This is an inspiring book. Ed Halliwell shows how an ancient wisdom, carefully tested by the best methods of modern clinical science, can become a trusted resource for the 21st century.
MARK WILLIAMS, EMERITUS PROFESSOR OF CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGY, UNIVERSITY OF OXFORD, AUTHOR OF MINDFULNESS: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO FINDING PEACE IN A FRANTIC WORLD
Mindfulness involves an honest and courageous openness to the experience of being human in the present moment. Ed Halliwell knows the theory and practice of this curiously unfamiliar terrain inside out. The result is a practical and helpful guidebook, charmingly punctuated with luminous psychological and philosophical insight.
DR JONATHAN ROWSON, DIRECTOR, RSA SOCIAL BRAIN CENTRE
Want to discover how to be peaceful? Ed has given us pragmatic, clear and compassionate guidance that we can apply in our everyday life. The practical guidance on mindfulness is interwoven throughout with reference to the scientific underpinning, and is brought to life by following the experiences of four people whove journeyed through the programme.
REBECCA CRANE, DIRECTOR, CENTRE FOR MINDFULNESS RESEARCH AND PRACTICE, BANGOR UNIVERSITY
This wonderfully accessible guide to mindfulness is written with a clarity, openness and gentle kindness that are some of the hallmarks of mindfulness practice itself. Drawing on many of the key elements of the MBSR/MBCT course, the book also offers an introductory bridge into the rich philosophical foundations that underpin and complete mindfulness-based approaches.
ROBERT MARX, CONSULTANT CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST, LEAD FOR MINDFULNESS TRAINING AND GOVERNANCE, SUSSEX PARTNERSHIP NHS FOUNDATION TRUST
The key to lasting happiness is the ability to live in wise relation to our thoughts, feelings and surroundings. Mindfulness is a life-changing tool that helps us do this and is perhaps the ultimate life skill for living well. This book is a fabulous, insightful and accessible introduction to mindfulness from one of its leading practitioners. Highly recommended.
DR MARK WILLIAMSON, DIRECTOR OF ACTION FOR HAPPINESS
Theres little doubt that mindfulness is one of the most powerful remedies for the stresses of life in our distracted, hyper-busy, individualistic era. But its surprisingly hard to find truly practical, research-backed advice on how to do it. Ed Halliwells Mindfulness is an unprecedentedly clear guide to the topic, cutting through the myths and magical thinking to the essence of this ancient yet urgently relevant practice. To learn the art of living well and happily by paying attention, start by paying attention to this book.
OLIVER BURKEMAN, AUTHOR OF HELP, THE ANTIDOTE AND THE GUARDIANS THIS COLUMN WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE
With so much being written on mindfulness over recent times you could be forgiven for thinking that there is nothing new to learn. This book effectively puts paid to that assumption! Eds writing is clear and comprehensible, but it is not just for beginners it is for anyone who wants to be reminded why these ancient practices continue to be so relevant to our lives today. By interweaving case studies with a week-by-week chapter structure Ed has provided a practical, accessible guide which is equally applicable to the newcomer or those of us who still struggle to incorporate mindfulness practice into our everyday lives.
DR JONTY HEAVERSEDGE, CO-AUTHOR OF THE MINDFULMANIFESTO, AND CHAIR OF NHS SOUTHWARK CLINICAL COMMISSIONING GROUP
Mindfulness is an age-old practice that has proven over millennia and across cultures to be an effective tool for managing the stresses of everyday life and for cultivating a greater sense of presence and wellbeing. As a gifted and valued member of our teaching faculty, Ed Halliwells Mindfulness courses are an essential component of our core curriculum. His latest guide offers clear, practical insight and instruction for anyone interested in developing this skill.
MORGWN RIMEL, DIRECTOR, THE SCHOOL OF LIFE, LONDON
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If you know the point of balance, You can settle the details. If you can settle the details, You can stop running around. Your mind will become calm. If your mind becomes calm, You can think in front of a tiger. If you can think in front of a tiger, You will surely succeed.
MENCIUS
In my mid-twenties, I became very stuck. I was working frantically and living hedonistically, trying to numb a nagging sense of doubt that the career and lifestyle Id chosen were at odds with my values and aspirations. I sought happiness by chasing after pleasure and status, but the more I strived for contentment, the more it seemed out of reach. When yet another relationship fell apart, I did too, sinking into a deep and anxious depression.
Looking back now, I see my main trouble was I didnt know how to live well. I had very little understanding of how happiness happens not just in terms of the activities that lead to wellbeing, but in how to work skilfully with experience itself. I had very little awareness of the patterns of thinking, feeling, relating and doing in which I was trapped, and so even when I recognized that something was wrong, I didnt really know what it was, or what to do about it. In desperation, I tried many fixes, but none seemed to help.
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