Lewis Smedes - Keeping Hope Alive: For a Tomorrow We Cannot Control

KEEPING
HOPE
ALIVE

LEWISS MEDES

Copyright 1998 by Lewis B. Smedes

All rights reserved. Written permission must be secured from the publisher to use or reproduce any part of this book, except for brief quotations in critical reviews or articles.

Published in Nashville, Tennessee, by Thomas Nelson, Inc.

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Smedes, Lewis B.
[Standing on the promises]
Keeping hope alive : / Lewis Smedes.
p. cm.
Originally published: Standing on the promises. Nashville : T. Nelson,
1998.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 0-7852-6880-4 (pb)
1. HopeReligious aspectsChristianity. I. Title.
BV4638.S56 2000 234'.25dc21

99-047577
CIP

Printed in the United States of America

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To

Harry Boer,
Jan and Alan Pauw, and
Joan and George Stob

I count myself in nothing else so happy

As in a soul remembering my good friends.

William Shakespeare

CONTENTS

The Basics: What Everyone Needs
to Know About Hope

Part Two
How Hopeful People Keep Their Hope Alive

Part Three
When God Gets into Hope

One More Story Before We Go:
The Hill of Hope at Siauliai

I want to express my gratitude to several friends for what they have done to help me get this book written and published.

Several friends read early drafts and pointed me to the places that needed more work: Maryland poet Roderick Jellema jostled me into a deeper sense of awe and wonder at the miracle of hope; Esther and Max DePree pooled their insights and made suggestions that contributed richly to later drafts; Dr. Mary Rotzien, whose vision of hope for abused children in Los Angeles is celebrated in the book, helped me toward a truer insight into some of the people whose hopes and dreams I talk about; and Rita Holmes of the Sandra Dijkstra Agency contributed an intuitive literary intelligence that never once failed to help me and sometimes rescued me. Then there are my good friends of the Kinder and Gentler Superannuated Critics Club. I mention them by name to hold them indirectly accountable for the final product whose first draft they so kindly and gently assaulted: Alice and Arthur Glasser, Mary and Robert Meye, Margaret and Robert Shaper, Suzanne and Newton Maloney.

Sandra Dijkstra, the best of all possible agents, danced me through the thickets of the publishing world into my new and happy association with Thomas Nelson Publishers, Inc.

Which brings me to Rolf Zettersten, the publisher, whose commitment to and trust in the book has been genuine and inspiriting; to Curtis Lundgren, editorial director, whose judgment has been flawless, whose enthusiasm has been contagious, and whose discernment has opened my own eyes time and again to ways of improving the manuscript; and to Cindy Blades, managing editor, who has been ever so accommodating to my idiosyncrasies and so generous with her time, her full attention, and her personal care for the project.

I thank Betsy and Sam Reeves who invited Doris and me to use their lovely seaside home as an undisturbed retreat for final revisions.

Doris, my wife of fifty years who knows my dark self-doubts and my pitiful hunger for encouragement and also knows a bad sentence when she reads one, never let her love for me dampen her aspirations for a bit more elegance; I consider her to be my coauthor.

Finally, I thank the Lord for giving me the desire, the dream, and the faith to keep my hope for the book alive until the day of its appearance.

Hope is the thing with feathers -
That perches in the soul -
And sings the tune without the words -
And never stops - at all.

And sweetest - in the Gale - is heard -
And sore must be the storm -
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm -

Ive heard it in the chillest land -
And on the strangest Sea -
Yet, never, in extremity,
It asked a crumb - of Me.

Emily Dickinson

Part One
The Basics: What Everyone Needs
to Know about Hope

Chapter 1
BRED IN THE BONE

O n a grizzly morning in May of 1992 among ashes still warm after the flaming human horror commonly known as the Los Angeles riots, a friend whose home is near the center of the firestorm led my wife, Doris, and me from charred ruin to charred ruin, each sad scene seducing us closer to the gully of despair. Nothing that I had ever experienced in my life left me feeling more hopeless than the foul stench of despair that hung over the smoldering hulks left over from that one mad night.

A few weeks later, driving away late at night from the Los Angeles County Airport, my mind fixed only on the magic moment when my garage door would curl open and let me snuggle back into my comfortable cocoon, I was jolted to attention by a brilliant billboard towering above Airport Boulevard with just three words in huge, arresting red: KEEP HOPE ALIVE.

In the years since I experienced this mesmerizing epiphany, it has grown in height and breadth until now it seems to fill all the open sky above the city. Now I wonder sometimes whether the billboard I saw was only inside of my own mind, maybe a summons from God or from my own soul to devote whatever remains of my life to keeping hope alive.

Whether literal reality or inner vision, that bright billboard was my awakening to the fact that there is nothing more important in this whole world than keeping hope alive in the human spirit. I am convinced that hope is so close to the core of all that makes us human that when we lose hope we lose something of our very selves. And in the process we lose all reason for striving for the better life we were meant to live, the better world that was meant to be. Let me put it as baldly as I can: there is nothing, repeat nothing, more critical for any one of us, young or old or anywhere in between, than the vitality of our hope.

Hope is bred in the bone. Our spirits were made for hope the way our hearts were made to love and our brains were made to think and our hands were made to make things. Our hearts are drawn to hope as an eagle is drawn to the sky. A life instinct is what Karl Menninger called hope. Keep hoping, you keep living. Stop hoping, you die. Inside.

I do not hope because I am a Christian any more than a Jew hopes because she is a Jew. I hope because I am an anxious, struggling, suffering, longing, unfulfilled creature on the way to a future over which I have no control. My faith gives me God as my special reason to keep hoping when fear gets a grip on my soul. And it gives me, I believe, Gods own vision of good things that He promises and that I hope for. But, one way or the other, all people hunger for hope because our Maker made us all to live by hope.

What is there about the way He made us that gives us such a need for hope?

First, God gave us the power to imagine the future but gave us no power to control it. We can imagine good things that we