More praise for The Book of SHE
Womens bodies and minds are different from mens, and the best way toward a healthy, satisfying life is to embrace that difference. Provocative and thorough, The Book of SHE explores the mystery and alchemy of what it means to be a woman. Sara Avant Stover will guide you toward reclaiming the power and beauty of your own amazing body in this groundbreaking book.
Sara Gottfried, MD, author of The Hormone Cure
Sara Avant Stover knows that to give form to your dreams, you must recover your feminine field. Instead of tracking linear pathways for success, The Book of SHE calls for embodying your sacredness. Stover has created a priceless map for how to live from the beauty you contain.
Tami Lynn Kent, author of Wild Feminine, Wild Creative, and Mothering from Your Center
Praise for The Way of the Happy Woman by Sara Avant Stover
Filled with health-promoting delight, pleasure, and truth. Just lovely.
Christiane Northrup, MD, author of Womens Bodies, Womens Wisdom
Stover offers a wide range of practices to help readers simplify, slow down, and be in tune with natural cycles.... A winner of a read.
Library Journal
The Way of the Happy Woman is the positive self-help product of Saras own healing journey.... Heartfelt and rich with personal stories, this book presents practical wisdom for women of all ages who are seeking to live a healthier, happier life.
Yoga Journal
In this inspiring volume, Sara Avant Stover speaks as a wise best friend, offering up secret recipes and simple ways to keep your body in sync with the four seasons.... She takes us on a personal journey of health and well-being, then sends us off as if weve completed a rite of passage, and will never be the same again.
Conscious Dancer
In The Way of the Happy Woman, Sara Avant Stover offers hundreds of baby steps simple yet deceptively profound toward living a happier, healthier, more balanced life. Even a few of these, practiced regularly, could be transformational. Highly recommended!
Timothy McCall, MD, medical editor of Yoga Journal and author of Yoga as Medicine
Rest in the nest of this beautiFULL book, and allow it to soak in and beam its wisdom to you. Your way is that of the happy woman, and these words will awaken, inspire, and deeply support you on your way-finding.
SARK, artist, creative fountain, and author of Glad No Matter What
This lovely, born-of-experience book is a primer on how to live in accord with the energies of the natural world. Clear and thoughtful, it will help you remember that even amid the demands of work, school, family, and incessant email, youre still a goddess.
Susan Piver, author of The Wisdom of a Broken Heart and The Hard Questions
Also by Sara Avant Stover
The Way of the Happy Woman: Living the Best Year of Your Life
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Copyright 2015 by Sara Avant Stover
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The material in this book is intended for education. It is not meant to take the place of diagnosis and treatment by a qualified medical practitioner or therapist. No expressed or implied guarantee of the effects of the use of the recommendations can be given nor liability taken. Except in the case of well-known figures introduced by first and last names, identifying details such as names and characteristics have been changed, or composites have been created, to protect the privacy of others.
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Stover, Sara Avant, date.
The book of she: your heroines journey into the heart of feminine power / Sara Avant Stover.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-1-60868-289-8 (paperback) ISBN 978-1-60868-290-4 (ebook)
1. Feminist spirituality. 2. Self-realization in women. I. Title.
BL625.7.S766 2015
204'.4082dc23
2015022625
First printing, October 2015
ISBN 978-1-60868-289-8
Printed in Canada on 100% postconsumer-waste recycled paper
| New World Library is proud to be a Gold Certified Environmentally Responsible Publisher. Publisher certification awarded by Green Press Initiative. www.greenpressinitiative.org |
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To Kogen Ananda Keith Martin-Smith, for our love.
To Sofia Diaz, for shining the light.
And
to Mary, for leading me home.
All Genders and Persuasions Welcome Here
For the sake of simplicity, the language used in this book reflects the generally accepted notion that women (biological sex) are more feminine (gender) than men and the largely masculine culture men have created. As such, it focuses on biological women who are embracing both the cultural and the spiritual aspects of the feminine. But this impulse to rediscover and embrace our Inner SHE, our inner feminine dark and light energy, is greater than biological sex. Trans women, gay men and women, and anyone longing to identify with the deeper cycles and hidden wisdom of the feminine will find this book useful. It may be harder for those who do not have the neurobiology of a woman to fully embrace these ideas, but it is by no means impossible or not recommended. Ultimately, we must embrace all of who we are, which includes all the facets of the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine, together as one expression of a whole, human being.
All genders and sexual orientations are fully welcomed and celebrated in this book, and to the discussions herein.
God is within her. She will not fail.
Psalm 46:5
Contents
When a new infusion of love is needed, Mary Magdalene shows up. Our only real choice is whether or not to cooperate.
Cynthia Bourgeault, The Meaning of Mary Magdalene
Santa Fe, New Mexico; October 30, 2010
Devils Night, some call it.
I drew the thick maroon curtains shut and opened one of the windows just a crack to let the night air in. Click. I switched the lamp off and pulled the covers up over my shoulders. Alone in the inns musty guestroom.
It was the night before I was scheduled to perform the talk that Id spent the previous four days preparing, the one Id later give on my book tour. The next morning Id stand, without notes or podium, before my circle of six female peers and my public speaking instructor. Just me, my story, and my heart. My body trembled, but my heart roared, Im ready. I could feel the fertility of something new beginning.
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