Endorsements
There is a subversive holiness in telling a story others are too scared to tell, and Blaine has mastered the art of doing thisover and over again. Dont miss the invitation in this book to understand the significance of your own scars and what to do with them.
Jeff Goins , bestselling author of The Art of Work
Blaine Hogan has inspired me for many years with his unique way of seeing the world. In this book youll find a blast of inspiration and a trusty guide to help you exit the cave and enter a world that is real and beautiful and vital.
Brad Montague, New York Times bestselling author and illustrator of The Circles All around Us, Becoming Better Grownups , and Kid Presidents Guide to Being Awesome
Blaine Hogans memoir is an intense, stunningly honest, and profoundly hopeful promise that telling the truth can set the heart free. His story is riveting, heartbreaking, and hilarious. This brilliantly written and transformational book will allure you to tell your truths. Youll find yourself stumbling into grace.
Dan B. Allender , PhD, professor of counseling psychology and founding president of The Allender Center at The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology
Exit the Cave is hands down one of the most honest and human books Ive read in a long, long time. The courage Blaine Hogan unveils on each page, the wisdom and humor embodied in each chapter, and the storytelling are masterful. An absolute must-read!
Steve Carter , pastor and author of The Thing beneath the Thing
There are few books that mirror the dynamism of the human experience. That hold your hand through pain and joy, raw wounds and raucous laughter, all at the same time. Blaine Hogan writes with an honesty and an imagery that will wake you up and remind you youre alive. Exit the Cave is a gift for our time.
Ashlee Eiland , colead pastor of Mars Hill Bible Church and author of Human( kind)
Blaine Hogan is a master wordsmith. This gift is not only delightful for the brain but also soothing to the heart. Especially when speaking of the raw realities Hogan shares in these pages. His vulnerability when telling very personal stories appeals to every aspect of the creative soul. And boy, has he accrued a deep well of wisdom by walking through the fires of life! As a creative who has also had my fair share of wrestling through the journeys of inner healing, trauma resolution, and mental health recovery, I savor each word as true, good, wholesome food for the soul. I am better today, in art and heart, because Ive read this book. What a way to challenge and inspire the artisan soul that resides within every one of us! To use our pain and our trek through it as fuel to create wonderful things is a great gift that we are beautifully reminded of in Exit the Cave .
Christine DClario , award-winning singer, songwriter, speaker, author, advocate, and philanthropist
Hogans book carves a brave way forward for the Christian imagination.
Sara Billups , faith and culture writer and author of Orphaned Believers (forthcoming)
Honest. Brave. Moving. Blaine turns his scars into lanterns, giving us faithful guides out of our own dark caves.
Kevin KB Burgess , rapper, designer, and Dove Awardwinning artist
Exit the Cave is a wise, hilarious, and memorable journey of Blaine Hogans search for better questions and truer answers. Blaine invites us to see that healing requires us to enter the cracks and confront the ghosts of our stories in order to shape our desired future. As a licensed mental health counselor, Ive longed for a book like Exit the Cave to show others that managing self-destructive behaviors is not only ineffective, it distracts us from all the heartache and glory that our life stories reveal. Im grateful for Blaines book.
Jay Stringer , psychotherapist and author of Unwanted
This book brought me comfort in the hours when I didnt realize how much I needed the warmth and honesty of Blaines words. The truth revealed in these pages helps me grapple with my own truth. Blaines honesty and storytelling transport you to a fireside chat that lets you know its safe to be yourself. He lets you in and shows you that you are not alone. There is such grace, humor, and healing in this journey. Blaine Hogan will inspire you to have courage.
Nikia Phoenix , wellness creative, storyteller, and commercial actress
A glance at the table of contents alone reveals Blaine Hogans intimate familiarity with the underworld of his own psyche, as well as his deep faith that alongside his fears and shadows resides his greatest stores of love, creativity, and wholeness. He writes clearly, passionately, and vulnerably. In the space he holds, you will meet himand you may in fact meet yourself.
Audrey Assad , musician, producer, author, and mother
Exit the Cave is a tender but fierce story of survival, reckoning, and healing. Blaine manages to somehow weave themes of acting, allegory, family, addiction, faith, and redemption into one beautifully written account of his own healing. Its a testament to the miraculous powers of the human spirit, creativity, and love. This is the kind of story that heals both individuals and families. I loved it.
Laura McKowen, New York Times bestselling author of We Are the Luckiest
Blaine Hogan has given us a rare gift in this book. Through storytelling rather than sermonizing, Hogan shows us the power of blessing the parts of our stories that have remained cursed for far too long, and he somehow wields his welcome with such levity and humanness that you wont want to stop reading, even while wincing along with him at the pain of what he has lived through. Exit the Cave is everything I want my clients and friends to experiencea tender and wise welcome home to the glory and goodness of who they already are. This is a story that heals.
K. J . Ramsey , licensed professional counselor and author of The Lord Is My Courage and This Too Shall Last
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2022 by Blaine Hogan
Published by Baker Books
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Scripture quotations are from THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION, NIV Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
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Dedication
For Margaret
Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Introduction
Part One: Welcome to the Cave
1. Blaine from Blaine
2. Waking Up
3. Turning Point
4. Addicts