Endorsements
Through her various writings, Cheryl Bridges Johns escorts readers into new territories of creative thinking; Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause is no exception. This book brings the reader to a deeper understanding of our Lord. It is not written to minimize issues of menopause; rather, it celebrates the mystery of our human nature and explores who we are at every stage of life. This book is for all people and will call forth greater love for our Creator God.
Jo Anne Lyon , ambassador and general superintendent emerita, The Wesleyan Church
Theologically profound, psychologically rich, emotionally honest, and artfully written, Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause crosses all borders to speak authentically about in-between spaces. As one of our finest theologiansas much a seasoned mystic and earthy spiritual practitioner as an academicCheryl Bridges Johns has been a crucial guide in my own life, and I know she will speak wisely and prophetically into yours.
Jonathan Martin , author of How to Survive a Shipwreck and Prototype
Every woman should read this book, no matter what season of life she finds herself in. Cheryl challenges historical assumptions about menopause, debunks common myths, explains the physiology and psychology, and invites us into a thrilling spiritual journey where we discover the gift-filled land of menopause. I could not stop reading.
Christine Caine , founder of Propel Women & A21
As one might expect, Cheryl Bridges Johns guides the reader to a better understanding of what happens to the body during menopause. At the same time, she adamantly rejects the notion that menopause brings down the curtain on a womans life. Instead, she argues (and tells her own story and the stories of other women as proof) that menopause is the gateway to the second half of lifea time of rich self-discovery, deep spiritual growth, and an enlarged vision and capacity for active involvement in opportunities to make a difference for others. The final two chapters are so inspiring and invigorating you wont want to read them sitting down.
Carolyn Custis James , author of Half the Church: Recapturing God s Global Vision for Women and Malestrom: Manhood Swept into the Currents of a Changing World
Johns is a gentle guide, informative and insightful as she shares her own experience to help lead us on this journey. Her words are helpful, honest, and holistic. She reminds women that as our bodies change so do our spiritual landscapes, giving us the opportunity to transform our lives and the communities we inhabit. Menopause can be precarious and painful, but it can also be filled with the potential for generative goodness that women, and the world, need.
Kelley Nikondeha , author of Defiant: What the Women of Exodus Teach Us about Freedom
Every season in a womans life carries a unique blueprint. We are architectural masterpieces. Now imagine if each transformational season brought us unique gifts. This is what Cheryl Bridges Johns has done. She has carved out a pathway for us to learn to adapt, change, and embrace our new selves in a sacred space. She carefully explores our need to fit in beginning at adolescence and the many ways we succumb to societal pressures. She cautions us to come to terms with regrets and to emerge stronger than before. Every womans journey is unique, but we will each find our own authentic voice along the way. This book brings hope and spiritual renewal for women at every level.
Gricel Medina , speaker, church planter, and pastor ordained through the Evangelical Covenant Church
Title Page
Copyright Page
2020 by Cheryl Bridges Johns
Published by Brazos Press
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Dedication
This book is dedicated to the memory of Waneda Brownlow.
Missionary.
Teacher.
Advocate for womens rights.
A woman reborn in her fifties.
Until her last breath,
Waneda was in her heart fifteen, a happy fifteen.
Contents
Cover
Endorsements
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Preface
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1. Puberty and the Relational Self
2. The Gift of Uncovering
3. The Gift of Anger
4. The Gift of the Authentic Self
5. The Gift of Expanded Time
6. The Gift of Spiritual Freedom
7. The Gift of Vision
8. The Gift of Courage
Notes
Index
Back Cover
Preface
SEVEN TRANSFORMING GIFTS OF MENOPAUSE is not meant to be an exhaustive treatment of menopause or a medical textbook. It serves as a developmental and spiritual guide, pointing out some major landmarks for your menopausal journey. Consider it the Lonely Planet version of menopause, taking you down some roads less traveled so that you can discover the hidden sweet spots.
Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause is an encouraging work, designed to help you take note of the gifts in the rich ecology in the land of menopause. It is not another impossible standard for women to reach. There is no pressure to receive all the gifts. Feel free to take what you wish. Leave the rest. You may be at a place in life where you are ready for only one or two gifts. Dont worry. Years from now you can revisit the gifts, perhaps finding it possible to receive a couple more. You are free to disregard things that have little relevance to your life as you use this guide to blaze your own trail. While women face common challenges, there is no one-size-fits-all journey through menopause.
Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause is a gentle space. I write as an older woman desiring to take you by the hand to lead you through the rough terrain toward the wonderland of menopause. Along the way, I will ask you to consider things about yourself, your past, your present, and your future. If at any time these questions become too difficult or painful, feel free to move to another section.
Seven Transforming Gifts of Menopause is designed to be a safe place where you can read, ponder, remember, pray, and cry. It provides space to express regret. It gives you permission to speak the unspoken. It provides nonjudgmental space for anger and tears. In other words, it is perfectly okay to be a hot mess while exploring this book.