Paul Huljich - Stress Pandemic: The Lifestyle Solution

STRESS PANDEMIC
The Lifestyle Solution

The Lifestyle Solution

9 NATURAL STEPS TO SURVIVE,
MASTER STRESS,AND LIVE WELL

PAUL HULJICH

Foreword by Hugh Polk, M.D.

Published in the USA by Mwella Publishing

Copyright Paul Huljich 2012

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Stress affects us all in different ways and can lead to serious mind conditions. This
book is dedicated to all people who suffer from, or know others who have suffered
from, any of the following:

Anxiety

Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

Bipolar disorder/manic depression

Compulsive behavior, including addictions to alcohol, recreational or

prescription drugs, sex, smoking, gambling, or any other behavior

Depression

Eating disorders, including anorexia and bulimia

Panic attacks

Phobias

Postpartum depression

Post-traumatic stress disorder

Schizophrenia

Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)

Suicide (actual or attempted)

Any other mind condition

Paul Huljich has written a most valuable and helpful book. I agree with him that there is a pandemic of stress: day in and day out we all find ourselves trying to deal with circumstances and situations that may be difficult, painful, bewilderingand, as he amply documentscountless numbers of people around the world are being badly hurt, physically and emotionally, by the stress of it all. Paul was one of those damaged people.

He tells his personal story with great openness and honesty: in the course of becoming the highly successful CEO of a growing company he drove himself to a complete nervous breakdown. In doing so, he was hospitalized with what was diagnosed as bipolar disorder and was told by eminent psychiatrists in New Zealand and the United States that he would need to take psychotropic medications for the rest of his life in order to keep his biomedical disease under control. But Paul refused to accept this grim prognosis. So he set out to build a different, drug-free road for himselfto create a meaningful life, on his own terms but not by himself.

Remarkably, he has succeeded in that goal of creating a joyous and productive life, closely connected to other peoplewithout ever again taking the prescribed medications, without ever having another psychotic episode, without ever needing hospitalization or therapy.

As a traditionally trained psychiatrist who has spent the past thirty-plus years teaching and practicing an alternative therapeutic approach that rejects diagnosing and labeling people in favor of nurturing their growth and development, Im inspired by what Paul has accomplished and touched by his generosity in wanting to teach others what he has learned in the course of creating his life.

Theres a temptation to regard Paul as a hero, someone possessing extraordinary willpower and courage and determination. But I think that misses the most important point of Pauls story, which is that hes a wonderfully ordinary man who day after day, putting one foot in front of the other, kept making little decisions, self-consciously choosing what and when and how he did everything, from getting up in the morning, to eating, to exercising, to responding to things going wrong and even to relating in new ways to his old habits. We learn from what Paul has written that our lives change not as a result of that one, big, apocalyptic moment when we see the light but rather through the day-to-day, moment-to-moment small choices we make to do things differently from how were supposed to do them or how weve always done them before. And we can keep on growing, indefinitely, by continuing to change those little things.

Paul has written a guidebook, an extended set of very practical stage directions, for the rest of us ordinary people to use in performing/creating our own lives.

Given the chaotic, maddening world we live in, I dont think its possible to eliminate stress entirely from our lives. The key here is not to try to reduce stress by wishing the world were different from what it is but rather to live life productively and joyously given that the world is hard to live in, without getting stressed out (of our minds). We have to accept this worldnot passively, but activelyby deciding how we respond to whatever pain or difficulties we may encounter along the way. Not easy, but Paul is an excellent guide. Happy reading! And pass the book on to otherswe can all use this kind of help.

HUGH POLK, M.D.
May 2012

Hugh Polk, M.D., a board-certified psychiatrist, earned his M.D. at Case Western Reserve University. During his more than thirty years of practice as a psychiatrist, he has been the medical director of inpatient psychiatric units and outpatient therapy clinics in New York City. He currently resides and practices in Manhattan.

My gratitude and thanks to all
the wonderful people who have spent
many long hours and helped me
make this book a reality.

In 2010 I published the novel Betrayal of Love and Freedom, a psychological thriller based in part on my own experiences with chronic stress and some of its more extreme consequences. Although the novel incorporated some components of the lessons I learned in my journey to wellness, I have long had a desire to share the full body of wisdom that enabled me to transform my way of life.

The key to my breakthrough was the recognition that stress was at the root of my problems. I realized that in order to free myself from the serious imbalances I had developed, I had to learn how to free myself from harmful stress. Stress can manifest in many different forms and can have serious physical as well as psychological consequences. In my case, unchecked stress manifested at first in physical symptoms and then more seriously in anxiety, severe depression, and ultimately bipolar disorder. As I was told by my doctors, my downward spiral into physical and mental health problems was the result of prolonged stress, primarily in the realms of work and family. It culminated in a full mental breakdown; the results were devastating. On reflection, I could see that I bought into the myth that if I just worked hard enough and attained everything I wished for, I would finally have happiness and peace of mind.My business ambitions, along with my need to please those close to me and maintain harmony at any cost, drove me over the edge.