Stephanie Thomas - The Little Book of Rest : 100+ Ways to Relax and Restore Your Mind, Body, and Soul

The Little Book of Rest

100+ Ways to Relax and Restore Your Mind, Body, and Soul

Stephanie Thomas

To Lady and Bo, the best dogs in the worldand the perfect examples of how to relax and enjoy every day.

When most people hear the word rest, they immediately think of taking naps or sleeping. Although these are effective ways to unwind, this book will show you there are many more ways to incorporate relaxation into your day that dont involve sleep.

The Little Book of Rest is intended to shift your mindset from viewing rest and relaxation as privileges you can take part in only after you have completed everything else on your never-ending to-do list, to realizing that rest and relaxation need to be a priority because theyre essential for your overall health and well-being. Healthy living requires taking care of yourself as a wholemind, body, and spirit. Throughout this book, youll learn the importance of taking time to rest and relax and how beneficial and necessary rest and relaxation are for healthy living. Youll also discover more than one hundred simple activities you can do all day long to experience more peace and tranquility in your life.

Adding restful and relaxing activities into your day doesnt have to be just another tedious task on your to-do list. Unlike other self-care activities that require large amounts of time or energy, the activities in this book are simple, are enjoyable, and require minimal efforttheyre things youll genuinely look forward to!

The Little Book of Rest has four chapters: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. The activities range from different forms of light physical activity such as foam rolling and restorative yoga, to meditative and mindfulness practices such as deep breathing and coloring. Youll also find healing emotional release practices such as allowing yourself to cry, screaming with a friend, and releasing judgment, as well as enlightening spiritual practices such as spending time alone, spending time in silence, and spending time in prayer.

As you flip through the following pages, choose your favorite activities from each chapter, and start taking some much-needed time to rest and relax!

Learning to properly rest your physical body is crucial to your well-being. Rest does not necessarily mean doing nothing. The activities in this chapter will give you the opportunity to explore various forms of nonstrenuous physical activities such as walking and stretching, helpful practices for being more in tune with your body such as tai chi and slow flow yoga, and simple tools for relaxing and healing your body such as acupressure and restorative yoga.

Choose the activities that you believe will be the most enjoyable and beneficial for you and give them a try. Youll quickly realize that not all physical activities deplete your energy; some physical activities such as walking in nature and starting a new workout routine may actually boost your energy and make you feel even better than taking a nap would.

A sense of ease should guide your approach to physical activity. By engaging in restorative and replenishing types of movement, you facilitate healing and recovery in your body. When you move through life with ease and prioritize rest and relaxation, positive energy will fill every aspect of your life.

Try Foam Rolling

Would you like a do-it-yourself massage? Foam rolling, known as self-myofascial release, helps release tension in your muscles, reduces inflammation and soreness, and increases joint flexibility. In fact, this activity can relax your muscles so much that youll feel as if youve just had a full body massage, leaving you better able to rest.

This muscle relaxation tool is typically cylindrical and made with dense foam. Foam rollers are available in various shapes and sizes, as well as different degrees of firmness so you can decide how intense you want the rollers to feel. You can find them in the fitness or sporting goods section at your local store or online.

A few tips:

• Be gentle at first. Start with light pressure by using your hands to lift your body weight over the roller, instead of fully sinking into it.
• Roll on a muscle for at least thirty seconds. When you reach a painful or sore area, hold it there for a few seconds and slowly increase the pressure for ten seconds.
• Some important places to target are your legs, glutes, and upper back.
• After youve completed your rolling session, drink plenty of water, and stay hydrated throughout the day.

Start your foam rolling practice by foam rolling for ten minutes once per week. If you enjoy it, do it as frequently as you like.

Practice the Legs-Up-the-Wall Pose

Legs-Up-the-Wall is a restorative yoga pose that focuses on relaxing and releasing tension. The soothing nature of this pose elicits the relaxation response, a neurological response that pulls you out of fight-or-flight mode and brings you into a state of rest and digest. In this state, anxiety and stress are reduced, immunity is strengthened, muscle tension is released, and a feeling of general well-being envelops you.

To practice the Legs-Up-the-Wall Pose:

1. Find a bare wall and sit with your right side against the wall. Then, slowly lie back and rotate your body as you swing your legs up against the wall so that the bottoms of your feet are facing the ceiling.
2. Scoot in toward the wall so that your tailbone is as close to the wall as possible. Let your legs relax into the wall, keeping a slight bend in your knees if your hamstrings are tight.
3. If you prefer a little more cushioning, place a folded blanket under your head.
4. Rest with your arms by your sides, palms up.
5. Completely relax your legs and the rest of your body, and just breathe slowly for five to ten minutes.

Take a Relaxing Bubble Bath

A bubble bath might sound like a luxury, but it is a simple way to relax your body and mind. The warmth and weight of the water will make you feel like youre in a safe cocoon. Adding bubbles to your bath will bring out your inner child and playful spirit. Simply lying back and relaxing in a bathtub can help clear your mind of worries and stressors from the day.

Not only do baths help you relax mentally, but they also are beneficial to your physical body. Soaking in warm water can reduce inflammation, relieve muscle pain, and alleviate tension in your body. Adding Epsom salts or essential oils can also help with this!

You dont need anything fancy to make a bubble bath feel like a special treat, and why not treat yourself regularly? Just use your favorite bubble bath mix, bath bomb, or bath salts and enjoy the soothing benefits. While relaxing in the tub, you can listen to calming music or read a couple of chapters in a good book.

Bubble baths can quickly become part of your evening routine and will give you something to look forward to throughout a stressful day.