This book contains information on a broad range of subjects. None of the information is intended as a substitute for the advice of a professional in each of the relevant subject areas. The reader should regularly consult such a professional in connection with all matters that may require professional attention.
Copyright 1995 by Carol Orsag Madigan and Ann Elwood
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To Brook, Betty, Johnny, Linda, and Peg,
with love and gratitude
C.O.M.
To Casey, Lizzie, Elvira, and Abby,
who kept me company
A.E.
We are indebted to Lee Clayton, Carol Dunlap, Wendy Hawkins, R. Brook Madigan, and John Zebrowski, who contributed their time and talent to this book. We also want to thank our families, friends, and associates who provided information and inspiration with special mention to: Beth and Doug Beagle, Belinda Borden, Laurie Brannen, John Bronson, Bill Gaupsas, Janet and Bill Goff, Michael Gorman, Larry Hawkins, Aline Hornaday, Micheline Karas, Mary Lou Locke, Arlene Mattioli, Peg Madigan, Betty Orsag, John Raht, Helen Rietz, Simone Taylor, Cynthia Truant, Kristin Webb, Linda Wood.
A book this size requires a publishing team with stamina as well as skill. Thus, we are fortunate to have worked with Joann Davis, Sandra Choron, Moira Duggan, and Grace Sullivan. And our deep appreciation goes to Heide Lange, our literary agent, who guided this project from start to finish with great diligence and enthusiasm.
Finally, we are grateful to the hundreds of organizations that provided us with enormous amounts of research and advice.
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Height/Weight Table, reprinted courtesy of Metropolitan Life Insurance Company. Fitness Benefits of Various Activities, 1990, U.S. News & World Report. How Healthy Is Your State? excerpt from The NWNL State Health Rankings, 1993, Northwestern National Life Insurance Company, reprinted with permission. Are You an Insomniac? reprinted with permission of National Sleep Foundation. Contraceptive Failure Rates reprinted with permission of Alan Guttmacher Institute. Source for Recovering from Smoking, the Body in Healing, American Lung Association. Understanding and Helping the Suicidal Person reprinted with permission of American Association of Suicidology. Source for Ten Guides to Proper Medicine Use and Traveling with MedicinesCouncil on Family Health. Interactions Between Alcohol and Commonly Used Medicines reprinted courtesy of SRX Regional Program, Medication Education for Seniors, 1095 Market Street #601, San Francisco, CA 94103; 1993. 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