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The changes in the perception and experience of sexuality have been especially intense in the last fifty years. We are coming together sharing consensuses such as gender equality, tolerance, and respect for the diversity of options, happiness, and sexual pleasure as a human right, free choice of partner, prevention, and safe sex. In the following pages, you will know the positive aspect of the process of cultural change regarding sex. This transformation occurs simultaneously with the reality of frustration and sexual violence that saddens and discharges thousands of people. Further, it seriously hampers their chances of self-realization and of establishing positive relationships and coexistence.
The Maximum In Pleasure
Do you remember that moment of greater intensity in your sexual experience? What is objectively the maximum pleasure in sex? I answer the first question from my personal experience. The most important have been those moments when an intense energetic and sensitive excitement vibrates throughout my body, combined with a corresponding flow of love, sharing a broader state of consciousness as a couple, flooded by the joy and gratitude of being alive, of being "Humans", of traveling in our spacecraft in the earths sky - universe to which we belong.
Pure individual excitement is minor in nature however intense it may seem. To enjoy a higher level of awareness and loving surrender, it is essential to advance decisively in overcoming basic selfishness, characterized by the use of others as a means for individual satisfaction.
The word "individual" is a key clue to advance in the midst of these mysteries. If the word is separated: "IN-DIVIDUAL", it is simple to understand that an "individual" is a being in fullness; one who is not divided and works in interaction with the various planes of reality. The individual unites the human being and his environment (the universe that shelters him).
This vision of the term individual is nourished by the teachings of the Swiss psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung, ecologists, and ancestral teachers. It constitutes an essential concept in the transcendental change of socio-cultural paradigms that the human species experiences today. We are moving from disintegration to unity.
The prevailing lifestyle is based on the central idea that the individual or person is different, is not a part of the world, and is a subject an island in constant conflict with other islands and continents to obtain satisfaction to their multiple needs, one of them being sex.
The great pleasure hardly arises in people and coexistence centered on the selfish - individualistic eagerness. Prisoners of mechanistic and consumerist materialism, most human beings spend fortunes on appearing attractive and sexy, on perverted sexual compensation, or on therapies to cure the serious personality disorders that generate frustration or alterations of sexuality.
The experience of sexual fullness is much deeper and more intense than the mere explosive relief of an eagerly sought climax. For people of common cultural information, the standards of pleasure indicated by teachers and teachers of Tantrism and Taoism may appear as intimidating, almost impossible to achieve. The amount of time of shared enjoyment is one of the main variables for urban beings tormented by time. Five continuous hours, three days in a row and one hour a quarter without ejaculating are some of the infamous marks of such practices.
Hundreds of years ago, a Chinese emperor advisor put the rod high: "Less than a thousand penetrations during the meeting is frankly unsatisfactory".
These shocking but certain records are due to a different cultural context. Ancient China of Taoism, remote India of Tantrism, and other such cultures encouraged learning and practicing a more evolved sexuality. In sexual Tantrism that dedication generated rituals, ceremonies, and initiatory keys which limited its reach to a select group of adepts who devoted their lives to these practices.
Good sex operates as a force that relaxes, expands, and charges the whole being, completely different from the anxious search for an explosive climax, which after its fierce discharge, condemns us to the exhaustion of the body and the emptiness of the heart. The ultimate in sex is the "common-union" in joy, goodness, and love. People love to express themselves in different ways and sex is definitely one of the means of communicating. The more you express yourself during sex, the closer you will feel with your partner. There are couples that are known to enjoy sex once a month however that single occasion is sufficient for them to communicate with each other.
While we learn more about sex in this book, you need to make sure that you evaluate your relationship and see where you are heading. You need to be ready to try new things while ensuring that you do not force your partner to do something he or she does not want to. We hope this guide can help you take your relationship to the next level and bring you closer to your partner. Begin your wonderful journey into the pleasurable world of sex.
Chapter 1 - Climax versus Orgasm
Typically, the basic thing is to progressively increase the intensity of the excitement to a point of joyful explosion. Then, everything falls quickly pulsations, erection, contact, etc. If there is a crush, it leads to kisses, caresses, and a warm hug. If it was just sex, it leads to bland conversation, cigarettes, instant shower, and a rush to leave. That is the climax.
Without hurry, a woman and a man freely meet. The intensity of the excitement flows placid, some initial erotic games achieve moments of full pleasure, even before penetration. The erection becoming more consistent, vaginal lubrication, etc. are clear indications, to begin with.