Endorsements
Jane takes you on the ride of her life, weaving, in emotional detail, the search for her birth family, the shocking circumstances surrounding her adoption, and the dark secrets as deep as the small southern town where it all began. Through thoughtful investigative work, she effortlessly puts the reader front and center as this real-life story of deceit, trauma, and ultimately redemption unfolds. Regardless of our start in life, Jane reminds us, we all have the ability to find humanity if we know where to look.
Lisa Joyner , host of Long Lost Family , Taken at Birth , and Find My Family ; adoptee/adoptive mom
In this gripping story that unfolds like a puzzle with no lid to provide the finished picture, Jane Blasio encounters numerous questions and too many missing pieces of information regarding her origins. Janes search for answers, meaning, and belonging will take the reader to the darkest places in the human soul, ultimately unveiling the hardest truths to bear and then revealing the beauty found among the scattered pieces of the puzzle.
Anna LeBaron , author of The Polygamist s Daughter
People like to say it takes a lot of courage to do a book like this: I think it takes a sight more than that. Jane Blasio lived a story that most of us could only imaginefrom being sold as an infant by a small-town doctor to years of searching for her birth mother. A gut-wrenching ordeal. But she not only lived it, she wrote about it, bringing it all to life for the reader as it poured out of her. Sometimes you have to remind yourself that this was a life lived, not one just crafted.
Rick Bragg , Pulitzer Prizewinning writer, journalist, and author of two bestselling memoirs, All Over but the Shoutin and Avas Man
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Title Page
Copyright Page
2021 by Jane Estelle Blasio
Published by Revell
a division of Baker Publishing Group
PO Box 6287, Grand Rapids, MI 49516-6287
www.revellbooks.com
Ebook edition created 2021
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ISBN 978-1-4934-3057-4
The names and details of the people and situations described in this book have been changed or presented in composite form in order to ensure the privacy of those with whom the author has worked.
Dedication
To Joan, Kitty, and Carlynn
for being who they were and
teaching me about love.
Thank you, Rick Bragg,
for giving your support
and telling me years ago
I could tell this story.
Contents
Cover
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Introduction
1. Stolen Babies
2. Elvis Presley Sunday Religion
3. Promise Kept
4. Long Haul to Georgia
5. Casing McCaysville
6. And Other Stories
7. Walls Crumbled
9. 1997
10. Where the Babies Went
11. Just Past Nicholsons
12. Sweet Tea and Fireflies on Blalock Mountain
13. The Rise and Fall
14. A Beautiful Dance
15. Taken at Birth The Opening Act
16. Taken at Birth Time Well Spent
17. Finding Home
Conclusion: And Love Is Everything
Acknowledgments
Back Ads
Cover Flaps
Back Cover
Introduction
I VE HEARD IT S A I D that the devil is in the details. I never thought my life was very different from anyone elses until I began searching for my birth family. What should have been a simple process to access my adoption records became a lifelong quest for truth. A quest riddled with too many details and the devil was definitely in them. My name is Jane Blasio, and I was sold as a newborn in January of 1965 by a doctor in the small North Georgia town of McCaysville.
A factory worker and his barren wife made the journey south to Georgia from their home in Ohio because they had heard they could get a healthy baby from the towns beloved physician, Thomas Jugarthy Hicks, the man who sold me. They kept the car running as Hicks passed me through the back door of his clinic.
The heartbreaking thing is that I wasnt even special. Starting in the forties and lasting over a span of almost thirty years, Doc Hicks built a lucrative business selling babies out of his clinic. In the small town, women had few options and would go to the doctor for help. Some gave their babies freely to him with his promise to find homes and a better life for their children. But others were local housewives who were simply told by Doc Hicks that their babies had died; then he sold them to willing couples with the good fortune to afford them.
The twin cities of McCaysville, Georgia, and Copperhill, Tennessee, share most of everything except zip codes. The painted state line across the blacktop of the grocery store parking lot being the only way to distinguish between the two. Walk with me and see glimpses of the townsfolk, some who, even to this day, believe that Doc Hicks was a godsenda man who healed both family and friends. Meet churchgoing people and bootleggers alike who feared the doctor and yet did business with him.
You will see the two main characters lives touch briefly as they move through time and come back together in the search for truth. The two main characters being the doctor who sold me and myself as I grew up always second best, always sitting in the laps of strangers. Ill show you the struggle to understand how flesh and circumstance could be brokered so easily. Cash for a baby and a fake birth certificate.
Let me take you on my personal search that spanned over thirty years, and I will show you, with all the care I can give, the women who lost their babies through the back door of the Hicks Clinic. Let me pull back the veil to show you the many lives touched by both darkness and light. Let me take you through time to the quiet town of McCaysville, to the small brick building of the Hicks Clinic, and introduce you to a baby seller.
The stories youre about to read are retold as I envision them, having heard the accounts by those who were personally affected. So many were hurt by their experiences at the Hicks Clinic. Ive disguised details here to protect their privacy.
ONE
Stolen Babies
I THANK G OD for tattletales. If someone hadnt gossiped like an old hen and let the truth out, no one would have ever known I was someone elses child. My father was clear that he never intended on telling my sister, Michelle, and me that we were adopted, much less that wed been bought from a clinic best known for abortions. When I first began asking questions, he lied, and when I was older, he admitted that he saw no reason to tell us the truth. My parents knew what they had gotten into when they bought two babies, and everything was, in their eyes, best buried deep somewhere. What a way to live, fearing every day that someone would show up at the house and take us from the front yard. Fear and shame are consequences of keeping secrets, especially when you have so much to lose when they cant be contained.
My father was angry at the person who told his secret. My mother kept quiet because she was afraid. My parents wanted a baby desperately, and they had heard from my mothers aunt Alice that they could get a baby for cash in North Georgia. Aunt Alices friend knew a doctor who was selling babies, and they made their way down there to get one.