2014 by Brooke L. McGlothlin
Portions of this text were previously published in Warrior Prayers (2011)
Published by Bethany House Publishers
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ISBN 978-1-4412-6344-5
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version (ESV), copyright 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. ESV Text Edition: 2007
Scripture quotations identified NLT are from the Holy Bible , New Living Translation, copyright 1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
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Author is represented by MacGregor Literary, Inc.
Praying for Boys is more than a book of prayers or a devotional book for moms. Its a real toolbox that empowers parents to lead, love, and fight for the hearts of their sons. Its brought me to my knees, not in desperation but in excitement!
Amanda White, ohAmanda.com, author of Truth in the Tinsel
Praying for Boys is profoundly motivating and biblical. Every mom who needs direction in raising boys into spiritually vibrant men will be challenged to embrace this clear strategy that Brooke provides. Highly practical and very encouraging!
Sally Clarkson, director of Mom Heart Ministries and author of Desperate
What a gift Brooke has given us in this wonderfully practical and urgently needed book. We all want the very best for our sons. We invest so much in growing our boys up right, but we must remember that only our prayer partnership with God can mold their hearts. Brooke teaches us mamas how to fill the most sacred spaces of parenting with powerfully effective prayers.
Lysa TerKeurst, New York Times bestselling author and president of Proverbs 31 Ministries
I cant think of a greater resource for parents of boys than this book. Brooke McGlothlin has taken her love for all things boy, spelled out the important stuff, and infused a deep understanding of what boys need most in these pages. It is a must-read and pass-it-on kind of book!
Lisa Whittle, speaker and author of {w }hole
Brookes words on prayer have been an inspiration to me as I raise three boys. Praying for Boys has challenged me to get on my knees and cry out to God for my sons in ways I never had beforeboldly, expectantly, persistently, passionately. My mama heart has been changed.
Erin Mohring, co-founder of Raising Boys Media
As a mom it is a necessity and a privilege to bring our children to God through prayer. Brooke has created a fantastic resource to encourage and help us along the way. Praying for Boys is a must-have for every boy-mom!
Ruth Schwenk, speaker, writer, and creator of thebettermom.com
With a heart for praying Gods Word and a vision for raising up the next generation of godly men, Ive been given a gift through Brookes Praying for Boys . With three teen sons, I yearn for authentic encouragement and biblical wisdom that points me to the crossBrooke does just that.
Jen Schmidt, author of the blog, Balancing Beauty and Bedlam
While our sons grow tall, wearing out the knees on their jeans from tumble and play, we mothers too find our fabric worn thin from kneeling in prayer for our soon-to-be men. Brookes practical book, full of vulnerable sharing and deeply rooted in Gods Word, will become a useful tool as you seek to make prayer a priority and model for your boys just how to run hard after Jesus.
Karen Ehman, Proverbs 31 Ministries director of speakers and author of LET. IT. GO.
To my grandmothers,
Catherine Trout Lloyd (Cack)
and
Wanda Jewell McDonald ( Duel )
Cack, you left three good men behind, including my father, who were the evidence of your sacrifice, deep love, and hard work. Their lives, and the lives of your grandchildren, tell your story. Thank you just doesnt cut it.
Duel, thank you for teaching your children and grandchildren the power of prayer. Apparently, it stuck with me. Until heaven...
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Endorsements
Dedication
Foreword by Cliff Graham
Boys Are a Battle Zone
What Is Prayer, and Why Should We Do It?
Going It Alone
How to Use This Book
The Things They Need Most
1. Heart Change
2. Obedience
3. Overcoming Fears
4. Integrity
5. Wisdom
6. Pride
7. Honor
8. Purity
9. A Servants Heart
10. Fruit of the Spirit: Love
11. Fruit of the Spirit: Joy
13. Fruit of the Spirit: Patience
14. Fruit of the Spirit: Kindness
15. Fruit of the Spirit: Goodness
16. Fruit of the Spirit: Faithfulness
17. Fruit of the Spirit: Gentleness
18. Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control
19. Anger
20. Forgiveness
21. Salvation
Conclusion
21 Days of Prayer for Sons
Leading a Church or Community Study
Leading an Online Study
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Back Cover
Foreword
I n Praying for Boys , Brooke McGlothlin takes a stand for boys and their well-being, and its a stand based firmly in the Word of God. Its bold and countercultural, and therefore likely to be controversial. I know Brooke, and I know she doesnt want to create such controversy, but the beauty of this book is in its bravery. These are days that require boldness of purpose and speech, and she does just that.
She affirms boys for who they are and how God created them. Her belief is that the raising of boys as honorable standard-bearers for their faith, family, and community is something to be honored, not condemned. Rare stuff indeed. I commend her for it and admire her courage.
My wife and I prayed over our three sons using this book, and continue to do so. Its made a difference in how we view them and their world. If they grow up knowing that their mother and father are praying Scripture over them, perhaps they will be so conditioned by the training of Gods Word that they will allow it to take root in their core, becomingly fiercely dependent on Christ for all things.
Study the verses Brooke references and consider what she writes. I firmly believe it will be a difference-maker as you raise your young men. Nothing is more powerful than the Bible, and rarely has it been so powerfully presented in the raising of boys as within these pages.
Cliff Graham
Author of the Lion of War novels and movies
Boys Are a Battle Zone
I watch their little faces as we prepare for bedtime prayers. Im overwhelmed with love for themoverwhelmed with parenting them, these little boys who have stolen my heart and rocked my world.
As I write this, my sons are seven and five, and I already find myself wondering where the time has gone. Im running as fast as I can to keep up with every step they take, tucking each moment away in my memory for safekeeping.
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