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FOREWORD
BY ANTHONY MACKIE
From cleanliness and purity, good things can grow.
I have found this to be true in all aspects of life: my love, my family, my career, my philanthropy. For me, getting rid of all the noise, the distraction, and the dirt of life makes everything else possible. As a man, doing so is a commitment to those I love. As an actor, it is essential to what I do when I transform myself for a role. As a citizen of this planet, it is how I keep my promise of shared respect and stewardship of where we all live.
So in my life, being a man is about finding ways to achieve a clean mind, spirit, and body. Caring for myself is how I prepare to care for and connect with others. It isnt just a ritual I go through, it is a philosophy I live by. It may be tempting to see skincare and grooming as nothing more than necessary tasks, but they are more than that. They are, very often, our first intentional acts of the daythe moments when we focus and decide how to present ourselves to the world.
At least that is how I see it: getting ready is really about becoming readyfocused, preparedfor what is to come. Life can be tough, random, even chaotic at times. We all have to put on our game facesour bestand push through it. Thats why I think a book like this matters.
Of course, like so many men, I had to learn how to care for myself and what it meant to do so properly. It wasnt part of how I grew up. My dad worked construction for forty years, and used no more than a bar of soap at the end of workdays. End of story. No SPF for his hours out in the sun. No moisturizer to help his skin recover while he slept. No hand salve to ease the wear of labor. Believe it or not, I grew up not even aware that as an African American I could get a sunburn (and, wow, was the first one was a doozy).
There was a lot to learn along the way to where life has taken me. I did not even know what to buy, nor where to buy it. I followed the advice of experts, Chris Salgardo among them. And I soon ended up realizing that by caring for myself with intention I looked better, felt better, and presented myself to others with more focus.
You dont have to be in the public eye to take your grooming and skincare seriously. And doing it right doesnt have to be a big deal. For me, it is part of the jobbut it is also part of my life. It does not matter what type of guy you aremaybe polished and professional, maybe rugged and carefree. We all benefit from taking just a few minutes to ready ourselves for the world before us.
For younger men, getting the basics right early on will help more than I can tell you. You will be protecting your skin, finding what works best, and feeling confident sooner in life. My six-year-old son loves the time we spend getting the dirt to go away and making all things bright and fresh. He is incredibly keen on being put together and looking good at school. From this clean place, I know he can grow into anybody he dreams of being.
No, there is no secret potionbut yes, there is a bit of magic that comes when we decide to care about the details. It is how we show respect for ourselves and those around us. This book will help you do that, no matter who you are now or may become throughout your life.
When I first met Chris Salgardo at an event in Los Angeles, I confided in him that I finally understood why skincare and grooming matteredfar beyond just that bar of soap my dad used. We became great friends. I hope you will benefit from his insights and wisdom here as much as I have.
INTRODUCTION
A friend of mine recently sat his wife down and announced that there was something he needed to say regarding their two-year-old son. It was important, he emphasized. Looking her straight in the eye, he said, without a drop of irony, If anything should ever happen to metell Jake to moisturize.
While he was only partly in earnest, my friend was doing something that few fathers door have done. He was sharing the knowledge about personal care and grooming he had learned through trial and error. Yes, moisturizing really matters. It protects the skin, keeping your largest organ (sorry, guys, its true) hydrated, healthy, and in balance. Without it, ironically, you can end up with not only dry skin but a buildup of oil that any Texas wildcatter would happily lay claim to. Im here to help you avoid that. Jake has the benefit of good advice from his father, but like most men Ive met since taking the helm at Kiehls Since 1851 in the U.S., I bet you still have questions. Lots of them.
There was a long journey of learning what worked for me: how to feel confident, even as a pimply kid; what my skin really needed to be healthy and not be damaged by the sun when I became a bike enthusiast; why caring for my body would serve me well throughout my life.
The simple truth is: The basics of skincare and grooming dont get passed along by the other men in our liveswhether fathers, big brothers, coaches, or even skincare experts. It was somehow all just supposed to be knownby osmosis, from watching TV, flipping through magazines, or by trial and error. Before I came to lead one of the most successful and iconic brands in skincare, the sum total of my skincare and grooming education was a single pronouncement from my father: Use an electric razor. Nothing about preparing my face before shaving or protecting it after. Not unlike mowing the lawn, the goal was straightforward: fire it up and run over anything that seems too long. And as far as the other hair on my facelike eyebrows, or nose or ear hairforget about it. Not a word. His advice got me out of the gates, but that was about it.