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To Mom
For letting me go when I needed to fly and always being there when I got lost...
To Kathy
For helping me find my way
To Dad
For changing the direction of the journey
Ones destination is never a place, but a new way of seeing things.
HENRY MILLER
Beach bed on Virgin Gorda in the British Virgin Islands KAREN SCHALER
INTRODUCTION
Are you stressed out? Tired of your job? Bored with your relationship? Healing from an illness? Feeling uninspired or dealing with a loss? Pack your bags because Travel Therapy can help you find your way. Instead of sinking into depression after a heart-wrenching breakup or a botched business deal, or snapping at friends and family because youre stressed to the limit, now theres help. You can change your attitude by changing your environment. Youve heard the phrase you cant run away from your problemsbut you can embrace whats bothering you and use travel to help deal with whatever life throws your way.
Travel Therapy helps you pick the right vacation depending on what youre going through in life. If youre looking for an adventure, a romantic escape, a way to reconnect with your kids, a girlfriend getaway, a volunteer vacation, or just a blissed-out spa trip, Travel Therapy has you covered.
Where you go depends on how you want to feel. Inspired? Try heading to the mountains or a secluded beach. Empowered? Learn to drive a racecar, dive with sharks, or make chocolate. Energized? How about a spa, bike trip, or hike? The options are endless and the payback is priceless. So what are you waiting for? Pick the trip that fits you best and let Travel Therapy take you on one journey you cant afford to miss.
Take two vacations, then call me in the morning.
KAREN SCHALER
"A Journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step"
-LAO TZU
The Centre for Well-Being Mediation Atrium, The Phoenician, Scottsdale, Arizona THE PHOENICIAN, SCOTTSDALE, ARIZONA
Chapter 1
Heartbreak Hotel
Breakups can either annihilate you or empower youits your choice. Of course, it helps if you pry your sticky fingers away from your double fudge ice cream carton and get off the couch and actually do something besides wallowing in self-pity. The key word here is moveand dont stop moving till you find yourself in a better frame of mind. Lets face it, breakups are gut-wrenching. Even when youre the one who ended things, it still stings.
After the initial breakup, when the shock wears off and youre ready to face the land of the living again, there are three surefire TRAVEL THERAPY ways to help you move on:
Push Yourself ForwardDaring Destinations
Sweat It Out of Your SystemAction Adventures
Lick Your Wounds and HealSoothing Spa Escapes
Which one is right for you? Take the TRAVEL THERAPY quiz to help you find your way.
TRAVEL THERAPY QUIZ
1. Right now are you in the mood to:
a. Do something crazy
b. Run a race
c. Take a nap
2. If youre on a beach vacation youre most likely to be:
a. Deep-sea diving
b. Jogging on the sand
c. Drinking a smoothie on the beach
3. With your breakup you are:
a. Crying on and off
b. Waterworks all the time
c. All cried out
4. Your activity of choice is:
a. Skydiving
b. Biking
c. Yoga
5. Your idea of a fun Saturday afternoon is:
a. Extreme mountain biking
b. Hiking with friends
c. Curling up with a great book
6. Which animal would you rather be?
a. Shark
b. Monkey
c. Fish
7. What is your preferred drink?
a. Margaritas
b. Sports drink
c. Tea
8. Vehicle of choice?
a. Racecar
b. 4-wheel drive
c. Luxury sedan
9. Your idea of a perfect date is:
a. Tandem skydiving
b. Hiking
c. Dinner
10. Best buy?
a. Life insurance
b. Athletic gear
c. Spa products
TRAVEL THERAPY DIAGNOSIS
If you chose mostly A answers, you need TRAVEL THERAPY that falls under Push Yourself Forward, where you are challenged both physically and mentally. In this category, youre literally pushedif not shovedout of your comfort level and right into some daring adventures.
If you answered mostly B, then you need physical activity, so your best TRAVEL THERAPY options are adventure vacations, falling under Sweat It Out of Your System. In this category, youll be so busy exerting yourself that you wont have time to wail about what went wrong in your relationship.
If you find you have mostly C answers, pick a trip under Lick Your Wounds and Heal. This TRAVEL THERAPY allows you to check your worries at the door and relax your mind, body, and spirit. A word of warning, though: For this TRAVEL THERAPY you need to be strong enough to be alone with your emotions and brave enough to deal with them if they hit you during your downtime, like halfway through your massage.
If you find your answers are split between several categories, lucky you, because you have more TRAVEL THERAPY options to choose from. So lets get started. Pick the trip that fits where you are right now and make the commitment to make a change.
The bottom line is this: Its time to move forward and thats where TRAVEL THERAPY can help. Its not that you cant do it alone; of course you can. But why waste time on the wrong trip when youre likely not thinking too clearly to begin with? With TRAVEL THERAPY, you can change your attitude by changing your environment, and if you choose the right destination you may even change your life!
ENTER
DESTINATIONS TO AVOID:Couples-only or romantic destinations
Places you went as a couple
Places you wanted to go as a couple
Honeymoon destinations
Wedding destinations
TRAVEL THERAPY SUITCASE SCALE
The little yellow suitcases are here to let you know, from 1 to 5, how much energy you can expect to exert on your vacation of choice.
PUSH YOURSELF FORWARD
Daring Destinations
After a breakup youre often left feeling numb, empty inside, helpless, like theres nothing you can do to turn your hopeless life around. Nonsense! This is exactly the kind of self-defeating attitude TRAVEL THERAPY is here to help you avoid. Weve all suffered loss, weve all had our hearts ripped out, run over, and shattered into a million pieces, but with TRAVEL THERAPY you can take control of your own destiny and turn things around. Its all about picking a trip to help empower you, a vacation where you can recharge your self-worth and find a way back to your fabulous self.