Kiloby - Living Realization

Living
Realization

A Simple, Plain-English Guide to Non-Duality

Scott Kiloby

Non-Duality Press

LIVING REALIZATION

2012, 2013, 2014 The Kiloby Group

2014 Non-Duality Press

Editor: Fiona Robertson

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CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION:

Living Realization

YOU KNOW WHEN you are ready for a message like Living Realization. You feel it to the very core of your being. Youre pulled towards it by an unmistakable knowing that there is something deeper, something more to life than what you currently believe or perceive.

You have come to this message because its words resonate with you on a level deeper than the mind. There is a peace within you that you know is present, but that seems somehow buried under the noise of life, with its personal drama and constant seeking towards the future. Now, you are ready to move beyond these self-centered patterns. You are ready to begin looking into your present experience in a deep and specific way. You are ready to see why it is that you suffer, why you seek, and why human life contains so much conflict.

Perhaps youve suffered from self-loathing, doubt, depression, anxiety, addiction, over-thinking, or some other emotional or psychological issue. Maybe you have always felt uncomfortable in your own skin. Maybe you have experienced conflict with others, or painful regret and guilt in relationships. If you are like most humans, youve experienced yourself as incomplete or deficient in some way.

For some of us, life has been fine. No real breakdowns. No intense hardships. We may have experienced some degree of contentment or even moments of real freedom. Yet even those of us who have had pretty good lives often carry a subtle, ongoing, and gnawing sense that an important piece of lifes puzzle seems somehow just out of reach.

Many of us have searched for lifes answers everywhere but here and now. We thought the answers were in the future, so we sought them there. We looked for relief in relationships, jobs, material success, self-help programs, drugs, alcohol, meditation, prayer, or belief systems.

In our search for contentment, we may have come across religions, philosophies, self-improvement programs, or spiritual teachings that swept us off our feet with beautiful language and the promise that further down the road, after many years of work, we might discover the contentment we are seeking. We may have become diligently and earnestly involved in these programs, seduced by promises of fabulous worldly goods or other-worldly spiritual planes.

The treasure here is quite different. It is not a promise of future fulfillment. It is not an elaborate system designed to revise our personal stories. It is an invitation to put all that aside long enough to look deeply into our present experience and to realize that the wholeness and healing that we seek are already here. When we make this discovery, we find that love, peace, compassion, and wisdom are naturally present. The key is to recognize this treasure. We have just been overlooking it, searching in all the wrong places.

Living Realization is nothing short of a love affair with life. It is like falling in love with experiencing itself, and seeing that our present experience is perfect just as it is, no matter where we are or what is happening. This does not mean that we escape pain or challenging situations, like illness or death. Rather, we see that everything that happensthe good and the badis equally drenched in freedom. To see perfection in every experience, and in everyone and everything, is to realize that our fundamental nature is experience itself. When we come to realize that present experiencing is what we are, we live in a deep and natural acceptance of each moment as it is. This is freedom in the midst of every single happening in our lives.

Living Realization is about more than just learning a new language or employing a new method. Although it is a language and method, it is actually a vehicle designed to reveal present freedom. This is about a realization that is lived, not just entertained intellectually. If language alone were enough, one could walk to the local bookstore, pick up any well-written book on human freedom, and magically experience that freedom simply by reading or memorizing the words.

Teachings, religions, courses, methods, paths, and practices are merely tools. They are invitations to look into our own direct experience. If a teaching is not designed to redirect us back to our own experience, it is a distraction. This is not about focusing on a method or practice for years with the hope of a payoff down the road. It is not about memorizing fancy spiritual words. Rather, the method here is always directing us to look into our present experience. It is about discovering that the treasure of liberation is already contained within what we are.

The Main Invitation

T O THE BEST of your ability, put aside everything you have ever learned or read about freedom or happiness for long enough to hear this message. Start anew!

Lets get to the crux of the matter, which is a constant reminder that only you hold the key to realization. No one can give it to you, not even the clearest path, method, or teaching in the world.

Let every word you read disappear as soon as youve read it. Let the words be like breezes that blow through your mind only long enough to remind you to recognize awareness in all situations.

The main invitation in Living Realization is this:

Recognize awareness

Let all appearances be as they are

See that appearances are inseparable.

There are many other pointers, tools, and inquiries in this book, but these simple pointers are really all you need to recognize freedom in the midst of your life.

We must start with something fundamental: basic, everyday awareness. What is awareness? Right now, before you entertain your story of who you are and before any other thought arises, there is a basic awake, thought-free awareness here. Awareness is the basic capacity to be aware. Its as simple as that. If you try to understand that intellectually, you miss the simplicity of it. Before you think about it, are you aware right now? That is awareness.

Stop for one moment and bring your full attention to this basic awareness. It is what allows the present moment to effortlessly be as it is. Notice that when you are not thinking, this basic awareness simply allows, for example, the wall to be as it is. It naturally allows a table to be as it is. It naturally allows the air in the room to be as it is. It takes no effort to let everything be as it is. Discover this for yourself. Stop thinking for long enough to get one glimpse of the fact that there is a basic awareness already here. All you have to do is notice that it is here. Then notice that when a thought arises, this basic awareness allows even that thought to be as it is.