Janice Peterson - Becoming Gertrude: How Our Friendships Shape Our Faith

Jans words here are like a literal gift to your heart and soul. Her masterful, luminous wisdom will not only inspire and encourage you to do the hard and holy work of digging deep into true community but will gently hand you the tools necessary to become a truly safe place for someone elses heart. Her life is a living, breathing example of friendship personified, and youll close the pages of this book a better person because of it.

ANN VOSKAMP, New York Times bestselling author of The Broken Way and One Thousand Gifts

Spending a few hours with Jan Peterson is delicious! Becoming Gertrude is not only about spiritual friendshipit is a taste of the real thing. The most personal is the most universal, and this book is truth conveyed through personality. Read Jans heart and then watch how she gently moves you forward in your faith journey. What a gift and what a delight!

R. PAUL STEVENS, professor emeritus of Marketplace Theology and Leadership at Regent College; chairman of the Institute for Marketplace Transformation

Jan Petersons book Becoming Gertrude is a must-read. I find such inspiration in its life lessons that I walk away uplifted and motivated to care, accept, serve, offer hospitality, and encourage others in new ways. Her insights reveal how each of us is uniquely made and called to make a beautiful impact for the cause of love in tangible ways. I cant wait to live out this books life-giving principles.

STASI ELDREDGE, New York Times bestselling author

I only recently met Jan, but her writing mirrors my experience of her: warm, direct, and insightful. We should all become Gertrude, we should all receive Gertrude, and we should all keep this book close by to read and read again.

ASHLEY CLEVELAND, Grammy-winning singer/songwriter and author

With warmth and wisdom, Janice Peterson beautifully reveals how loving others not only deepens our love for God but also brightens an often dark and lonely world. What a little gem this book is.

SUSAN MEISSNER, bestselling author of As Bright as Heaven

Like her welcoming friend, Gertrude, Jan Peterson welcomes her readers into a winsome, gentle conversation about the meaning and value of spiritual friendship. Through stories accumulated over decades of marriage and ministry alongside her pastor-husband, Eugene, Jan illustrates how each of us can create relationships that nurture our own soul and bless the world at the same time. I finished Becoming Gertrude with a reluctant sigh, because I wanted to hear more from this unpretentious and vibrant woman who possesses a true servants heart.

KAY WARREN, cofounder of Saddleback Church

For sixty years, Jan Peterson has served Christs church. But what stands out to me is the way shes done it. Instead of white-knuckling her way through, Jan has done this work with a gentle touch and an infectious joy. Her life is proof that the life of pastoral ministry can be a yoke thats easy and a burden thats light. While so many are familiar with Eugenes ministry, anyone who knows the Petersons knows that Jan has made Eugenes work possible all these years. She is one of those hidden figures that makes the Kingdom of God go. As I hold this book, I rejoice because the treasury of Jan Petersons life is now available for generations to come. Now take and read.

DANIEL GROTHE, associate senior pastor of New Life Church, Colorado Springs, Colorado

Everyone needs a friend like Jan Peterson. She honors friendship as the sacrament it is, and in her personal and heartwarming story, Becoming Gertrude, Jan doesnt just celebrate this sacramentshe gently shares how to exercise our caring muscles in ways that truly matter. Jans soulful and intentional approach to friendship is refreshing in this day of device-based interactions. She has inspired me, prompted me, and taught me more about the importance (and necessity!) of caring, acceptance, service, hospitality, and encouragement in our everyday, ordinary lives. The world needs more people like Jan and Eugene Peterson, who are day-to-day Christ followers in all they domarriage, ministry, family, and friendship. Becoming Gertrude is a book that helps you become more like Jesus.

ANDREA SYVERSON, author of Alter Girl: Walking Away from Religion into the Heart of Faith

Having spent time in the Petersons home, I can say that Jan lives what she writes. She exudes spiritual friendship with authenticity, passion, and grace. In our day of division, anger, and intolerance, we need people like her more than ever. Read this little gem slowly, soak it in, practice it faithfully, and live into it personally.

AARON STERN, lead pastor of Mill City Church, Fort Collins, Colorado

We all need spiritual friendspeople who will walk beside us in our journey of faith, accepting us, helping us, encouraging us, and opening their lives to us. In Becoming Gertrude, Jan Peterson helps us see our need for such friendship through stories and experiences from her own life. May we, like Gertrude, show the love of God to others in real and tangible ways.

CHRISTINA FOX, author of A Heart Set Free: A Journey to Hope through the Psalms of Lament and Closer Than a Sister: How Union with Christ Helps Friendships to Flourish

Having experienced firsthand the hospitality of Jan Peterson, I know that what youre holding in your hand is not really a book; it is lived wisdom. Jan shares warmly and openly about her journey into discovering her identity and ministry through the gift of spiritual friends. If the early church grew exponentially largely because of their radical hospitality, Jans words here will be more than advice for pastors wives; they will be a pathway for recovering our great calling to share not only the gospel but also our lives with those around us.

GLENN PACKIAM, lead pastor of New Life Downtown, Colorado Springs, Colorado

Jan Petersons reflections on spiritual friendship exude warmth and wisdom, just as she does. Her dedication to the practice of hospitality and faithful friendship over a lifetime is evident in every gracious word. Becoming Gertrude also invites us to explore our own unique calling to love and service and assures us we will never regret the journey. I am really grateful for this gem of a book.

JILL PHILLIPS, singer/songwriter, Nashville, Tennessee

Jan Peterson is more than the woman behind the man behind The Message. At heart, she is a friend. These words on friendship are deep waters, but the best part is that they flow so naturally from her heart. And the words in these pages are winsome and true.

ALAN BRIGGS, pastor, coach, consultant, and author of Staying Is the New Going, Everyones a Genius, and Guardrails

In Becoming Gertrude, Jan Peterson makes friends with the truth that all are equal in the sight of the heavenly Father. In a culture addicted to leadership and hierarchy, this journey through the precious intricacies and intimacies of spiritual friendship is what our world needs. We all learn to accept the beautiful love of God, as experienced through the presence of the one sitting beside us.

LISA JOY SAMSON, author of Quaker Summer, artist, mother, and friend

Spiritual friendship is an idea whose time has come again. In fact, it never went out of style. In our world where so many are desperate for genuine connection, Jan Peterson offers a refreshing call for us to go deeper with one another. I am thrilled to recommend Jans warm account of how friendship shapes our faith.