Helen Kennerley. - Overcoming anxiety : a self-help guide using cognitive behavioral techniques

DR HELEN KENNERLEY is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist working with Oxford Health NHS Foundation Trust and a Senior Associate Tutor with the University of Oxford. She is a founder member of the Oxford Cognitive Therapy Centre (OCTC), where she is the Director of its Advanced Cognitive Therapy Studies courses and its M.Sc. She has practised CBT for over twenty-five years, having trained in Oxford and the US, and has written several popular cognitive therapy self-help books and texts. In 2002 she was short-listed for the BABCP award of most influential female cognitive therapist in Britain.

The aim of the Overcoming series is to enable people with a range of common problems and disorders to take control of their own recovery programme.

Each title, with its specially tailored programme, is devised by a practising clinician using the latest techniques of cognitive behavioural therapy techniques that have been shown to be highly effective in changing the way patients think about themselves and their problems.

The series was initiated in 1993 by Peter Cooper, Professor of Psychology at Reading University and Research Fellow at the University of Cambridge in the UK, whose original volume on overcoming bulimia nervosa and binge-eating continues to help many people in the USA, the UK and Europe.

Titles in the series include:

OVERCOMING ANGER AND IRRITABILITY

OVERCOMING ANOREXIA NERVOSA

OVERCOMING BODY IMAGE PROBLEMS

OVERCOMING BULIMIA NERVOSA AND BINGE-EATING

OVERCOMING CHILDHOOD TRAUMA

OVERCOMING CHRONIC FATIGUE

OVERCOMING CHRONIC PAIN

OVERCOMING COMPULSIVE GAMBLING

OVERCOMING DEPERSONALIZATION AND FEELINGS OF UNREALITY

OVERCOMING DEPRESSION

OVERCOMING DISTRESSING VOICES

OVERCOMING GRIEF

OVERCOMING HEALTH ANXIETY

OVERCOMING INSOMNIA AND SLEEP PROBLEMS

OVERCOMING LOW SELF-ESTEEM

OVERCOMING MOOD SWINGS

OVERCOMING OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER

OVERCOMING PANIC AND AGORAPHOBIA

OVERCOMING PARANOID AND SUSPICIOUS THOUGHTS

OVERCOMING RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

OVERCOMING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

OVERCOMING SOCIAL ANXIETY AND SHYNESS

OVERCOMING TRAUMATIC STRESS

OVERCOMING WEIGHT PROBLEMS

OVERCOMING WORRY

OVERCOMING YOUR CHILDS FEARS AND WORRIES

OVERCOMING YOUR CHILDS SHYNESS AND SOCIAL ANXIETY

OVERCOMING YOUR SMOKING HABIT

OVERCOMING ANXIETY

A self-help guide to using
Cognitive Behavioral Techniques

Helen Kennerley

Robinson

London

Constable & Robinson Ltd

5556 Russell Square

London WC1B 4HP

www.constablerobinson.com

First published by Robinson Publishing Ltd, 1997

This edition first published in the UK by Robinson,
an imprint of Constable & Robinson Ltd., 2014

Copyright Helen Kennerley, 1997, 2014

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Important Note

This book is not intended as a substitute for medical advice or treatment. Any person with a condition requiring medical attention should consult a qualified medical practitioner or suitable therapist.

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Dedicated to the memory of Liz Campbell (19542010)

In 1980 I arrived in Oxford and met the two psychologists who influenced this book. The first was Peter Cooper, the series editor of the Overcoming series, and the second was Liz Campbell. They introduced me to cognitive therapy and helped me appreciate its potential they got me hooked on CBT. I suspect they used it in helping me overcome my own anxieties about settling in Oxford, and I remain very grateful for their generous conversations, their encouragement and support.

Sadly, Liz Campbell died recently and I want to dedicate this second edition of the book to her if anyone managed stress well and helped others to deal with it, it was Liz. She was a remarkable woman: warm, witty, determined to enjoy life and to help others enjoy life. Anyone who has met Liz will have stories to tell about how she inspired them. I cant imagine that anyone would fail to say that she was extraordinary. Dr Campbell was a champion: she was an excellent clinician, she pioneered psychology courses, was president of the British Psychological Society, and wrote texts that changed the face of stress management in the police force. She was also a brave woman who always did what she thought was right, and Ill never forget being in Asia with her doing charity work. For the most part I sought the safety of the British Council buildings and adopted the approach of never upsetting anyone and staying where it was safe. She took on officials, slipped out at night to attend forbidden meetings, got involved in the politics and continued to support these causes from the UK. That was Liz brave, principled, an example to us all.

Liz was an inspiration, as are each of the people with whom Ive been fortunate enough to work clinically. I am indebted to the patients who have bravely shared their difficulties and their recoveries, and I am indebted to outstanding colleagues such as Joan Kirk, Gillian Butler, Melanie Fennel, Christine Padesky and the late David Westbrook who have shared their wisdom over the years.

Writing a book like this takes time away from loved ones and I am grateful, too, for the indulgence of my children and husband. Thank you.

In the fifteen years since this book was first published, some things in the world of anxiety management remain unchanged. In particular, it is still a fact that we need worries, fear and anxieties to survive and that we are in the business of managing unhelpful anxieties not getting rid of them. This, as you will see, remains a theme throughout this new book.

However, there have been some key developments in the last decade and a half that are reflected in this second edition. We know so much more about the brain and stress, about the problems caused by worry, about the importance of compassion in recovering from psychological problems, about the role of exercise in coping. Ive tried to embrace these developments in this second edition and so youll notice familiar messages and some new ones, too.

Something else that has happened since 1997, when the first edition of this book was published, is that there has been increasing research on very particular anxiety disorders, and the Overcoming range reflects this: Constable & Robinson now offer self-help books that focus on Panic, Worry, Social Anxiety, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Health Anxiety and Post-traumatic Stress. Im really pleased to be able to say that you now have so much more to guide you in overcoming different forms of anxiety but I also hope that you will still find that this single volume makes a difference.