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ALSO BY THE AUTHOR

The Reason for God

The Prodigal God

Counterfeit Gods

Generous Justice

Jesus the King

The Meaning of Marriage

Center Church

Every Good Endeavor

Walking with God through Pain and Suffering

Encounters with Jesus

Prayer

Preaching

The Songs of Jesus

Making Sense of God

Hidden Christmas

Gods Wisdom for Navigating Life

The Prodigal Prophet

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VIKING

An imprint of Penguin Random House LLC

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Copyright 2011, 2019 by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller

Penguin supports copyright. Copyright fuels creativity, encourages diverse voices, promotes free speech, and creates a vibrant culture. Thank you for buying an authorized edition of this book and for complying with copyright laws by not reproducing, scanning, or distributing any part of it in any form without permission. You are supporting writers and allowing Penguin to continue to publish books for every reader.

Based upon The Meaning of Marriage, originally published by Dutton, an imprint of Penguin Random House LLC, New York, in 2011.

ISBN 9780525560777 (hardcover)

ISBN 9780525560784 (ebook)

All Bible references are from the New International Version (NIV), unless otherwise noted.

Cover design: Paul Buckley

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To our sons and to the remarkable women who married them

David and Jen

Michael and Sara

Jonathan and Ann-Marie

INTRODUCTION

Several years ago Tim and I wrote a book, The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God. We discussed a number of issues related to knowing and loving your spouse in the context of a marriage grounded in the Christian faith. Many people have told us how much the book has helped them, and nothing makes us happier. It was the fruit of hard-won experience, and God promises that what he gives to one is meant for the benefit of all.

It is not necessary to have read that book in order to use this one. But it is worth recapping some of the basic themes of The Meaning of Marriage. The main problem every marriage faces is the self-centeredness in both spouses hearts. Traditional cultures often dealt with this by browbeating people about their sin. Modern culture has virtually enshrined it, talking about Me-Marriages that last only as long as both parties feel the marriage is meeting their needs without too much exertion. The solution, however, is the gospel of Christ, for it both humbles us and exalts us at the same time.

An equally crucial theme is that the essence of your marriage is a covenant, a binding promise. A covenant is neither a cold contract nor merely an emotional pledge. It is giving your whole life to each other, not just physically but also legally, financially, emotionally, spiritually. The binding, legal commitment creates an unparalleled space for trust, vulnerability, and intimacy. Many modern people think the essence of marriage is a romantic feeling, but rather it is the marriage promise that keeps you together through the ups and downs of feeling, which over time provides a depth of love that could not be attained any other way.

We see marriage as friendship-with-a-mission. While ancient and traditional marriages gave priority to the roles of parents, and modern marriage elevates the desires of romantic lovers, we argued that, along with all the other factors, spouses need to be best friends. Friendship, however, needs to be about something, and in a Christian marriage it needs to be about spiritual growth and each spouse helping the other to grow into Christlikeness. If we aim at holiness for each other, happiness will come; if we aim primarily at just happiness, we will get neither.

Then, for these various tasks and responsibilities in marriage, we pointed to a toolbox of ways to know and love your spouse over the years, particularly as you both go through major life changes and sometimes we feel we are married to a stranger. What do we do? There are three basic things to do: speak the truth; show lovein the particular currencies or love languages that your spouse finds most valuable; and, finally, give grace through regular repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation.

In Christian marriage, it is both a glory and a challenge to love someone of the other gender. Loving across the gender divide takes a great deal of patience, understanding, humility, and love. Today, of course, this is an area marked by controversy, but we tried as much as possible to follow the Scriptures here, which critique both overly rigid gender stereotypes as well as the modern denial of distinct gender roles.

In the last two chapters we turned to the subjects of singleness and sexuality. There we laid out something of the Christian ethic and understanding of sex, so revolutionary when it burst on the world scene, but so contested today.

So why this devotional? The purpose of this couples devotional is to provide an opportunity for sustained and practical reflection on love and marriage within a Christian perspective. A book like The Meaning of Marriage can provide principles and insights, but it can also be hard to digest and apply to everyday life. In the book you hold, we both expanded on and broke down the themes and lessons into short meditations, looking at each concept in its various aspects and proposing application questions and practices.

This devotional pulls out passages from The Meaning of Marriage and provides an opportunity to think out the personal implications of one very specific aspect of Christian marriage each day.

On the first week of each month, we provide you with a Scripture text regarding love, sex, and marriage, followed by a meditation on an aspect of the biblical teaching. After that there is a reflection, which is a set of application questions, followed finally with a brief example of a prayer about the subject. While some of these biblical texts are referred to in The Meaning of Marriage, these studies are new and not found in the earlier book. The texts that are covered are listed on page xiv.

JANUARY: Genesis 1 and 2: Marriage and creation

FEBRUARY: Genesis 23; Ephesians 5: Marriage and redemption

MARCH: Various: The seventh commandment

APRIL: Genesis 39 and various: Preventing adultery

MAY: Various: Divorce

JUNE: Proverbs and various: Who we are to one another

JULY: Various New Testament: How to serve one another

AUGUST: Various New Testament: How to reconcile with one another

SEPTEMBER: 1 Corinthians 6: The Christian sexual revolution: 1

OCTOBER: 1 Corinthians 7: The Christian sexual revolution: 2

NOVEMBER: The Song of Solomon -:Love song: seeking one another

DECEMBER: The Song of Solomon: Love song: finding one another

On each day of the other three weeks of every month we begin with a quote from The Meaning of Marriage instead of a Bible verse, followed by a meditation and a reflection. Finally there is a Thought for prayer that gives some ideas for how you can pray the topic of the day into your heart and life.

This is a couples devotional, and it is designed for married couples to use. One way to do it is to read it aloud to each other. Then ask: What helped you the most? After that, answer the Reflection questions together. Finally pray together, using the Thought for prayer as a springboard for your own conversation with God. Another way to use this book, however, is to read it daily as an individual, write down your thoughts, and regularly meet with your spouse to discuss your insights and findings.

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