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Copyright 2016 by Lilith Dorsey
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ISBN: 978-1-57863-592-4
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Dorsey, Lilith, author.
Title: Love magic : over 250 spells and potions for getting it, keeping it, and making it last / Lilith Dorsey.
Description: Newburyport : Weiser Books, 2016.
Identifiers: LCCN 2016042873 | ISBN 9781578635924 (5 x 7 tp : alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Love--Miscellanea. | Magic.
Classification: LCC BF1623.L6 D67 2016 | DDC 177/.7--dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2016042873
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DedicationTo all my loves....
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
T he connection between magic and eroticism is an obvious one. They both encompass absolutely every sense. We lose and find ourselves in magic and love, if we are lucky. Love is the emotion behind the creation of life itself.
Magic, like love, can be mysterious in its appearance and manifestation. It can be graced by divine accident or calculated design. In affairs of the heart, many have looked to magic for a little help or assistance in this glorious domain. Herbs, oils, foods, and sacred chants were sought out as medicinal remedies to bolster fertility and potency. They were used as magical concoctions to conjure up divine love and passion.
For decades I have taught lectures on spirituality and led magic rituals for audiences numbering from two to two thousand. I am always sure to include a segment on sacred cleaning. Your mind and your space must be clear to attract the highest good into your life. Cleanliness is also important to the loving atmosphere you are trying to create. Trust meyou don't want to attract anyone or anything that is filthy or unclean. Many spiritual traditions have ways of cleansing as part of their rituals, and these should be part of any magical working.
This book begins by exploring spells for self-love and happiness. These are at the root of your magical success. One of the most important questions I was ever asked during a possession ritual was What do you want? The words came from someone taken with the energy of an ancestor spirit, and they made me think. Our minds, bodies, and souls need to be truly in the right place for us to answer this question. Positive intent and visualization are vital components to successful manifestation. Very often when I do consultations for people about love magic and spellcrafting, they are, for lack of a better word, obsessed. It happens. They want what and whom they want, and they want them yesterday. Sometimes what they want is actually what is best for them in the situation, but more often than not, they are choosing a less desirable option because it is comfortable, familiar, or all they think they deserve. I usually recommend people do readings and cleansings first to make sure nothing is standing in the way of the love. Each situation is unique. I have one client who struggles with communication between her partner and herself. Each time she comes to me for a reading, we discover she needs a different tactic for success. Sometimes all it takes is a simple sprinkling of herbs around her phone to get it to ring; other times she needs a more concentrated Simbi communication candle and ritual to bring about her desires. There are many different and unique roads to success. Meditation and self-care are also important before beginning magical workings; techniques and tips for doing this are also detailed in .
Love makes us get out of bed in the morning; it makes us smile, dance, and sing to the hills. My young tween witch self would never have found magic if she hadn't been looking for love, and this is the case with many people. I learned what to ask for, and whom and when to ask as well. Over the years I have done hundreds of readings and spells to find and keep love. I often joke that the multiple psychic reading clients I've had over the years always want to know something about love or money. Well, that is how they present the case 90 percent of the time. Sometimes they just need to be willing to take a leap, to step outside their comfort zone to discover something better. Sometimes people just need to see what was there all along, but they hadn't noticed it. Sometimes people need to get right with the universe. I apologize if that sounds too much like flower-child speak to you, but there truly is a proper path for people to travel that will make things easier for them. is all about romantic spells in the form of baths, oils, candles, recipes, and rituals that will help you take your first blessed steps down this proper path to love.
A lot of people out there are trying to sell and buy love magic. I've been a professional psychic for over two decades and I've seen a lot. I often get interesting messages from people wanting to make their penis bigger or become porn stars. I'd like to say nothing truly surprises me anymore. Hopefully, I've helped many people find what they were looking for in a relationship, in a partner, and in their life. While I am a spiritual practitioner, I am also an anthropologist and did my undergraduate and graduate studies in this field. My training revolved around ancient cultures, goddess religions, and honored ways of connecting to the divine. It is important to me personally and professionally that I share this type of information. Many modern magical texts are lacking in the historical and traditional background of these subjects, and that is sad. Love spells and magics, in reality, go back to ancient civilizations. We would do well to look to the advice that has survived and thrived in the tests of time. Whenever possible, I have included historically based spells for love and romance. is full of successful spells you can craft to bring romantic love from across the ages to your door.
Romance ignites the sparks of sensual pleasure, and is dedicated to passion, sex, and other lusty magics. Here, there are not only spells and formulas to help you get some sex, but also spiritual ways to make sex better on every level. These spells can be used if you are in a monogamous relationship or adapted to a polyamorous onethe choice is yours. Sensual yet simple, the baths, oils, foods, and more included here will light anyone's fire.
There may come a time with all this love and sex going on that you choose to take the plunge and get married, or handfasted, to your love. is full of spells not just for the ceremony but also to get you to that altar. Learn the real meaning behind traditions like ritually binding your hands or jumping the broom, and make your own sacred memories for your special day.
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