Male G-Spot Massage
For Pleasure and Health
For all men
and the women who love them
Erika Thost M.D.
Acknowledgements
I would like to acknowledge and appreciate the people from whom I learned so much, even though they may not know me personally:
Pamela Madison
Joseph Kramer PhD
David Wise PhD and Rodney Anderson MD
Jack Morin PhD
Jeanette Potts MD
Charlie Glickman PhD
Susie Bright
Carol Queen PhD and Robert Lawrence DC, EdD
Charles Muir
Barbara Carrellas
Dr Patti Taylor
Steven Braveman LMFT
Human Awareness Institute
Body Electric School
Nicole Daedone, One Taste
Jaiya
SexyProstate.com
Praise for Sexy Prostate
This is a much needed and timely resource for couples' sexual enhancement. The stigma of prostate massage can take a back door, now that this information has been presented so well by Dr. Erika in this new guide.
Dr. Patti Britton, Clinical Sexologist, Co-Founder of SexCoachU.com, and host of over 40 couples' sexual enhancement DVDs
"I found this book very engaging and accessible. If sex education and counseling, in general, could be addressed in such a natural and pragmatic way, I believe this world would be a better place and sex therapy would be rarely required. Dr Erika's book satisfies a curiosity which frequently arises in clinical consultations. I will recommend her book to all the patients who (timidly) inquire about prostate sexual stimulation or to any couples asking to expand their repertoire and nurture or enhance their intimacy.
Jeannette Potts MD, Men's Health Specialist. Editor / author of urological textbooks: Essential Urology, Genitourinary Pain and Inflammation, and Men's Health.
Dr. Thost takes the prostate out of the Dr.'s office and into the bedroom. She demystifies prostate health and pleasure in her playful and easily accessible style.
Jacqueline Richard, Psy.D., AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Loved it! Dr. Thosts book, Sexy Prostate, is very well-written, educational and fun with specific information for both men and women on how to navigate a long overlooked arena in human sexuality the pleasuring of the prostate. A definite breakthrough for heightening the sexual experience. A must read!
A.R.C., LMFT
An approachable tone to a sensitive topic
Linda Leviton, LMFT. Author of Peace Within, Peace Between: Your Relationship Toolkit.
Dr Erika knows how important the prostate is, and whats more, she knows how much pleasure it can give. Easy for any partner to learn, her instructions are key to prostate health and bliss.
Carol Queen, co-author of The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone. Director, The Center for Sex & Culture, San Francisco
Dr. Thost has compiled important information that can change lives in so many positive ways. This book is entertaining, fun, and opens up new vistas of health pleasure. I highly endorse it.
Thomas A. Reaper, MD, MPH
Disclaimer
This information is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for medical diagnosing nor treatment nor medical advice. Please do not consider anything in this book or website as medical advice.
While this information is as accurate as possible, there are no guarantees or warranties for the complete accuracy of this information. Please always check with your doctor before you rely on any of this information for yourself.
Every man should have a urologist and an internist and have his prostate health checked by them on a regular basis. Please consult your physician promptly if there are any questions about the suitability of any of this information for you and if you have any medical questions.
More information about this topic is in the chapter on safety.
Table of Contents
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Welcome to Prostate Massage
Welcome to the no-embarrassment guide to prostate massage. If you are a woman, you will learn how to massage your partners prostate for both pleasure and health and how to find great satisfaction in the role. If youre a man, you will discover how prostate stimulation can make your orgasms both stronger and more profound. Youll also discover how to achieve a very different kind of orgasm, a unique addition to male sexual pleasure.
Here, youll find out that the prostate is not just a mysterious appendage that sits there dormant until it begins to cause health problems late in life. It is actually an active sex organ, ready and willing to add new dimensions to your sex life.
For a woman, it can be fun to do your guy; to be in charge and give him lots of pleasure. Whats more, it is easy for you to do him: easy, as in not hard work and easy as in not hard to learn. And did I mention that the prostate or male G-spot is easy to find?
You may notice that this book is oriented towards straight couples. Of course, it can also work well for gay couples. However, in my experience, it is the straight men and the heterosexual couples who most need encouragement and information for exploring prostate pleasure. And there are few resources for them. So it is my mission to expand straight couples' sexual repertoire, and improve prostate health in the process!
Many straight men - well, most, once they give it a try - love prostate stimulation. For a woman, it can be a huge thrill to have your finger on his prostate during his orgasm, a chance to share his pleasure as in no other way. And for the man, you haven't lived if you haven't had her finger on your prostate during orgasm.
Here is a miracle that almost no one knows about, not even most doctors: during orgasm the prostate puffs out and gets bigger and firmer, and then contracts back to normal.
This book will make you curious about exploring the prostate. It will also get you ready to relax and let the good things happen. To get the most out of this book, I suggest you read the whole thing, then go back and review the topics that grab your attention.
In the early chapters, youll find the practical information to start your prostate exploration, including how to prevent messiness. In the chapters following, the steps for prostate massage are clearly explained: how to get inside, how to avoid causing pain, how to touch the prostate itself.
Then we'll put it all together: what a session of male G-spot play looks like from beginning to end. And last, Ill throw in a few tips on how both of you can get the very most from the experience.
The Benefits of Prostate Massage
Some people wonder: since it all seems like a hassle, with opportunities galore for misunderstanding and embarrassment, why bother?
Most men, after all, have not been anticipating the experience all their lives. They havent missed what they havent ever known. And they dont yearn for the chance to discover the male G-spot. So, why do it?
First and most important, this massage can make your orgasm deeper and somehow more complete. As one man in my workshop put it, My orgasm is more draining, in a really good way. Actually hes right, literally as well as figuratively: orgasm accompanied by prostate massage can produce a greater volume of ejaculate and more intense contractions, prolonging the experience and making it more ecstatic.
The potential for these deeper experiences may build with recurring prostatic massage. So there is incentive to hang in there. Some men feel prostate pleasure right away. For others, it can take a little time and practice to get there.