Tod Benoit - Where Are They Buried?: How Did They Die? Fitting Ends and Final Resting Places of the Famous, Infamous, and Noteworthy (Revised & Updated)

Fitting Ends and Final Resting Places of the Famous, Infamous, and Noteworthy

WHERE ARE THEY BURIED?

How Did They Die?

REVISED & UPDATED

TOD BENOIT

Copyright 2014 by Tod Benoit

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without written permission from the publisher.

Photo credits:

All gravesite photographs copyright 2014 by Tod Benoit except for page
which is courtesy of Lisa Rene Zaremba.

Photographs on the following pages are courtesy of Photofest:
(Frank Sinatra,
Peter Lawford, Dean Martin, Sammy Davis, Jr.); (Lou Gehrig, Babe Ruth,
Mickey Mantle, Roger Maris, Thurman Munson, Joe DiMaggio); ;
.

The remaining photograph credits are as follows:
Page : Stuart Sutcliffe Bettmann/Corbis;
page : Jim Catfish Hunter,
ap/wide world photos; page : Sam Snead & Ben Hogan, ap/wide world
photos; page : Gertrude Stein & Alice B. Toklas Bettmann/Corbis; page
: Bonnie
Parker & Clyde Barrow, ap/wide world photos.

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Cover design: Cindy LaBreacht and Amy Wahlfield

eISBN: 978-1-60376-390-5

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data available upon request.

This book is dedicated to the memory of Don Schellhammer, Sr., who died in November 2001 after a lengthy illness. At 58, Don was buried at St. Annes Cemetery in Sturbridge, Massachusetts.

For their invaluable contributions, the author is sincerely grateful to the following folks: Brian Benoit for joining in the epic Seattle-to-San Diego run of 1996; Meryl Brodsky for her labors as research librarian extraordinaire; Becky Koh for all of her generosities, including introducing my work to Black Dog & Leventhal; Laura Ross and Lisa Tenaglia, the discerning editors whose unflagging enthusiasm provided light at the end of the tunnel; Sid Roberts for mountaintop lodging; Art Dol for accommodations Down Under; and Chris Shepherd for his enthusiastic and tireless shilling of the finished product.

Im also indebted to J.P. Leventhal and the staff and freelancers of Black Dog & Leventhal, including Cindy LaBreacht, Kylie Foxx, Michael Driscoll, Sara Cameron, Dara Lazar, Gregory Hurcomb, and True Sims. Their combined efforts have lent a quality to this work that I never could have envisioned.

Finally, kudos to the all of the nameless hundreds of people, from town clerks and funeral home directors to cemetery staff and priests, whove gone well out of their way to help this cause.

Tomorrow is the most important thing in life.
Comes into us at midnight very clean.
Its perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands.
It hopes weve learned something from yesterday.
JOHN WAYNES EPITAPH

As I recall, the seasonably cool morning of December 9, 1980, became bitterly cold, for me anyway, right around ten oclock. I think thats when all this started, more or less.

I took my seat in an English class, nothing new there, and when the bell rang moments later, Chris Lozier bounced to her place directly in front of me. She was bright and cheerful, and in those days her arrival was a highlight.

Can you believe that about John Lennon? she asked.

What, did he make a disco record or something?

No, hes dead. Someone shot him last night.

And so it was. The quick flash of a gun had claimed another victim. John Lennon hadnt been the first popular figure to pass on, and he wouldnt be the last, but the senselessness of his death, and the starkness of its brutality against the kindhearted way of his life, struck a particularly heartfelt chord. While a generation that had been raised to a Beatles soundtrack contemplated its own mortality, the world mourned. At school a few months later we were treated to a rendition of Lennons Imagine by a most unlikely singer, a fellow student named John Wood. He sang it during an assembly and when he finished, the student body clapped reverentially. Though the pall of Lennons death lingered, the pieces were picked up and everyone got over it. There was nothing else to be done.

During the mid-1980s, I attended university in Lowell, Massahusetts, swallowing whole the indoctrinations of the towns famous literary son, Jack Kerouac, an exhilarating drunk whose ruminating mind tended toward the exploration of societys underbelly. In an untimely fashion in 1969, Jack drank himself to death, and the buzz in some circles was that he was buried in a nearby cemetery. As friends and I had frequented his old barroom haunts, a pilgrimage to his grave seemed fitting.

The visit proved to be more complicated than I had anticipated. There are numerous cemeteries in Lowell and nobody seemed to know in which one Jack was buried. I finally learned the name of the cemetery by tracking down his obituary, but then had to figure out how to get there. Upon arriving, my plan was again confounded: The office was closed, there was no directory, and Jacks grave could be anywhere among the thousands of stones. After wandering the cemeterys rows for a few hours I gave up the search, but returned a few weeks later with John Macolini, a college roommate and fellow Kerouac devotee. Together we eventually located Jacks grave, but I knew there had to be an easier way to find such landmarks.

The locations of famous graves, and especially the puzzle of exactly how to find them, appealed to me as a kind of offbeat treasure hunt, but responsibilities beckoned and I put the matter on the back burner. Then, in 1992, the death of Sam Kinison, a sublimely deranged comedian, prompted me to pursue a quirky mental exercise: I began to compile a list of the famous deceased who mattered to me, or who might matter to someone else. Personalities like Babe Ruth and James Dean came to mind quickly and, once the most obvious individuals had been collected, I ferreted out additional notable folks from library reference sources. Year in Review issues of magazines were especially useful, and they yielded many more obscure or unconventional famous people, such as Dian Fossey, Jim Fixx, and Oskar Schindler. After compiling a list of several hundred famous deceased, I was the proud owner of an apparently worthless pile of information. Filing it away, I moved on.

But in 1994, I chanced upon a newspaper article concerning John Lennons slaying. Across the street from the Dakota apartment building in New York City where he was shot, a section of Central Park had been dedicated to his memory and named Strawberry Fields. More than a dozen years after Johns death, a steady stream of visitors continued to arrive there in order to commune with Johns spirit, their captivation showing no sign of abating. The article was a concise digest of this curious phenomenon, though, at its most fundamental level, the reporter didnt quite understand it. But I did.