Rebecca Taylor - Home Remedy Secrets To Overcoming Premature Ejaculation: Tips To Lasting Longer In Bed From Day One

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Home Remedy Secrets to Overcoming Premature Ejaculation

by Rebecca Taylor

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Premature Ejaculation in Men

Introduction

Premature ejaculation is one of the most widely talked about subject in the men's world. As it poses a significant problem to the masculine fold, most men who have the issue do not fancy talking about it with anyone, unless they get in contact with some trustworthy doctor or friend.

Truth be told, not everyone likes to blab about their sex life, or in this case, dysfunctions, with other people. The larger percentage of persons prefers to keep it a secret and stay out of discoverys way.

Premature ejaculation, something very peculiar to men, is not in any way an unserious issue, as many have found themselves with the condition, and usually are oblivious of what led to it, what to do about it, and how to go about solving the problem.

Sadly, many men do not know they have the problem, as some of them remain sexually inactive until a certain period in their lives when they get in contact with the opposite sex, and the sudden realization that they dont last in bed throws them into phases of self-doubt and misery.

Premature ejaculation, according to Wikipedia, occurs when a man experiences orgasm and expels semen soon after sexual activity and with minimal penile stimulation. In some genres, it is called early ejaculation or premature climax, usually, because it happens all too soon during sex, leaving the man disappointed and frustrated, and the woman unsatisfied.

There are no standard cut-off times for defining how long a man should last in bed, but a team of experts at the International Society for Sexual Medicine endorsed a definition including ejaculation which always or nearly always occurs prior to or within about one minute. The International Classification of Diseases says that premature ejaculation usually occurs within 15 seconds or less after engaging in sexual intercourse.

To both sexes, premature ejaculation often causes distress. But particularly for men, it devastates and makes them crawl up into their shells, avoiding relationships due to shame and fear of being discovered.

Overtly, the premature ejaculation problem affects more males than females, as the distress level in the latter is lesser, as most of them do not have issues concerning the men not being able to have a swell time with them.

However, some women do fall to distress due to under- satisfaction, not just nymphomaniacs but averagely sexually-active females too. Statistics show that one out of every ten men experiences difficulty in lasting longer in bed at some point in their life. It interferes substantially with the sexual pleasures of the man or his partner.

When it occurs on a widespread footing, it becomes a medical problem. Moreover, there are some claims that premature ejaculation is a psychological state of being, while some say its biological and others claim it is a distinctly medical state. In the United States, one out of every three men of 18 to 59 years old has problems with premature ejaculation.

Also, some experts say that in every mans life, once or twice, despite the fact that he may be sexually healthy, he experiences premature ejaculation.

The second Ad Hoc International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM) Committee for the Definition of Premature Ejaculation defined acquired premature ejaculation as a male sexual dysfunction characterized by the development of a clinically significant and bothersome reduction in ejaculation latency time in men with previous normal ejaculatory experiences, often about 3 minutes or less, the inability to delay ejaculation on all or nearly all vaginal penetrations, and the presence of negative personal consequences, such as distress, bother, frustration and /or the avoidance of sexual intimacy. In some cases of the literature, it is called an erectile dysfunction or a sexual performance anxiety prostatitis.

In the psychological approach, consensus about the definition of premature ejaculation has never been reached due to conflicting ideas about the essence of the syndrome (Marcel Waldinger). Waldinger goes further to say that Masters and Johnson and Kaplan suggested qualitative descriptions, i.e., female partner satisfaction or mans voluntary control.

Masters and Johnson defined premature ejaculation as the mans inability to inhibit ejaculation long enough to satisfy his partner 50% of the time. Waldinger says that this definition regarding a partner's response is rather inadequate since it implies that any male who is unable to satisfy his partner 50% of sexual situations could be labeled a premature ejaculator and since it would also imply that females "should" be satisfied on 50% of the intercourse.

Waldinger went further in positing that another way to define premature ejaculation is by using quantitative measures such as the duration latency, or the number of thrusts prior to ejaculation.

Definitions according to the length of time prior to ejaculation, varied from 1-7 minutes after vaginal intromission. Waldinger says that these cut-off points were not derived by objective measurements, but were subjectively chosen by the various authors.

Premature ejaculation according to him, was a matter of (many) minutes, and men who ejaculated within seconds were qualified as severe cases, and that equally subjective cut-off points have been proposed for the number of thrusts as a criterion for premature ejaculation: ejaculation within 8-15 thrusts.

The central nervous system controls ejaculation. When men are having sexual intercourse and are stimulated, there are a number of signals sent to the brain and spinal cord. All men do not have the same levels of excitement, and as such as do not all have the same ejaculatory brain signal system.

When a man reaches his level of excitement, signals are sent from the brain to the reproductive organs. These signals trigger hormones and other bodily chemical compounds, causing semen to be released through the penis. The sperm moves from the testicles to the prostate and mixes with seminal fluid to make semen.

To expel the semen, the muscles of the base of the penis contract when orgasm has been reached. It is, therefore, safe to say that usually, orgasm and ejaculation occur at the same time. However, some men have been found to reach the peak of sexual excitement without ejaculating. Sometimes, an erectile dysfunction may be the cause of premature ejaculation, being a case of a man not being able to get or keep an erection that is firm enough for sex.

Usually, the erection goes away after ejaculation, making it hard to know if it is a case of pure erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation or a compendium of both. Due to this, most men are often thrown in a quagmire, unable to differentiate which from which, and identifying which one it is that bothers them.

According to Wikipedia, although men with premature ejaculation describe the feeling that they have less control over ejaculating, it is not clear if that is true, and many or most average men also report they wish they could last longer.

Generally, after all is said and done about the horologic calculations, men's typical ejaculatory latency is approximately 4-8 minutes. The opposite condition, in which men spend too much exhaustive time during sexual intercourse before ejaculating, is called delayed ejaculation. A biologist, Hong argued that premature ejaculation in men is nothing but an evolutionary adaption to enable men to pass on their genes quickly and rapidly.