Jan Spiller [Spiller - Cosmic Love

COSMIC LOVE

A Bantam Book / January 2008

Published by Bantam Dell

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Copyright 2008 by Jan Spiller

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Spiller, Jan.

Cosmic love : secrets of the astrology of intimacy revealed / Jan Spiller.

p. cm.

1. Astrology. 2. LoveMiscellanea. 3. Intimacy (Psychology)Miscellanea. I. Title.

BF1729.L6S65 2008

133.5'81582dc22

2007038369

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Ebook ISBN: 9780553904505

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CONTENTS

Part I: THE SIGNS
Bringing Out the Best in Love Relationships

Part II: THE HOUSES
Destinys Gifts

Part III: THE ASPECTS
Navigating the Energy of Past Life Connections

THE LOCATION OF YOUR NORTH NODE

Locate the span that includes your birth date in the chart below. Your North Node position is listed to the right of these dates.

May 10, 1899Jan. 21, 1901.. Sagittarius

Jan. 22, 1901July 21, 1902.. Scorpio

July 22, 1902Jan. 15, 1904.. Libra

Jan. 16, 1904Sept. 18, 1905. Virgo

Sept. 19, 1905Mar. 30, 1907Leo

Mar. 31, 1907Sept. 27, 1908Cancer

Sept. 28, 1908Mar. 23, 1910Gemini

Mar. 24, 1910Dec. 8, 1911.. Taurus

Dec. 9, 1911June 6, 1913Aries

June 7, 1913Dec. 3, 1914Pisces

Dec. 4, 1914May 31, 1916.. Aquarius

June 1, 1916Feb. 13, 1918.. Capricorn

Feb. 14, 1918Aug. 15, 1919. Sagittarius

Aug. 16, 1919Feb. 7, 1921.. Scorpio

Feb. 8, 1921Aug. 23, 1922.. Libra

Aug. 24, 1922Apr. 23, 1924. Virgo

Apr. 24, 1924Oct. 26, 1925. Leo

Oct. 27, 1925Apr. 16, 1927. Cancer

Apr. 17, 1927Dec. 28, 1928. Gemini

Dec. 29, 1928July 7, 1930.. Taurus

July 8, 1930Dec. 28, 1931.. Aries

Dec. 29, 1931June 24, 1933. Pisces

June 25, 1933Mar. 8, 1935. Aquarius

Mar. 9, 1935Sept. 14, 1936. Capricorn

Sept. 15, 1936Mar. 3, 1938. Sagittarius

Mar. 4, 1938Sept. 12, 1939. Scorpio

Sept. 13, 1939May 24, 1941Libra

May 25, 1941Nov. 21, 1942. Virgo

Nov. 22, 1942May 11, 1944. Leo

May 12, 1944Dec. 13, 1945. Cancer

Dec. 14, 1945Aug. 2, 1947.. Gemini

Aug. 3, 1947Jan. 26, 1949.. Taurus

Jan. 27, 1949July 26, 1950.. Aries

July 27, 1950Mar. 28, 1952. Pisces

Mar. 29, 1952Oct. 9, 1953. Aquarius

Oct. 10, 1953Apr. 2, 1955.. Capricorn

Apr. 3, 1955Oct. 4, 1956Sagittarius

Oct. 5, 1956June 16, 1958.. Scorpio

June 17, 1958Dec. 15, 1959. Libra

Dec. 16, 1959June 10, 1961. Virgo

June 11, 1961Dec. 23, 1962. Leo

Dec. 24, 1962Aug. 25, 1964Cancer

Aug. 26, 1964Feb. 19, 1966Gemini

Feb. 20, 1966Aug. 19, 1967. Taurus

Aug. 20, 1967Apr. 19, 1969. Aries

Apr. 20, 1969Nov. 2, 1970.. Pisces

Nov. 3, 1970Apr. 27, 1972.. Aquarius

Apr. 28, 1972Oct. 27, 1973. Capricorn

Oct. 28, 1973July 10, 1975.. Sagittarius

July 11, 1975Jan. 7, 1977. Scorpio

Jan. 8, 1977July 5, 1978. Libra

July 6, 1978Jan. 12, 1980Virgo

Jan. 13, 1980Sept. 24, 1981. Leo

Sept. 25, 1981Mar. 16, 1983Cancer

Mar. 17, 1983Sept. 11, 1984Gemini

Sept. 12, 1984Apr. 6, 1986. Taurus

Apr. 7, 1986Dec. 2, 1987Aries

Dec. 3, 1987May 22, 1989.. Pisces

May 23, 1989Nov. 18, 1990Aquarius

Nov. 19, 1990Aug. 1, 1992. Capricorn

Aug. 2, 1992Feb. 1, 1994... Sagittarius

Feb. 2, 1994July 31, 1995... Scorpio

Aug. 1, 1995Jan. 25, 1997.. Libra

Jan. 26, 1997Oct. 20, 1998. Virgo

Oct. 21, 1998Apr. 9, 2000.. Leo

Apr. 10, 2000Oct. 12, 2001. Cancer

Oct. 13, 2001Apr. 13, 2003. Gemini

Apr. 14, 2003Dec. 25, 2004Taurus

Dec. 26, 2004June 21, 2006Aries

June 22, 2006Dec. 18, 2007. Pisces

Dec. 19, 2007Aug. 21, 2009. Aquarius

Aug. 22, 2009Mar. 3, 2011. Capricorn

Mar. 4, 2011Aug. 29, 2012. Sagittarius

Aug. 30, 2012Feb. 18, 2014. Scorpio

Feb. 19, 2014Nov. 11, 2015. Libra

Nov. 12, 2015May 9, 2017.. Virgo

May 10, 2017Nov. 6, 2018.. Leo

Nov. 7, 2018May 4, 2020... Cancer

May 5, 2020Jan. 18, 2022.. Gemini

Jan. 19, 2022July 17, 2023.. Taurus

July 18, 2023Jan. 11, 2025.. Aries

Jan. 12, 2025July 26, 2026. Pisces

July 27, 2026Mar. 26, 2028. Aquarius

Mar. 27, 2028Sept. 23, 2029Capricorn

Sept. 24, 2029Mar. 20, 2031Sagittarius

Mar. 21, 2031Dec. 1, 2032. Scorpio

Dec. 2, 2032June 3, 2034.. Libra

June 4, 2034Nov. 29, 2035. Virgo

Nov. 30, 2035May 29, 2037Leo

May 30, 2037Feb. 9, 2039.. Cancer

Feb. 10, 2039Aug. 10, 2040. Gemini

Aug. 11, 2040Feb. 3, 2042.. Taurus

Feb. 4, 2042Aug. 18, 2043.. Aries

Aug. 19, 2043Apr. 18, 2045. Pisces

Apr. 19, 2045Oct. 18, 2046. Aquarius

Oct. 19, 2046Apr. 11, 2048. Capricorn

Apr. 12, 2048Dec. 14, 2049. Sagittarius

Dec. 15, 2049June 28, 2051. Scorpio

INTRODUCTION

Ultimately, all of our efforts are really motivated by our underlying belief in the possibility of relating to others in ways that consistently bring Love and intimacy into our lives. We strive to attain material things (money, possessions, etc.) in the hope that we will then be in a better position to attract love and will feel safe enough to allow ourselves to experience it.

Then many of us work on understanding ourselves so we can grow to a point where we no longer sabotage our relationships through our own unconscious attitudes and behaviors. Its as if we know on a deep level that somehow it is possible to reach a place where love and intimacy are ongoing experiences in our relationships with others. My motivation in writing this book sprang from my desire to play a part in the sacred opportunity to bring our daily human experience closer to that potential.

The ideas in this book are being presented for the first time. They have emerged from more than thirty years of private readings that included active research with my clients on the effects of the nodal axis in their relationships. (See Essential Information for an explanation of the nodal axis.) It was their openness about the struggles they encountered, what they did that helped resolve them, and what behaviors and actions seemed to make things worse that gave me insight into the inner workings of the nodal groups.

Together we discovered old, ongoing patterns that had been sabotaging their relationships, and experimented with new ways of directing the energy that could heal these blocks to intimacy that they had been experiencing. Once they could objectively see the unconscious behaviors that had been undermining them, the insight alone helped them begin to dissolve these automatic, self-defeating responses.

Through the insights available in these pages, you can also become aware ofand choose to releasethe attitudes, reactions, and behaviors that have been disrupting your relationships. By experimenting with the suggestions recommended for your specific nodal group, you can open the door to creating greater love and intimacy with those who are important to you.

Love, as it is used in this book, refers to the universal flow of unconditional Loving energy that permeates the atmosphere and our own being. However, we have been trained from childhood to experience Love by compartmentalizing it on a personal level: love of family, friends, romantic love, love of children, etc. Love itself includesand yet is biggerthan all these confining labels. We are not isolated. Love flows through us constantly, and all we need to do to experience more Love is to begin participatingin a conscious, positive wayin the exchange of giving and receiving Love with others.