Here are fresh and practical insights into how to engage people in spiritual discussions that are authentic and compelling. Its a must-have guide to becoming stronger salt and brighter light in the twenty-first century!
LEE STROBEL
Bestselling author of The Case for Christ and professor of Christian Thought at Houston Baptist University
Go and make disciples. That was one of the commands Jesus gave to his followers, but it often ranks low among American Christians priorities. Thats why churches, small groups, and those who consider themselves to be disciples of Jesus should read this book. The9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations is an essential resource for accomplishing the mission Christ gave his church.
RICH STEARNS
President of World Vision US and author of The Hole in Our Gospel and Unfinished
The nine arts are a culmination of years of real-life stories. If you want tried-and-true concepts that will become reality for you and your friends, I highly recommend this unique resource.
HUGH HALTER
Author of Flesh, Brimstone, and The Tangible Kingdom
John and Mary present a compelling case for how to maximize moments for Kingdom good. This book will profoundly alter the way you engage with humanity. Its a must-read for anyone who is serious about having spiritual conversations!
STEVE CARTER
Teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church
When you cant put a book down, you know that you are on to something important. As I read The 9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations, I found myself simultaneously instructed, challenged, inspired, and equipped. I was given hope that I could actually engage people in a way that could lovingly bring them to Jesus over time. The ministry of Young Life has popularized the phrase that we need to earn the right to be heard. This book puts flesh on that phrase like nothing else I have ever read.
GREG OGDEN
Writer, speaker, teacher on discipleship, and author of Discipleship Essentials
Fear of rejection and a lack of understanding on how to communicate the gospel has shut the mouths of many sincere Christians for too long. The 9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations is a shot of encouragement for all of us who want to live and proclaim a gospel that is truly good news!
CAESAR KALINOWSKI
Author of Transformed and Small Is Big, Slow Is Fast
For introverts like me, the first four arts (Noticing, Praying, Listening, and Asking Questions) are especially helpful. Gifted extroverts can help us with the other five! I am impressed with the vitality and deep faith of the authors: They really want to help us reach out for Christ, and they do so winsomely.
FREDERICK DALE BRUNER
Author of commentaries on the Gospel of Matthew (2004) and the Gospel of John (2012)
In The 9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations, John and Mary make the art of connecting with the people whom Jesus misses most doable, human, and fun. Put these arts to work in your church today and watch evangelism move from being a gift shared by only a few to a practice shared by everyone.
JIM HENDERSON
Author of Jim and Casper Go to Church, executive producer at Jim Henderson Presents
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The 9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations: Walking Alongside People Who Believe Differently
Copyright 2016 by Q Place, Mary Schaller, and John Crilly. All rights reserved.
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Schaller, Mary.
Title: The 9 arts of spiritual conversations : walking alongside people who
believe differently / Mary Schaller and John Crilly.
Other titles: Nine arts of spiritual conversations
Description: Carol Stream, IL : Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 2016. |
Includes bibliographical references.
Identifiers: LCCN 2015038074 | ISBN 9781496405760 (sc)
Subjects: LCSH: Interpersonal relationsReligious aspectsChristianity. |
Oral communicationReligious aspectsChristianity. | Christianity and
other religions. | Witness bearing (Christianity) | Apologetics.
Classification: LCC BV4597.52 .C75 2016 | DDC 248/.5dc23 LC record available at http://lccn.loc.gov/2015038074
ISBN 978-1-4964-1236-2 (ePub); ISBN 978-1-4964-0577-7 (Kindle); ISBN 978-1-4964-1237-9 (Apple)
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Preface
NOW THAT YOUVE PICKED UP THIS BOOK, you may have a burning question about the cover: Why the dinosaurs? Are we saying spiritual conversations are extinct?
When I (Crilly) think of dinosaurs, I immediately am taken back to a childhood memory of my grandmas home. My Grandmother Crilly was a child of the Depression. She grew up a fatherless immigrant and married very young, only to divorce her abusive first husband and marry my grandfather, a quiet and gentle man. My grandma was a neat freak, probably with an obsessive-compulsive disorder that manifested itself in cleanliness. She put paper towels between every plate in the cabinet. She was constantly concerned about bugs getting into her home. She had clear plastic covering her nice sofa and chairs.