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Praise for Contagious Optimism
No matter how difficult or easy your life may be at any given moment, it is possible to experience meaning and happiness. Read Contagious Optimism for yourself. Read it for your teams at work. Read it for your family. It will help you improve your life, your outlook, and your behavior.
Marshall Goldsmith,
New York Times bestselling author of Mojo: How to Get It, How
to Keep It, How to Get It Back If You Lose It
Reading Contagious Optimism will allow you to appreciate and understand the principles that people of all races, religions, and socioeconomic backgrounds live by through their lifes adventures.
Daniel P. Tully,
Chairman Emeritus, Merrill Lynch & Co., Inc.
Filled with triumphant and fascinating stories from people all over the world as well as life coaches and other authors, Contagious Optimism offers you encouragement to trust yourself and forge ahead in the midst of confusion and fear. This book has a contagious vibration that sparks courage, self-love, and personal empowerment. Be prepared to open yourself to new perspectives that place you outside the box and into a place of trust and love!
Laurie Martin,
author of Smile Across Your Heart:
The Process of Building Self Love
It is impossible to inoculate oneself against the contagion of optimism that pours out from the stories of the courageous men and women in this book who show us how we can soar and flourish in the very midst of lifes challenges. Read it and celebrate the human spirit!
Michael Bernard Beckwith,
author of Life Visioning: A Transformative Process for Activating
Your Unique Gifts and Highest Potential
There has been one common ingredient throughout my personal and professional lifeoptimism. It has been a solid driving force and has never wavered. When you read Davids book, Contagious Optimism, you will better understand why it is so powerful... it empowers, motivates, and leads people to tremendous results.
James F. Mooney,
Chairman of the Board, Virgin Media, Inc.
Enlightenment, positive mind control, and many other capabilities exist in all of us. Once they are harnessed, we are able to do anything we put our minds to. Contagious Optimism is proof that people from all corners of the world have the ability to meet and exceed their goals despite the odds.
Bucky Dent,
New York Yankees World Series MVP, Baseball Hall of Fame,
and Manager
In this age of increasing stress, at a time when our world seems to be falling apart, being optimistic is a revolutionary act requiring great faith and courage. We are at a time of great change, and there is a sign of hope: Contagious Optimism.
Jed Diamond, Ph.D.,
author of The Irritable Male Syndrome: Managing
the 4 Key Causes of Depression and Aggression
I consider myself a very positive person. Still, I learned a lot from the various Contagious Optimism contributors about Positive Forward Thinking. Im sure you will get a lot out of this book too. Why? Because its infectious. So buy this book and catch some optimism now!
Allen Klein,
author of The Art of Living Joyfully:
How to Be Happier Every Day of the Year
Are you still looking at the glass as half-empty? Well, its time for you to latch on to something highly transmittable and genuinely rewarding: Contagious Optimism. Learn how you can experience true happiness and fulfillment despite lifes greatest challenges as you read the stories of those who have chosen to see that glass as half-full.
Chloe JonPaul,
author of This Business of Children
David Mezzapelle has taken the secret to a joyfully lived life and packaged it in a book that is indeed so contagious you cant help but be infected. Once you are exposed to the power of kindness and positive thinking towards yourself and others, Contagious Optimism will be with you forever.
Will Glennon,
author of Practice Random Acts of Kindness:
Bring More Peace, Love, and Compassion into the World
To my family for teaching me the value of hard work,
honesty, respect for others, and giving back to the
community. To our Contagious Optimism team for your
confidence in this project and your dedication to seeing it
through. This has been a great endeavor and I look
forward to continuing our mission.
FOREWORD
When David approached me to write the preface in his new book, Contagious Optimism, I wondered, Why me? As I pondered the answer it became very clear: Why not me? Ive been positive and optimistic all my life. Im a glass is half full type of guy.
It seems predetermined that I worked all my life with Merrill Lynch, which is noted for its motto, Bullish on America. I remember back in the 1950s when Bob Suydam, a Merrill Lynch partner, asked our class of future operations managers what philosophy we would espouse. He called on me for a response and I answered, Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. He liked my positive attitude and that I lived my life like that in all endeavorsfamily, sports, business, etc.
Since I was a teenager I have been collecting positive, uplifting anecdotes that I try to live by. Examples include I never met a rich pessimist from Bill Schreyer and The optimist finds opportunity in every difficulty, not difficulty in every opportunity from Winston Churchill. One of the simplest and most important maxims for success was presented by Wayne Gretzky: You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take. The premise of Contagious Optimism is the same as many of these uplifting anecdotespositive thinking, inspiration, and motivation but across many facets of life and compiled from people all over the globe.
Years ago a business magazine said I exude positive thinking so much that I even have The Optimist Creed framed on my wall. This creed was written in 1912 by Christian D. Larson. His goal was clear: to attract good into your life and to share good with others. While this may have been written a hundred years ago, it still holds true today and is unaffected by time.
THE OPTIMIST CREED
Promise yourself:
To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet.
To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and to make your optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and to press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and to give every living creature you meet a smile.
To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
As humans, many of us have principles we live by. Organizations generally have principles as well. At Merrill Lynch, we have five principles we call the Five Commandments.