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An inspirational memoir about how Jennifer Pastiloffs years of waitressing taught her to seek out unexpected beauty, how deafness taught her to listen fiercely, how being vulnerable allowed her to find love, and how imperfections can lead to a life full of wild happiness.
Centered around the touchstone stories Jen tells in her popular workshops, On Being Human is the story of how a starved person grew into the exuberant woman she was meant to be all along by battling the demons within and winning.
Jen did not intend to become a yoga teacher, but when she was given the opportunity to host her own retreats, she left her thirteen-year waitressing job and said yes, despite crippling fears of her inexperience and her own potential. After years of feeling depressed, anxious, and hopeless, in a life that seemed to have no escape, she healed her own heart by caring for others. She has learned to fiercely listen despite being nearly deaf, to banish...

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On Being Human

Forget everything you know about memoir. Of course this is about the comet that is Jen Pastiloff and how she grew up struggling with deafness, depression, and a wrecked body image to go on and crack open the worlds heart with yoga/writing retreats, a website named The Manifest-Station, and pure lovebut honestly, its really the memoir of all of us, every single one of us who ever felt Im not enough, Im not loved, Im falling apart, I dont belong here. I was reading this moving memoir while crying, scribbling down sentences and holding on to them like lifelines. Ive got you, Jen says, but the true message of this radiant memoir is nothing short of that revolutionary love: weve got each other.

Caroline Leavitt, author of Pictures of You and Is This Tomorrow

Listen to me: youre going to think Jen Pastiloff is your BFF after you read this book, because when youre done reading it you will feel known. No one is better qualified to write a book called On Being Human than this particular human. Having long struggled to accept her own imperfections and struggles, Jen manages to bring these to the page with a humor, heart, and generosity that makes room for all of us to be a little kinder to ourselves.

Elizabeth Crane, author of Turf and The History of Great Things

Especially in these dark times for women, there is actually nothing simple about Pastiloffs radical alchemy. Read this book and feel yourself expand.

Gina Frangello, author of A Life in Men and Every Kind of Wanting

Jen Pastiloff is a rejuvenating supernova! A life-force of primal, extravagant delight! Frank and funny, shell boss herself around and change the rest of us in the meantime. Id want to listen to anything she has to say.

Naomi Shihab Nye, Pushcart Prizewinning poet and author of Fuel and 19 Varieties of Gazelle

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Library of Congress Cataloging-In-Publication Data

Names: Pastiloff, Jennifer, author.

Title: On being human : a memoir of waking up, living real, and listening hard / Jennifer Pastiloff ; foreword by Lidia Yuknavitch.

Description: New York City : Dutton, 2019.

Identifiers: LCCN 2018048010 | ISBN 9781524743567 (hardback) | ISBN 9781524743574 (ebook)

Subjects: LCSH: Quality of life. | Well-being. | Yoga. | Self-realization. | BISAC: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Women. | SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Happiness. | HEALTH & FITNESS / Yoga.

Classification: LCC HN25 .P375 2019 | DDC 306dc23

LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2018048010

Some names and identifying characteristics have been changed to protect the privacy of the individuals involved.

Penguin is committed to publishing works of quality and integrity. In that spirit, we are proud to offer this book to our readers; however, the story, the experiences, and the words are the authors alone.

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For my father, who left too soonand for my son, who came at exactly the right time

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Foreword

W HEN WAS THE LAST TIME someone listened to you?

I mean really listened to you. Heard you with their whole body. Can you remember?

Jennifer Pastiloff practices radical listening. She is also mostly deaf, so when I tell you that she listens with her entire body, I promise you, there is nothing else like it. How we first met was she attended a writing workshop of mine in Portland, Oregon. She arrived with a broken foot. She was one of the most beautiful women Id ever seen. Her eyelashes alone were dazzling. I was mesmerized. Smitten. Immediately and ridiculously. After she left I Googled her late at night like a stalker. The next week she messaged me on Facebook to tell me that my workshop had changed her life. I was so scared to answer her message I disappeared into my own butt (a common introvert tactic akin to sea anemones).

And yet there was something so profoundly attractive about her; something radiating from inside of her that literally took my breath away enough that I transcended my idiotic shyness and introversion and eventually answered her. The profoundly attractive thing about Jen Pastiloff is this: her ability to be so fundamentally and authentically present alongside other human beings that you remember who you are, or who you might be, if you could be amazing. And when she sits down to listen to you, your soul comes back to life.

What does it mean, radical listening? Jen Pastiloff embodies a kind of listening that originates in the heart and the gut. Perhaps the fact that she has struggled with hearing loss has given her special sensitivity to what we mean when we claim we are listening to each other. To be honest, I dont know very many good listeners. I seem to meet more and more people who have forgotten that listening is the other side of voice. I am most in love with people who deeply understand voice as being able to tell their story in a way that makes room for other bodies and other stories to coexist. When Jen teaches an On Being Human workshop, a kind of magical hybrid of yoga, story-listening, and storytelling, a whole world opens up where our differences and our similarities are allowed to emerge, reminding us that even as we are individuals we can also make bridges to each other. Honestly, though, you have to take one of her workshops yourself so that you can experience what I mean when I say she listens with her whole body.

The first time I was in one of her workshops and she sat down in front of me to listen to what Id written, my entire body began to shake. No one had ever looked at me or listened to me or sat with me like that in my entire life (okay, except the times Joan of Arc and Mary Shelley each visited me in a dream, but most people think Im nuts when I tell them about that). It both scared the crap out of me and simultaneously unearthed a long, partly sad, partly joyous note in my own throat. A truth note. A glimpse of my own heart worth.

I suck at yoga. No really, I do. For one thing, I have scoliosis bad enough to have given me chronic pain since I was thirteen. I have a hip dysplasia that makes sitting, standing, driving, and walking super fun. As a fifty-five-year-old woman, Im also menopausal, arthritic, and generally stiff and cranky most of the time, even though I was a competitive swimmer for more than twenty years. What Im saying is, Im not up for yogi of the year or anything by a long shot. If I get down on the ground Im not even sure I can get back up by myself. My hips and knees and ankles make noises that sometimes frighten me.

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