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To my friends: Andrea (Virgo), Brandon (Virgo), Colin (Gemini), Davina (Sagittarius), Elena (Scorpio), Katie (Leo), Lauren (Scorpio), Linda (Aries), Mariko (Virgo), Monica (Aries), Rob (Capricorn), and Stu (Taurus). And to best friends: Mom (Aries) and Dad (Pisces).
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Introduction
It is said that friends are the family you choose. And where would you be without your friends? They help celebrate your victories, support you in your traumas and dramas, and always make you laugh. They lend their shoulders for you to cry on, their ears for when you need to vent, and their beautiful hearts to shower you with love. Your friendships help give meaning to your life, allowing you to feel connected to the world around you in deep, intimate ways. So how do you know when youve met the peanut butter to your jelly? Better still, how can you further understand the friendships you have now? You could say that its written in the stars.
Astrology helps you gain a better understanding of who you are and how you relate to the world around youspecifically within your relationships with others. Every zodiac sign carries a unique energy, which can either connect to or repel your own astrological energy. Understanding someones Sun sign will give you a personal guide to cultivating a happy, lasting friendship. In Friendship Signs , youll discover things that you may not have known about a friend, such as how they handle conflict, what their friendship values are, and whether or not their idea of a fun Saturday night aligns with yours. As you read the Friendship Compatibility sections, keep in mind that many different combinations of Sun signs have experienced lifelong friendships. Sun signs tell only a portion of the story. Likewise, if you find a friend who isnt listed as a potential friendship match on your compatibility chart, trust your instincts.
You will also notice in this book that each sign has several recurring aspects. A sign has a gender (male or female) and an element (water, fire, air, or earth). Water and earth signs are considered female, and air and fire signs are considered male. In addition to its element, each sign is categorized as one of three qualities: cardinal, fixed, or mutable. The cardinal signs begin each season; the fixed signs occur at the height of the season; and the mutable signs signal the change of one season to the next. Finally, each sign has a ruling planet that exemplifies the characteristics of the sign.
The two planets linked to friendship are Venus and Jupiter. Venus, or Aphrodite in ancient Greek mythology, is the goddess of love and inspires how you feel toward others. Jupiter, or Zeus, is the chief god of Roman and Greek mythology, and inspires how you show your emotions. Everyone has Venus and Jupiter located in a sign in their birth chart, and the placement of each planet will describe the yin and yang, or receptive and assertive, dynamic in your life.
Maybe youll use this book to befriend that interesting person in your yoga class, or to gain a deeper awareness of a connection you already share with a close friend. Or maybe you just want to figure out what to buy your picky Virgo friend for her birthday. No matter your reason, youll appreciate the unique friendship styles and qualities each sign has to offer.
Friendship Compatibility Quiz
The following friendship compatibility quiz will help shine a light on your current friendships, and open the door to potential new friendships as well. Your answers will reveal insights about your personality and which sign may be the perfect friendship match for you. Its the moment of truth: are they friend or foe? Keep in mind that this quiz isnt the end-all, be-all of your friendship potential. If you share a close kinship with a sign that is not listed in your top three, it just means that theres a lot more to be explored within your charts. Remember this: there is no wrong answer!
1. What qualities are most important to you in a friendship?
a Loyalty and trustworthiness
b Adventurousness and spontaneity
c Wit and intelligence
d Empathy and supportiveness
2. What is your favorite activity to do with a friend?
a Exploring the great outdoors
b Going to a concert
c Enjoying dinner at the latest hot spot
d Watching favorite movies
3. What is the one thing you could never forgive a friend for doing?
a Forgetting your birthday
b Embarrassing you at a work function
c Befriending your frenemy
d Dating your ex
4. When faced with a life-changing decision, how do you handle it?
a Create a pros and cons list
b Do what feels right in the moment
c Consider the interests of everyone involved
d Meditate and use your intuition as your guide
5. What is your favorite season?
a Autumn
b Summer
c Spring
d Winter
6. If you could choose one face emoji to describe yourself, what would it be?
a Cold sweat downcast face
b Sunglasses smiley face
c Smirking smiley face
d Hugging smiley face
7. Which TV show genre would you most want to binge-watch?
a Romantic drama
b Action and adventure
c Mystery
d Sci-fi
8. Where would you most like to travel with your best friend?
a Rome
b New York City
c London
d Maui, Hawaii
9. What makes you LOL?
a A heavy dose of sarcasm
b Silly slapstick
c Witty wordplay
d Self-deprecating storytelling
10. How do you react when a friend cries in front of you?
a Offer them advice
b Try to make them laugh
c Try to change the subject
d Give them a hug
11. Which gift would be at the top of your birthday wish list?
a A designer watch
b A plush robe
c A smartphone case
d A diary
12. How do you typically handle a conflict?