How Steve Became Ralph
A Cancer/Stem Cell Odyssey
Steve Buechler
Contents
How Steve Became Ralph: A Cancer/Stem Cell Odyssey (With Jokes) by Steve Buechler, copyright 2018 by Steve Buechler. All photos are used courtesy of the Buechler family. Quoted excerpts from The Wounded Storyteller by Arthur Frank, 1995, 2013 by The University of Chicago Press. Reprinted with permission by The University of Chicago Press and the author, Arthur Frank.
This book is a true story about the real life of Steve Buechler of Eden Prairie, Minnesota. All names and locations are real, except when changed to protect the identities of individuals who wished to remain anonymous. Permission has been obtained where possible for the use of names in the book. This book reflects the opinions of the author and his lifes decisions. Written Dreams Publishing does not approve, condone, or disapprove of these opinions.
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Category: Nonfiction-Cancer/Stem Cell Memoir
Description: A Minnesota man writes to his family about his cancer diagnosis and stem cell treatment.
Hardcover ISBN: 978-1-7335034-1-9
Paperback ISBN: 978-1-7335034-2-6
Ebook ISBN: 978-1-7335034-3-3
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First Edition published by Written Dreams Publishing in December, 2018.
Green Bay, WI 54311
Praise for How Steve Became Ralph
How Steve Became Ralph is an odyssey in every sense of the word. Buechler transforms a devastating cancer diagnosis into a literary quest infused with intelligence, mindfulness, humor, and hope.
Carolyn Redman, Author of News From Lake Boobbegone
A thoughtful encouraging expression of one mans odyssey beyond a diagnosis of leukemia. This is a courageous plowing-through months of testing and treatment supported by family, friends and health care providers. Punctuated by personal insights and small quips of humor, Steve Buechler delves into his physical, psycho-social and spiritual processes as he works with the health care community and a cord blood transplant. A good read for a health care provider, patient, or caregiver.
Roxana Huebscher, PhD, RN, NP and Professor Emeritus, UW Oshkosh
Steve Buechlers How Steve Became Ralph is an unusual cancer memoir as it's not about death and dying rather about living and thriving. The book is filled with life lessons injected with ample doses of the author's quirky sense of humor. A compelling read!
Simi K. Rao, Physician and Author
Steve (or now Ralph) reminds us, healthy or ill, that life, with all its challenges, is worth living. It shows us the importance of seeing the glass half full rather than half empty, the necessity of setting real priorities in our lives and that keeping an open mind for all the goodness that our journey can offer, even in trying situations, can be ultimately rewarding to ourselves and others around us. It also underscores that patients have a major role in their healing process, which cannot be merely passive. More importantly, love from our family members and our friends, and even from our health care providers (and ourselves) can achieve the best possible results. Good reading to re-set perspectives and to help appreciate and treasure our lives, one day at a time.
Gina Cunto-Amesty, MD
When I was diagnosed with a lethal blood cancer, I was inundated with clinical, technical information about my disease and its prognosis. But what I didnt have was an intimate, personal account of what it might be like to persevere and survive the ordeal. One goal in writing this book is to provide such an account to other patients, as well as their family members, friends, and caregivers. My story also offers medical providers a glimpse into the inner journey patients experience while under their care. And if you have managed to avoid the medical system as patient or practitioner, I offer the book as a cautionary tale and a compendium of some pretty awful jokes.
The ill person who turns illness into story
transforms fate into experience
Arthur Frank, from The Wounded Storyteller
This book is dedicated to Dr. Rachel Lerner and the doctors and nurses of the oncology ward at Methodist Hospital in St. Louis Park, Minnesota and to Dr. Nelli Bejanyan and the doctors and nurses of the Blood and Marrow Transplant Unit at the University of Minnesota Medical Center in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Their combined efforts saved my life, and this book is merely a symbolic down payment on a debt that I will never be able to fully repay.
People tell stories not just to work out their own changing identities, but also to guide others who will follow them.
Arthur Frank, from The Wounded Storyteller
Much to my surprise, some routine lab work in the spring of 2016 revealed I had abnormally low white blood cell counts. My doctor referred me to a hematologist who recommended a bone marrow biopsy. I followed their advice but was not overly concerned because I had been in good health my entire life and had no symptoms. Given that history, it was hard to imagine that any serious illness was present.
My biopsy was on a Monday. The next day, I swam my normal fifty laps, saw a chiropractor, did some shopping, and ate dinner out. On Wednesday morning, I played in my weekly poker game with some retired guys and lost ten bucks when my eighty-year-old nemesis knocked me out of the tournament. It was the last time my life would feel normal for a very long time.
That afternoon, I was informed by phone that I had acute myeloid leukemia. On Thursday, I was admitted to a hospital. On Friday, I started chemotherapy. In a mere 48 hours, I went from feeling perfectly healthy to a week-long, 24/7, chemotherapy drip.
As if that was not surreal enough, the next day my wife was admitted to the same hospital with what proved to be a fractured femur. She underwent surgery to repair her leg, spent seven days in our hospital, and then was discharged to a transitional care unit for another three and a half weeks. We came to think of this time as our month from hell, though its ramifications would play out for many months thereafter.