T. D. Jakes - Daddy Loves His Girls: Discover a Love Your Heavenly Father Offers that an Earthly Father Cant

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DADDY LOVES HIS GIRLS by T. D. Jakes
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Scripture quotations marked KJV are from the King James Version of the Bible.

Scripture quotations marked NAS are from the New American Standard Bible. Copyright 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977 by the Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. (www.Lockman.org)

Scripture quotations marked TLB are from The Living Bible. Copyright 1971. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, IL 60189. All rights reserved.

Copyright 1996, 2006, 2011 by T. D. Jakes
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Library of Congress Control Number: 96-83607
International Standard Book Number: 978-1-61638-488-3

E-book ISBN: 978-1-59979-747-2

This publication is available in Spanish under the title El Padre ama a sus hijas, copyright 2002 by T. D. Jakes, published by Casa Creacin, a Charisma Media company. All rights reserved.

DEDICATION

T HIS BOOK IS dedicated to my wife, Serita, who has given me many years of love and companionship. Thank you, honey, for surrounding our marriage with five children whom I deeply love.

I dedicate this book to my daughters, Cora and Sarah, whom I want to publicly affirm as I already have written of my sons. I celebrate my daughters uniqueness and giftings. I can see the strength and character of their grandmothers and great-grandmothers saturating them and fanning the flame in their eyes.

I know they will be tested and challenged, ostracized and confronted. Nevertheless, they will spring up again with all the buoyancy of the rich heritage from which they were proliferated and with hearts that dare to trust in God.

As they face the new horizons of the uncertain future, my heart is encouraged to know that behind their glistening smiles lie brilliant minds full of potential and bright with opportunity. Since I shall have whatever I say, I call them ladies of excellence. They will take on the challenges of life and conquer its limitations. I encourage them to be all they can be.

Live vivaciously, love deeply, and pray fervently. Remember to give with simplicity and to serve with humility. Still, observe that meekness does not necessitate weakness. Therefore, when challenged by obstacles, fight with tenacity.

Finally, do not revel in your failures nor play in your past. Overcome every doubt, sign no treatise with the enemy, and take no hostages. Never settle for less than your best or compromise your principles for your pleasures. And at last when the war is over, always remember to live off the spoils. Daddy loves his girls!

D EAR GIRLS,

I am writing to you from the heart of your father, who sees you as twinkling stars in the night. You glimmer in the dark places, and you brighten my nights. I write to you to tell you my perspectives on who you are. I write to you to reaffirm that you are special and unique, each one beautiful in your own uniqueness. You are always special to me, never ordinary. This is my opportunity to share the relationship a father has with his growing daughters. I will tell you about days you will not remember. I will speak of smiles and gurgling baby sounds you could never recall. These are moments etched into my mind forever. I will never forget them. You are beacons of light shining in the stormy days of my tempestuous youth.

My dear daughters, this is a tribute of life for you, a message that you will hear later and enjoy longer than I can stay around to watch. As your life continues may you always know your earthly fathers thoughts and your heavenly Fathers heart.

My daughters, though I write for you, this message explodes in my heart for all of the Fathers daughters, every woman and every girl. So, dear reader, I invite you to listen as the Holy Spirit weaves a warming blanket under which all may snuggle and be blessed. This is a rare opportunity to examine the inner channels of the Fathers heart.

I also write on behalf of every father who ever heard the sound of his daughters voice erupting into that harmonious blend of pitch and praise, as she gleefully greets him at the door, saying, D-a-d-d-y! I never knew one word could have so many syllables. It is the sound of rushing waters gushing across rocks in a stream deep in the mountains. It is the wondrous dynamics of an expectant heart that seeks little and gives much.

My daughters, my girls, what a gift you are to me. Thank God, He let me know you and nurture you! You should never feel unloved or unwanted, for you are the fountains of your mothers youth running free, reminding us of who we were. You are the silky satin in my grandmothers finest handkerchief. You are my pulse; my blood warms your veins. You are my heart!

As I write these gleanings gathered from the harvest of my heart, perhaps in some small way they will reflect a fleeting glimpse of Gods heart toward you. He is the everlasting Father of which men are just poor imitations. We are flawed and cracked, our virtues paling in the brilliancy of Gods divine character. Yet in some small caricature we may slightly trace His heart with trembling hands and broken crayons into some recognizable form of how much He loves His children and, particularly today, His girls. I am created in the image of God as a man and as a father. I love all my children equally, but I do not express love to each one the same way. In the same way, the God we serve loves His children, but perhaps, if I am at all like Him, He loves them equally but differently.

Anyone who knows anything about love at all will tell you that love cannot be copied, duplicated, repeated, or forced. Each feeling is unique, just as the dripping colors of finger painting bear the uniqueness of the artists own fingerprints. It is shaped into a moment and mood that could never be recaptured quite the same. Perhaps the daughters of Zion would stop their weeping if they knew how dear they were to their Father. Perhaps they would rise up out of the ashes and cast their fears to the wind if they knew that the Father assigns angels to their charge and gives such attention to details that He has numbered every strand of hair that caught in their combs.

It is a mothers privilege to carry in the warmth of her own body the squirming, wriggling embryo of life, a capsule of promise and a child of the future. She shares her own body heat, her food, and the very air she breathes with a child that we as fathers cannot feel or feed. It is the mothers privilege to feel in her own womb the turning body of the child whose only blanket is her heated flesh. She lays her hand on her abdomen and speaks to the child she harbors and feeds within the chamber of her own loving space.

Fathers stand by, clumsily meandering along, assisting when we can, feeling a little foolish, perhaps a little left out. From morning sickness to mood swings, we can see the effects