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Are you concerned that your childs grades arent reflecting their potential? Are you worried that they have fallen into self-destructive patterns that could influence the rest of their lives? Research has repeatedly shown that an alarming percentage of students achieve below their academic ability. But with patience, you can help your unmotivated teen tackle challenges and succeed! Dr. Mark J. Luciano provides insights from his own family therapy practice and the latest research to help your teen discover newfound courage and independence. By helping your teen build the qualities of confidence, independence, initiative, identity, and trust, you can instill the desire to take risks and achieve goals, laying the foundations of success for the rest of their lives.

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Copyright 2018 by Mark J. Luciano, PhD All rights reserved.

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

2018937156

Print ISBN 9781641700375

Ebook ISBN 9781641700887

Printed in the United States of America

Edited by Lindsay Sandberg

Cover design by David Miles

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To all parents who work hard to foster the good things in family life love - photo 3

To all parents who work hard to foster the good things in family life:

love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, generosity, and self-control.

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I NTRODUCTION The Challenge-Averse Teen R esearch has repeatedly shown that - photo 4

I NTRODUCTION

The Challenge-Averse Teen

R esearch has repeatedly shown that an alarming percentage of our students achieve below their academic ability. Its virtually a national epidemic.

In the United States, about fifty percent of students enrolled in college will never graduate, and the graduation rate is dropping.

Are you concerned that your son or daughter is smarter than their grades are reflecting? Are you worried that they have fallen into self-destructive patterns that could influence the rest of their lives? These are the warning signs that have likely brought you to read this book.

In my practice for over thirty years as a psychologist, school psychologist, and education consultant, I have seen over and over that high scores on standardized tests or IQ tests do not exempt teens from emotional and developmental turmoil. Its just a normal part of being a teen.

I remember being a teen quite clearly. When I think about it, I realize it wasnt paradise. Quite the opposite; I was a rather shy introverted kid. My family life was rather dysfunctional. Although I did well in school, it was in spite of my family and social environmentnot because of it. Most adults can look back and recall that being a middle-school or high-school aged teen meant all kinds of uncomfortable and downright awkward social situations on top of all the school pressure. And many teens have it tougher today than we did when we were kids! And even if your family doesnt appear to have the typical risk factors, your teenager may still be struggling with developing the key skills and character traits needed to succeed.

All types of academic, emotional, and social challenges are to be expected for teens. In fact, challenges are quite necessary for teens to eventually become successful adults. Well address more about this later.

I have seen that while most teens can do well in school, some are just not motivated. Many of the teens I have worked with over the years get stuck in a pattern of actively avoiding the ordinary challenges of being a teen. They have become Challenge Averse .

This book looks at Challenge-Averse Teens and proven ways for parents to help them succeed.

Common Characteristics

Challenge-Averse Teens share certain characteristics. Here are some of the glaring character traits that develop when teens actively avoid the challenges life puts in front of them:

Challenge-Averse Teens do not function independently. If a parent or teacher supervises a Challenge-Averse Teen, the project will be finished. However, when the parent stops supervising, the teen stops working. They may tackle academic challenges with a tutor, an interested teacher, or a parent, but usually not by themselves.

Challenge-Averse Teens have difficulty finishing projects. They may start many different projects, but will often not finish them. They dont have the persistence to completion in the short term or what we now call gritthe ability to be persistent and passionate over the longer term. How do we help teens develop these qualities? Challenge-Averse Teens do not adhere to time structures and deadlines. They push the limits. They need one more day or one more week. Sometimes, they complete ninety-nine percent of the project, but fail to turn it in.

Most Challenge-Averse Teens are in the average range of intelligence or better. Their academic difficulties are not chiefly due to ADHD or a learning disability, though these conditions may be a factor. Yet, whatever their native ability, Challenge-Averse Teens actively avoid academic challenges.

Challenge-Averse Teens may be described as lazy by parents and teachers. They know that they could do much better in their studies but they dont seem to have the desire to do so. They allow positive opportunities to sail by.

A common misconception is that Challenge-Averse Teens are unmotivated and rudderless. Actually, quite the opposite is true! Although Challenge-Averse Teens procrastinate, lie, and make excuses, all of this behavior serves a particular goal. Challenge-Averse Teens are highly motivated to avoid success at all costs.

Causal Factors

What is the root cause of teens actively avoiding and overcoming normal challenges? A Challenge-Averse Teen is afraid of eventually achieving independence. The notion of becoming an independent adult may be provoking anxiety (If I succeed today, then I will be expected to succeed tomorrow. If I succeed today and tomorrow, I will be expected to succeed for the rest of my life).

Sometimes, birth order is a factor. For example, if an older sibling is doing well in school, the younger brother or sister may consider the older sibling as perfect and give up trying. This occurs because teens want to establish their own identity and be different in some way from their siblings.

In other cases, a teen may compare themselves with their parents level of success and decide they cant compete. They drop out and decide to do something completely different.

If a parent is successful yet distant, the teen may remain distant and aloof from their parents.

Another factor is the focus on outcomes rather than process. If a teen brings home an A in math, a parent may say, Great! Lets celebrate and go out to dinner. The Challenge-Averse Teen thinks, This is pressure to get As in the future. However, the parent can choose to place the focus on the process rather than the outcome, relieving the teens sense of feeling pressured. The parent could do this by observing, You look happy about that. You are surprised you could do it. Or, if the Challenge-Averse Teen doesnt appear happy about the good grade, a parent may observe, Sometimes nothing feels right, which helps the teen to focus on their feelings rather than on the outcome alone.

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