Amadeus Lombardi - Change It!: The secrets of happiness and fulfilment in life through change!

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I want to dedicate this book to my mother, Andrea Lombardi.

She was and is always standing behind me, holding my back, and is opening thousands of doors towards my own success. My whole life, she is by my side, supported me through everything, and helped me live the life I am living now. I want to thank her for her overwhelming love, her huge heart, and her ability to help everybody. She, herself is changing lives and is helping others for a better life on a day to day basis. She is my role model and a fantastic personality. She always helped and is still helping me every day; emotionally, financially, and continuously.

Mom, I love you so much and I want to thank you for everything you have done for me. Without you, I wouldnt have come that far in my life, and wouldnt be able to live the life I am living.

All that I am, or hope to be, I owe my angel mother.
Abraham Lincoln

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

In love,

Your son, Amadeus

Life isnt about finding yourself;
life is about creating yourself.

George Bernard Shaw

Welcome to the book which will change your life.

The book which has the answer to all your feelings, and which will guide you through the pain into the person you want to be.

This book helps everybody; it is not another business book, which tells you what to do; it is helping everybody to achieve what they are striving for in life. The decision to buy this book and start to read it will bring abundance and happiness to your life. Please do not stop reading it, it can give you whatever you want.

I want to thank you for buying this book, and helping me to make my dream come true, in return, I will help you make your dreams come true. It doesnt matter if you are reading this book to reach your final life goal, if you are stuck and are going in circles, or if you want to change your life, it will help you definitely to become the person you want to be. Life is about getting help from people who can help us going steps towards our true destiny in our life. We do not need to do everything on our own, and therefore I want to thank you, for going the happy way!

Quickly to me; I am Amadeus Lombardi; I am 20 years old, and I am currently studying in London. I am not somebody who has everything achieved in life, and I will not tell you how you can earn millions or built an empire, only because I am not there yet. What I can do, is to help you on your way towards your happy life: For several years I have been studying peoples behaviour, success stories, giving speeches and much more. Several times I asked myself the question; why do we sometimes have it so complicated in our life? Why are most of us not happy with the gift life and why do we keep fighting it, rather than living it?

Over the years, I have spent much time identifying different unconscious behaviours we humans have. Especially the new generation I was born into. I worked on identifying the challenges we have and want to show you how you can overcome them. Other than that, I am also trying to explain you the way you think, the path you need to go to live the life you want to live. Thank you again for allowing me to share this information with you, and I am confident that it will help you in your and other peoples life. I have changed my life, and so I think that with this knowledge, I can help you, to get where you want to be. I have gotten out of my alcohol excesses, which Id had since I was 13 years old. I have left behind friends who were not good for me, and I got out of relationships which did not feel right. For everything I have in my life, I have worked. Since I was 12 years old, I have always been working and trying to make my dreams come true. I worked in the kitchen of two restaurants, filled up the shelves in a supermarket and also worked as an intern in two different companies. I moved out of my mothers house when I was 18 years old, to work for what I want in my life, and now, here I am, studying abroad at a first-class university, not letting go of any opportunities which come to my life and giving everything to have the life I am dreaming of.

This book and the following chapters will reflect what I have learned throughout my life and will show you that you can achieve whatever you want, to live the life of your dreams. However, before you can get this far, you need to understand how you can influence yourself to be able to achieve whatever you want.

When we are kids, our parents tell us we can be whoever we want. Of course, you might think, this wasnt meant honestly by our parents, but I am telling you, you can be whoever you want if you start to work on yourself, understand yourself and make yourself as a priority day by day.

You are great, we are great, and our lives are great, let me help you think the same way.

Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life. You didnt settle for it.

Mandy Hale

While I was going through the process of writing this book the question, of what I want in my life got bigger and bigger. It is a simple question. It is built from eight words, and everybody should understand the meaning of what this question is asking, but why is it so hard for us to answer it? Why are people answering this question superficially? Why do we need to think about what we could answer?

The answer is: nobody is asking the question to themselves. I cant remember ever asking this question of anybody and getting back an honest and from the heart answer, simply because we dont know an answer to this question, which comes truly from our heart. You all are working very hard in your job, maybe you have a kid who needs attention for the whole day, you are unhappy in your job, or you are running from meeting to meeting. Perhaps you are going through a divorce, or you dont have time for asking yourself this simple question. As you have time to read this book, I would advise you to take ten minutes to close your eyes, turn off the phone next to you and all the external sources which could interrupt and think about this question; What is it, I really want in life?

Feel free to think about whatever you want in life. What are the changes you would like to have for a happier and more fulfilled life? Things which you might want to think about are: Do you want to have more free time, time with your kids or partner? If your job makes you happy or if you want to earn more money? Do you want to get fitter and be in better shape or do you want to be healthier and take more time for things which make you feel good?

Whatever it is, think about it and feel how your body, heart, and soul is reacting to these thoughts and dreams. Dont just think about something people want you to be or a stereotypical thought you might have. It is essential to listen to your heart and let it guide you through this meditation of finding yourself and your dreams. If you feel like you have figured out what you want in your life, slowly open your eyes and start writing it down. Write it down in detail and dont forget to describe what you have seen in your dream and felt in your heart; it will remind you of what your life should feel like. Write it down on a piece of paper and stick it against your fridge or leave it next to your bed, it should be a place you pass by at least once a day, to remind you what you really want in your life.

After this exercise I promise you, you have made a big step towards the life you want to live, and while you keep reading this book, I will bring you step for a step towards your dream life.