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Offering timely and clear guidance on the heart qualities of mindfulness meditation, Amanda Gilbert shares with us how the simple power of kindness has the capacity to create the world we want to see.
DEEPAK CHOPRA, MD , author of Total Meditation
Amanda Gilbert reminds us in Kindness Now that we all live on kindness. In a world that feels topsy-turvy, this twenty-eight-day training to support the development of kindness feels like a perfect way to spend a monthin true investigation and celebration of the heart.
SHARON SALZBERG , author of Lovingkindness
More than anything in the world, waking up our heart brings happiness, peace, and a more loving world. Let this wise and beautiful book guide you on this path of healing and freedom!
TARA BRACH , author of Radical Acceptance
This beautiful, honest, and vulnerable book will teach you many things about kindness. Through practical exercises, meditations, and reflections, Amanda Gilbert gently offers readers a clear and doable path to follow toward greater authenticity and kindness.
DIANA WINSTON , author of The Little Book of Being
Amanda Gilbert offers clear, wise, and kindhearted advice to anyone who wishes to develop more kindness in their own heart. She lovingly takes your hand and guides you every step of the way as you walk this twenty-eight-day inner journey. She reveals how by practicing these heart meditations and techniques, anyone can learn to grow the beautiful heart of kindness.
MARK COLEMAN , author of From Suffering to Peace
Amanda Gilbert brilliantly brings modern context to essential teachings of the Buddha. Her time on the cushion and strong peace reverberate through this book and inspire readers on their own journey to develop the underestimated quality of kindness. Kindness Now is an invaluable tool for those in the midst of personal transformation and who are looking for practices to help them show up in the world more effectively.
YUNG PUEBLO , author of Inward
Shambhala Publications, Inc.
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2021 by Amanda Gilbert
Cover art: Allison Meierding
Cover design: Allison Meierding
Interior design: Kate Huber-Parker
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Gilbert, Amanda (Meditation teacher) author.
Title: Kindness now: a 28-day guide to living with authenticity, intention, and compassion / Amanda Gilbert. Description: Boulder: Shambhala, 2021.
Identifiers: LCCN 2020045729 | ISBN 9781611809015 (trade paperback)
eISBN 9780834843660
Subjects: LCSH: Meditation.
Classification: LCC BL627 .G55 2021 | DDC 294.3/4435dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2020045729
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FOR VICKI
who showed me the
limitless potential
of the human heart
CONTENTS
WEEK 1
TEACHINGS ON LOVING-KINDNESS
WEEK 2
TEACHINGS ON COMPASSION
WEEK 3
TEACHINGS ON APPRECIATIVE JOY
WEEK 4
TEACHINGS ON EQUANIMITY
FOREWORD
TRUDY GOODMAN, PhD
This book, Kindness Now, is inviting you to embark on one of the most exciting adventures of your lifetime. Imagine discovering that you are in possession of a hidden treasure, a valuable trust fund containing an abundant supply of love, compassion, joy, and serenity. Imagine that you can access your inner trust fund through meditation exercises, practical tools to help you face whatever happens in your life with more confidence, strength, and kindness. And imagine learning that your unruly mind can be tamed by your very own kind heart. Wouldnt that be amazing? This is the promise of Kindness Now: in twenty-eight days of practice, you can rock your world, tilting your whole life in a new direction.
Through a skillful weaving of Buddhist and Western psychology, Amanda Gilbert gently guides you through the hard work of heart work. She shows you how to outfit a mobile home for your heart so you can navigate this life more smoothly, with gratitude and ease. You can take your time and go at your own pace. Amanda shows the way through her skillful weaving of honest personal experience and ancient wisdom. You can travel secure in the knowledge that youre being guided by an expert in these time-honored teachings that have helped millions of people for thousands of years.
Beautifully written, Kindness Now is based on mindfulness meditation. It is a thorough and generous articulation of the brahma-viharas, the divine abodesthe beautiful places the heart can dwell in peace and happiness. The brahma-viharas are lovingkindness, genuine compassion, all-inclusive joy, and courageous equanimity, and they work like magic. After fifty years of my own study and practice of these teachings, Im struck by a great mix of enthusiasm, humility, and patience with which Amanda hands you a whole set of keys to unlock the doors to your own trustworthy, kind heart. Over and over again, she reminds us all that these qualities are innate. They are planted in the human psyche, seeds simply waiting to be seen and watered. You are holding a portable garden in your hands, one that can live in your hearts mobile home. Best of all, this book takes you there.
Read this, treasure this, keep this in your heart.
INTRODUCTION
Be kind. It shakes the world.
Cleo Wade
Ive come to understand there are two places where we meet our full unfiltered humanity. One is in the journey between heartbreak and healing. And the other is where we deal with this inevitable processon the meditation cushion. The latter is a place where humans have gone to metabolize our most unearthing and life-affirming experiences while being in the uncharted terrain of discovering what it means to feel whole, complete, and at ease in our own skin.
Ive also come to learn that the very same qualities that make us human, from our ability to love someone thoroughly to spontaneously smiling at someone as they walk by on the street, also enable us to make it from the rumbles of setbacks, breakups, and great losses to rebuilding ourselves in the aftermath. This is the quality of kindness. Kindness is what the human heart is made of. It gives us the wisdom, strength, and perseverance to face our most vulnerable and difficult life moments. And it guides us in uncovering the bottomless depths of our love, our compassion, and our most genuine dreams and intentions. Through kindness we realize healing is possible, feeling good is possible, and meeting our full authentic selves is possible. And it is the very quality that enables us to make it through one meditation session, one messy human moment at a time.
Kindness is now about to get the spotlight it deserves in your life, and Im so happy we get to walk down this path of understanding and discovering together. The very fact that you are holding this book in your hands means you are ready to find out what the teachings of kindness have in store for you. Let me tell you, I am confident that these pages and twenty-eight days of practice will rock your world. More so, I am confident that learning how to meet yourself and the world with kindness now will be the exact inner resource you have been looking for. To put it simply, kindness heals. And I bow to your hearts wisdom for guiding you here to train your heart and mind in becoming an even more loving, understanding, and compassionate human being.