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First published in the United States in 2022 by Chronicle Books LLC.
First published in Great Britain in 2021 by Aster, an imprint of Octopus Publishing Group Ltd, Carmelite House, 50 Victoria Embankment, London EC4Y 0DZ, www.octopusbooks.co.uk .
Text copyright 2021 Danielle North.
Illustrations copyright 2021 SpaceFrog Designs.
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ISBN 978-1-7972-1512-9 (Hardcover)
ISBN 978-1-7972-1513-6 (ebook)
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contents
Introduction
The beauty of mornings
We are often in a hurry in the morning. Trying to get somewhere as the new day dawns. It seems so habitual to jump into action as soon as we get out of bed, so necessary almost to get up, grab a coffee, and get going.
Yet there is an energy in the early hours of the day that is beautifully silent, still, and peaceful. A time before the dawn has fully broken, when the birds have not yet started singing, when the connection to spirit (and therefore to yourself) is available more fully than at any other time of day. This space between the end of the night and the beginning of the day is a place suited to silence. It is a time of meditation and of the realms of the dreamworld, and a perfect place to connect more deeply with yourself as the day begins. Holding this still and sacred space is the beauty of mornings.
Its not always possible when you are juggling a lot of priorities, but what if the stillness could support the juggle? Keep it simple to start with and set your alarm ten minutes early, so you can enjoy your morning tea in silence. Or perhaps turn off the alarm and the radio on weekends and experience silence as you wake up naturally to start your day.
When we wake up in the morning, there is a subtle space between waking and reality. That space holds an emptiness before the thoughts begin to crowd the mind, and how welcome those thoughts are will depend on how you feel and what is going on in your life.
You might wake from a dream and feel as if that dream state is your waking stateand you emerge into your day feeling deliciously cozy or deeply grateful. Or perhaps you wake feeling disorientated, with a jolt, experiencing the emotions you had while you were dreaming, gasping for breath, or with tears rolling down your cheeks, or your heart tight with anxiety. For some people, going to bed doesnt mean falling asleep or staying asleep, so you may already have been awake long before dawn. However you start your day, there is an opportunity to treat that space as special and sacred by using morning rituals.
The following suggestions are just thatsuggestions. These rituals are not a list of requirements that you have to incorporate into your morning, but food for thought and perhaps inspiration for you to deepen your relationship with yourself, become grounded, and have greater clarity, focus, and direction.
By their very nature, rituals work best when practiced regularly over time. When we do that, the ritual eventually becomes so natural, so habitual, that life without it would seem strange. But there is a period of time before that happens when the practice might feel challenging or too time-consuming, and its sticking to it during these times that eventually leads to a breakthrough. To get started, I suggest you choose one or two rituals and weave them into your morning routine for six months, to discover what happens.
As you prepare to go on the journey these pages offer, I want to share a final note to remind you that day and night are connected. Light does not exist without the dark. How you end your day and how you begin your day are symbiotic, and functioning with them as part of a whole will bring positive benefits to your overall experience of living.
May your beautiful soul always shine brightly.
Mountains of love,
Danielle x
On waking
Are your mornings a chaotic mix of dogs, children, and packed lunches? Do you hit the snooze button and squeeze every last delicious second out of being under the covers? Or are your senses immediately blasted by the news, emails, and social media? Whatever your morning looks like, you may think its impossible to carve out any extra time for yourself. If thats the case, start small and start as soon as you wake up. Here are three quick health practices you can build into your mornings.
- Clean your teeth and scrape your tongue. Overnight your body has been working brilliantly to detox your system, and some of the results of that process are now in your mouth in the form of bacteria. So, as soon as you get up, before you consume anything, brush your teeth and use a tongue scraper to clean your tongueit only takes a few extra seconds.
- While youre there, take a few seconds to look in the mirror. Look beyond your face and into your eyes, letting yourself see deep within. Place your hand on your heart and then say your name and something positive to start your day. If youre unsure what to say, then simply say, I love you.
- Drink water before your morning coffee. Coffee will dehydrate your cells, and as youve not had any fluids for a number of hours, thats a quick route to a tension headache. So, drink a large glass of warm (not iced) water when you wake up.
Write your dreams
Every dream is a private and individual communication. How you dream and what your dreams are communicating are unique to you. Dreams constitute some of the most personal and precious guidance we can receive in our lives. If you are seeking clarity and direction in your life, or perhaps greater meaning and purpose, or you are working through a difficulty or challenge, a dream is a place you can trust for guidance.
However, dreams are not easy to understand. Our dreamworld is different from our waking world, and the way in which we construct ideas and thoughts in a logical, often linear, way when we are awake is not how things function when we are asleep. Instead, the dream reveals itself in symbols and patterns, time takes on an entirely different meaning, and sometimes when we wake our recollection of the dream is hazy, vague, or non-existent.
Dreams are sometimes described as being good or bad, but because the dreamworld works in symbols, what is deemed bad in the waking world may be positive in the dream. For instance, in a dream, killing another person can symbolize growth and development, as you have learned to be less vulnerable to attack and are more able to defend yourself.
Remember, any interpretation must be linked to you and the context of your life. For this reason, looking up the meaning of your dream online is utterly pointless. Your dream is for