Bill Gates's father, William Gates Jr., didn't always understand his son's ambitions, but he always supported them.
Source: Liaison.
As a boy, Bill was often called Trey, a common nickname for boys who had "III" as part of their name. A middle child, Bill had two sisters. Kristi was a year older, and Libby was nine years younger. In school, he did well in math and other courses requiring logic and analysis. But as a young boy, he never showed the leadership skills the world would later come to see.
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Bill Gates and his sister, Libby.
Source: Microsoft Archives.
Always Thinking
When Bill was in the sixth grade, he and his mother were often at odds. She felt he should listen to her and do as he was told. But Bill had other ideas. One evening, after being called to dinner many times, Bill remained in his room. Finally, his mother asked over the intercom, "What are you doing?" He shouted back, "I'm thinking." "You're thinking?" she replied. "Yes, Mom, I'm thinking," he answered angrily. "Have you ever tried thinking?"
Conversations like this one eventually landed Bill in a counselor's office. His parents worried that they did not understand Bill and thought he needed someone else to talk to. In fact, Bill liked the psychologist they sent him to, and for a year he learned about psychology and various theories. However, at the end of that year, Mary Gates got this advice from the counselor: "You're going to lose. You had better adjust because there's no use trying to beat him." She began to accept that she had a strong-willed son.
A Young Programmer
Bill's education began in a public elementary school. Later he was enrolled in a private school called Lakeside. His best friend there was Kent Evans, a young man as intrigued by computers as Bill was. At one point, Bill remembered, "We read Fortune together; we were going to conquer the world."
Bill and Kent, along with their fellow schoolmate Paul Allen, formed a group called the Lakeside Programmers Group. Though they were very young, businessmen came to them with work. For example, one job required them to write a payroll system for a local company. Sometimes these friends would argue over their work. Bill always insisted on being the one in charge.
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Paul Allen (left) and Bill Gates at Lakeside in 1973.
Source: Microsoft Archives.
Today, parents and teachers alike would almost certainly praise Bill's interest in computers. At that time, however, computers did not play such a great part in people's lives because their uses were limited. The computer language of that day was called BASIC. Bill found one particularly mischievous use for his computer skills. He spent hours analyzing lines of codeprogram instructionsnot only learning how a program worked, but also looking for its weaknesses. When he found a vulnerable spot in the computer code, he would alter it and disrupt the computer. To Gates, it was a kind of game. Gates found that he could also bypass security systems and thus get access to information that he wasn't supposed to have. This is called "hacking." Back then, there were no laws against hacking. Today, it is a serious crime.
Gates's high-school teachers did not find the young hacker's activities as amusing as Gates did, and he got into trouble at school. For some reason, though, the computer company that owned the systems he had hacked into from the school computers was not nearly as upset as his teachers. The company just wanted to know how Gates had broken into their system. How did a high-school kid manage to break into a system designed to keep out sophisticated adult hackers? The truth was that Gates had already mastered Basic, and through his hacking, he had discovered a way to make mischief. Many hackers, like Bill, would later put their skills to good use writing computer programs. Hacking, though irritating to those whose computers were attacked, proved good training for a computer programmer.
In addition to programming, Bill's friend Kent enjoyed mountain climbing. But he had a tragic accident. One day he fell and was killed. Bill was devastated by Kent's death. As the weeks went by, Bill became closer to Paul. They spent a lot of time together and discussed all kinds of ideas. Their friendship, and their partnership, would last for years to come.
Gaining Independence
During his high-school years, Bill was struggling to figure out who he was. No doubt he felt out of place in his family at times. He also felt uncomfortable with other kids. His father recalled, "Trey didn't have a lot of confidence in social settings. I remember him fretting for two weeks before asking a girl to the prom, then getting turned down."