The passion to write a book came later in my life. Having gone to school for music, I never imagined God would put me in this situation. As unqualified and underprepared as I felt when God laid this book concept on my heart, He surrounded me with the people who helped make it possible.
To my wife, Brittany. This would not have happened without your encouragement and support. God put you in my life to help me stay grounded and to keep my eyes on Him. Thank you for spending so many hours listening to me speak my thoughts. Thank you for holding down the house while I worked on this project at the library. Thank you for all the ideas you contributed to this book. I love you more than you will ever know.
Thank you to my in-laws, who allowed me to marry Brittany. I want to thank my parents who raised me in a godly home. Christ has been a central part of my life because my mom and dad showed He was real in theirs. Thank you, Dad, for showing me a great example of what a godly man looks like. Mom, I cant wait to see you again.
I would like to thank Cindy Graham and Rebecca Clark for making me sound a lot better than I really do. I appreciate the hours you put into this project. Thank you to Terri Foltz for giving me honest feedback on how to properly articulate my thoughts. Thank you to my friend, Kyubum Kim. This whole idea came about after a discussion we had at lunch. In all honesty, I probably owe you some royalties. I want to thank my close friends, Josh Velilla, Keith Beck, and Chris McLaughlin. We have had so many discussions about God and the world. Those discussions have had such a great impact on me. Thank you to Pastor Frank. I have loved every minute of working at the ministry that God has allowed you to lead. Thank you to Jeff Parker, from Vide Press, for taking my phone call, listening to my pitch, and deciding to work with me. And thank you to anyone that I did not mention. You have my permission to yell at me.
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We Have a Problem
There is no use having a silent God. We would not know anything about Him.
Francis Schaeffer
The first step to finding a solution is to accurately define and diagnose the problem. You cannot get better if you do not acknowledge that you are sick. By any objective standard, one can see the United States of America is sick. Furthermore, you cannot get the correct answers if you are not asking the correct questions. The question is not IS there a problem in the United States? The question is WHAT is the problem in the United States?
I am troubled by what I see today. I look around and see the most prosperous nation in the history of the world falling apart. We are ripping at the seams, and the worst part is that this dilemma has not been brought about by some foreign power in the distance; it is happening from within. We have no one to blame but ourselves.
It brings a deep sense of grief when I see what we have become: so much hate, so little compassion. We have become a nation defined by division. Every issue, every single one, has become politicized.
As I write these words, our cities are burning from the riots brought on by the death of George Floyd. Our citizens have been forced into choosing a side: support the police or stand with the Black Lives Matter movement. This is a conversation that our country desperately needs to have, but instead, most have drawn a line in the sand and chosen a side. End of discussion. It is no longer about the exchange of ideas; it is about winning the argument.
Has this not become the case with most topics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican? A conservative or a liberal? Do you fight for the lives of unborn babies or a womans right to choose? Are you for big government or small government? Do you kneel or stand for the National Anthem? While many of these arguments are not new, the amount of vitriol for the opposing side is. Unfortunately, I fear that the only time in our nations history that mirrors what we see today is the Civil War.
Is this the problem we face in the United States? Disagreement? I believe it is beyond that. A differing opinion over a topic is not a terrible thing in itself. We can be united while having differing views. The problem does not lie in the abundance of division but rather in the absence of unity. There is a difference. I know two brothers who support opposing football teams which results in hostility during rivalry week. However, they are still united in the fact that they are family. Their bond as siblings is stronger than their disagreement. Do we forget that we are called the UNITED States? It used to be that simply being an American was what unified every citizen in this country. This is no longer the case. Sadly, our disagreements have come to define our relationships with others.
MISREPRESENTING CHRIST
What can bring unification and bridge this divide? Is it even possible for us to stop looking at the other side with disdain? Is there a way to love those whom we adamantly oppose? Christianity has the answer to this question: the most unifying aspect of every person alive is that we are made in the image of God. Even better is that a loving God died in our place for those who bear that image. That is what joins us together. That is what should unify us. Christians know this, but sadly, many believers keep it to themselves. They do not say a word.
In this desert we call life, the majority of people walk around trying to quench their thirst by clinging to the things of this world. They turn to the pursuit of fame, fortune, or relationships, unaware that these things will never fully satisfy. Christians, on the other hand, know the true source of life: Jesus is the living water that will sustain and the well that will never run dry. Why, then, do so many Christians hold this water in their hands and never share it with the thirsty? It is truly heartbreaking to realize that instead of showing non-believers the one thing that will save them, we keep it to ourselves as they die right in front of us of spiritual dehydration.
This is not the image of Christianity we see in the Bible. Suppressing the good news, or the Gospel, was not the lifestyle of the early Church. In the book of Acts, Luke details an unstoppable movement that happened solely because these Christians could not keep their mouths shut about what they knew. Their lifestyles matched the message they were sharing. In the United States, not only do many Christians abstain from proclaiming the truth of Christ, they live lifestyles that contradict the Gospel.