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Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cant change, The courage to change the things I can, And the wisdom to know the difference.

Maybe youve just started on the road to recovering from addiction. Or youve tried to stop abusing alcohol or drugs before, but havent been successful. Perhaps youre making progress in a support group or 12-step program, but want to add an approach grounded in science. No matter how far youve come, how far you still have left to go, or which path youve chosen, this book can help you end your struggle with addiction.

The Wisdom to Know the Difference is an addiction recovery workbook based in acceptance and commitment therapy, or ACT. Research shows that ACT is a powerful treatment for alcoholism, drug addiction, depression, and other issues, and it can be used alone or in combination with any 12-step program. On this particular path, youll learn to accept what you cant change about yourself and your past and commit to changing the things you can. Youll overcome your addiction by focusing on what you value most, like your talents, friends, career, relationships, and family. Theres no need to wait any longer. This book will help you find the serenity, courage, and wisdom it takes to leave substance abuse behind for good.

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Kelly G. Wilson, PhD, is associate professor of psychology at the University of Mississippi. He is coauthor of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Mindfulness for Two, and Things Might Go Terribly, Horribly Wrong. He is a trainer and speaker in the areas of acceptance and commitment therapy and behavior analysis and lives and works in Oxford, MS. www.onelifellc.com

Troy DuFrene is a writer who specializes in psychology and has coauthored several books, including Coping with OCD; Mindfulness for Two; Things Might Go Terribly, Horribly Wrong; Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for Eating Disorders; and The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Bulimia. He lives in the San Francisco Bay Area. www.troydufrene.com

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This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information in regard to the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering psychological, financial, legal, or other professional services. If expert assistance or counseling is needed, the services of a competent professional should be sought.

Distributed in Canada by Raincoast Books

Copyright 2012 by Kelly G. Wilson and Troy DuFrene

New Harbinger Publications, Inc.

5674 Shattuck Avenue

Oakland, CA 94609

www.newharbinger.com

Cover design by Amy Shoup

Text design by Michele Waters-Kermes

Acquired by Catharine Meyers

Edited by Heather Garnos

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ePub ISBN: 978-1-60882-679-7


Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Wilson, Kelly G.

The wisdom to know the difference : an acceptance and commitment therapy workbook for overcoming substance abuse / Kelly G. Wilson, Troy DuFrene.

p. cm.

Includes bibliographical references.

ISBN 978-1-57224-928-8 (pbk.) -- ISBN 978-1-57224-929-5 (pdf e-book)

1. Change (Psychology) 2. Acceptance and commitment therapy. I. DuFrene, Troy, 1972- II. Title.

BF637.C4W557 2012

616.8603--dc23

2011039770

I dedicate this book to my brother David Gary Wilson, who we lost to a massive stroke in the last days of writing.

In my early childhood, my family always had more kids than bedrooms. We never missed a meal, but we lived working-class close. My brother Dave and I shared a bed for a long time when we were little. These were those old-timey mattresses with hills and valleys and the occasional broken spring that would poke up and get you if you didnt find the best spot to lie on. Before we went to sleep, Dave would roll over on his side, and I would give his back a good scratch: no, a little higher, a little higheryes, right there. And then I would roll over and he would scratch mine.

And then those two little boys would slip off to sleep.

I remember those times with great fondness. There was a closeness, an intimacy, that I find so precious. I close my eyes now and they fill with tears. I can feel the pillow cradling my head, the warmth of the blankets all around me, laying right there next to my brother Dave. We were safe and life was good.

In this moment, I am overwhelmed with the sweetness of ittwo little boys, brothers, all tucked in for the night.

Remember, Dave? One brother with another. I will miss you so.

KGW

To tomorrows, which may sometimes be in short supply.

TD

Acknowledgments

It takes a whole lot of people to make a book like this, and theres little chance well remember them all. Much gratitude goes out to our mentors, teachers, students, confreres, comrades, and friends, all of whom materially contributed to the work.

Special thanks to folks at New Harbinger whose commitment to our work has been unflagging: Matt McKay, Catharine Meyers, Michele Waters, and all the rest. And to our peerless editor, Heather Garnos, whose literary deftness and wicked backhand quite literally beat the book into completion, much love and fathomless gratitude.

We gratefully acknowledge Mick Carnetts careful read, huge encouragement, exotic coffee contributions, and careful suggestions. Deep bow. Also to Maureen Flynn, who has worked very, very hard with me on some of the ideas found in this book.

Prologue

A Personal Story

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cant change,

the courage to change the things I can,

and the wisdom to know the difference.


You are not alone. I know the depths to which addiction can take a person, and I know something about recovery. I know it personally, and I know it as a scientist, therapist, and researcher. Woven into this book will be sensibilities science has to offer to the recovering person, but also some small bits and pieces of my own path in recovery and, finally, stories Ive heard along the way.

The recovery process has been slow at times, even slower than baby steps. The best Ive done some days was to sit on my hands. Ive learned to appreciate even those days. If Im sitting on my hands, its very hard to make much mess to clean up later.

I started down this road something like twenty-five years ago. There was a time, in the winter of 1985, when I would be up in the night, lying on the bathroom floor, heartsick, alone, the house quiet all around me. Lying on that floor, between bouts of retching, I found myself in a dreadful spotimpossibly trapped between an absolute inability to drink anymore and an absolute inability to stop. Lying on that floor, I could feel the cool of the linoleum on my cheek and it was good. There in the bathroom, in the middle of the night, tortured, I found a moments rest, my cheek pressed to the cool floor. My whole world was reduced to six square inches of cool linoleum. I could not leave that room without the terrors welling up around me. Even trying to rise from the floor filled me with awareness of all that I had done and regrettedand not done, and regretted more.

It was a starting point. From there, people began to teach me about acceptance and about holding my story in the world a little more gently, about letting go of limitations and opening up to possibility. By inches, I made my way up off the floor and out of that bathroom. I became engaged in the world in new ways. When I look where acceptance, openness, and engagement have taken me over the years, I have to pinch myself. Ive fallen in love with people all over the world. Ive become intimate with people and places and ideas that I could not have imagined. Ive found souls all along the way who saw possibilities in me that I could not see in myself. And Ive in turn had the privilege of seeing in others strength and beauty and possibility that they could not see in themselves.

And I can count a lot of days, a lot, between that barren winter of 85 and this day, this morning, this momenta lot of days when the best I could do was sit on my hands. And, today, I count those days sitting on my hands as good days. All in a row they brought me right here together with you.

Rest a while. There will be time. Perhaps we can sit together on our hands today. And tomorrow, there wont be much mess to clean up. And well rise together and sweep up and go about our day as best were able.

So if today is a day of hand-sitting, think of it as practice. The day will surely come when someone in need calls out. Were not likely to be able to reach out and reverse time in their worldbring parents back from the dead, retrieve a lost opportunity or a lost loveany more than we can turn back the clock in our own world. But perhaps if we have practiced, we can sit with them, on our hands if its that kind of day, but together. And perhaps well find a way in this world, just as it is, to fall in love, and see beauty and strength and possibility together.

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