battle, once again, was going to be lost. Somehow I managed to keep things from getting to the path-carving level, but keeping our home clean remained a daily struggle between the mess and me. As it turned out, willpower and determination were no match for my innate tendency toward clutter and chaos.
Adding two children into the mix over the next few years only made a bad situation worse. I loved being a wife and mother, and I wanted our home to be a place of peace and rest, not disarray and disorder. But when it came to housekeeping, the childrens added mess turned out to be the straw that broke the camels back, especially because I was also working a part-time job and trying to become a writer on the side. With no spare time, no energy, and no cleaning skills, I would have raised a white flag if I could, but staying home with the kids meant forgoing certain luxuries such as maids or cleaning services. Besides, despite my past failures and my limited homemaking skills, I persisted in the notion that I could do better if only I tried harder.