Cyndi Dale - Llewellyns Little Book of Empathy

C yndi Dale is an internationally renowned author, speaker, healer, and business consultant. She is president of Life Systems Services, through which she has conducted over 65,000 client sessions and presented training classes throughout Europe, Asia, and the Americas. Visit her online at CyndiDale.com .

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Llewellyns Little Book of Empathy 2019 by Cyndi Dale.

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Names: Dale, Cyndi, author.

Title: Llewellyns little book of empathy / Cyndi Dale.

Description: FIRST EDITION. | Woodbury : Llewellyn Worldwide, Ltd., 2019. |

Series: Llewellyns little books ; #10 | Includes bibliographical

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Identifiers: LCCN 2019018224 | ISBN 9780738760896 (alk. paper)

Subjects: LCSH: Empathy. | Social psychology.

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Contents

List of

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: Empathy: The Energy That Engages

: Tools of the Empathizer

: Physical Empathy: The Body as a Mirror

: Emotional Empathy: The Instrument for Feelings

: Mental Empathy: Taking an Instant Picture

: Spiritual Empathy: Lighting Up with Light

: Empathy for Healing and Manifesting

Disclaimer

The information in this book is not intended to be used to diagnose or treat any medical, emotional, or behavioral conditions. To address social, emotional, mental, medical, behavioral, or therapeutic issues, please consult a licensed professional, such as a therapist, psychiatrist, or physician.

The author and publisher are not responsible for any conditions that require a licensed professional, and we encourage you to consult a professional if you have any questions about the use or efficacy of the techniques or insights in this book. References in this book are given for informational purposes alone and do not constitute an endorsement.

All case studies and descriptions of persons have been changed or altered so as to be unrecognizable. Any likeness to actual persons, living or dead, is strictly coincidental.

Exercises

: Conducting Spirit-to-Spirit for an Empathic Interaction

: Summoning Healing Streams of Grace

: Registering Empathic Data

: Releasing Anothers Energy

: The Art of Empathic Mirroring

: Deprogramming Your Physical Empathy

: Analyzing a Physically Empathic Message

: Empathically Reading an Object with Psychometry

: Deprogramming Your Emotional Empathy

: Analyzing an Emotionally Empathic Message

: Relating to a Natural Beings Feelings

: Deprogramming Your Mental Empathy

: Analyzing a Mentally Empathic Message

: Creating the Curious Questioner

: Deprogramming Your Spiritual Empathy

: Analyzing a Spiritually Empathic Message

: Uncovering Anothers Spiritual Gifts

: Lighting Up the Dark

: Establishing a Bond

: Clearing a Subjects Past Issues

: Transforming a Current Problem

: Helping Someone Manifest a Desire

Tips

: Which Empathic Style?

: Empathizing in the Moment

: Internal Mirroring in a Moment

: A Flash Cleanse

: Empathizing Physically with an Animal

: Relating Physically to a Part of Yourself

: Free Those Feelings

: Cleansing the Atmosphere

: Emotionally Caring for a Part of Yourself

: When Flooded with Anothers Feelings

: Checking for a Projection

: An Instant Washing

: Tapping Into the Universal Mind

: Mentally Relating to a Part of Yourself

: When to Shut Down

: An Instant Spiritual Cleansing

: Bringing Through an Otherworldly Spirits Perspective

: Spiritually Relating to a Part of Yourself

: What to Say

: Empathizing with a Natural Being Using All Four Gifts

: Healing a Part of Yourself Using All Four Gifts

: Programming a Stone for Manifesting

: Asking a Guide to Help with Manifesting

introduction

A re you a little frightened? asked the gray-haired woman seated next to me on the plane.

I looked over, startled. How had she known?

I hate turbulence. After one bump, my hands clench and my stomach knots. I didnt think Id let on, however, at least not obviously. Rather, Id pretended to read.

Dont worry, dear, she said, patting my hand and ignoring my astonishment. We grandmother types are always on call.

My seat mate had delivered a dose of empathy, the ability to sense what is occurring in those outside of ourselves. Specifically, shed dispensed emotional empathy, one of the four types of empathy youll learn about in this book. The other three styles are physical, mental, and spiritual.

In a nutshell, these four capabilities can be defined in the following ways:

physical empathy: The ability to sense what is occurring in anothers body, including relating to illnesses, aches and pains, and all other types of unpleasant and pleasant sensations.

emotional empathy: The capacity to feel others feelings as though they are our own.

mental empathy: An aptitude for cluing into anothers thoughts and perceptions, as well as plugging into the universal mind, a gigantic mesh of knowledge.