Copeland David - How to Succeed with Women, Revised and Updated

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There are a lot of books and courses about succeeding with women, but this book is the best out there. I highly recommend it as the first thing any man read. Marshall Sylver , creator of The Secrets of Persuasion & Influence

I am a great admirer of [their] workthis is the best book on the subject.

Leil Lowndes , author of How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You and many others

Sexperts Ron Louis and David Copeland have great advice for men on the prowl.Jennifer DAngelo, editor, Fox News

Youre holding in your hands the undisputed heavyweight champion of seduction guides. Whether youre a seasoned player or a rookie in the dating game, How to Succeed with Women remains the essential book on this subject. Rob Wiser ,

coauthor of M.A.C.K. Tactics: The Science of Seduction Meets the Art of Hostage Negotiation

Ron Louis and David Copeland have come up with the best dating information available, and I recommend every man read their book and use their material.Jerilyn Walter, Playboy Playmate

Know that when you enter a room full of women, youre not leaving alone. How to Succeed with Women totally works! Get the girl you want, anywhere you go. Read it, learn it, live it. Swank magazine

How to Succeed with Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland is one of the best books available on understanding dating from a male perspective.

Shari Mindlen, dating columnist

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PRINTING HISTORY
Reward Books trade paperback edition / October 1998
Prentice Hall Press trade paperback revised edition / January 2009

eISBN : 978-1-440-66211-9

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Copeland, David.
How to succeed with women / by David Copeland & Ron Louis.
p. cm.

eISBN : 978-1-440-66211-9

1. Dating (Social customs)United States. 2. WomenUnited StatesPsychology.
3. Man-woman relationshipsUnited States.
I. Louis, Ron. II. Title.
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INTRODUCTION

We were no different than you might be. Our relationships with women were dependent upon two things: luck and the whim of women who happened to be attracted to us. When either of us had sex, it was because we quite literally got lucky and a woman decided to have us. We had little choice or power over when we had sex and relationships, and what women we had those interactions with. Sex and relationships, it seemed, were a crapshoot. Perhaps wed meet someone, perhaps we wouldnt. Needless to say, we got tired of it.

Finally, we decided that we would do whatever it took to find out what worked with women. We wanted to know how to seduce women and morewe wanted to know how to develop relationships with women that would be fulfilling for both us and them.

We set out dating as much as we could and comparing notes after each and every interaction with women. Looking back, many of our interactions with women seem unskilled or even laughable to us now, but we stuck with it through the failures, frustrations, and successes. We found that as we kept at it and kept working together, we began to see the underlying structures of successful dating interactions. We found that we could start to predict how interactions would go and how certain women would respond to us. We began to take our interactions with women less seriously and to have more fun. We started to see how most of our problems with women had been generated by our own behavior. We began to develop the set of principles that has evolved into this book.

Now we know that we can have as many women as we desire simply by using the technology outlined. For instance, we understand the messages we send to women through our personal styles (Chapter 3) and how to make those messages as seductive as possible. We know how to get women to naturally think of us as possible romantic material when they first meet us, rather than relegating us to the role of friend (Chapter 2). We know how to flirt successfully and how to use that flirting to get the first date (Chapter 5). We know how to take a coffee date (Chapter 7) and make it into a full-blown seduction (Chapter 8). We know how to go for the first kissand more (Chapter 9). We know how to handle problems when they arise (Chapter 11), and how to end things with women when the time comes (Chapter 12). Our lives with women are much easier and more successful than they ever were before, simply from using these techniques.

Over the course of writing this book, we often found ourselves saying to each other, If only Id had this book ten years ago, Id have made so many fewer mistakes! This book contains a program that can change your life with women, forever. To get the most out of it, you may want to take on the following practices:

Be coachable. It wont do you a bit of good to read this book if you go through the entire thing rejecting everything we say before you have even tried it out. Of course, you will inevitably disagree with some of the things that we tell you to do, or when we explain what has worked for us or our students. But dont worry about it.

Think of us as your personal dating coaches. Part of a coachs job is to push you into trying something new. Imagine a professional basketball player who argues with his coach every time the coach tries to teach him a new move or critiques his performance. The player would fight a lot and get nowhere. As a man being coached, you have to be willing to set aside what you know to be true and to try out something different once in a while. So if you want to get the most out of this book, dont run mental arguments with us as you read it. Pretend what we are saying is true and try it out, at least for a while, and see how something new works for you. After all, if you already know everything about success with women and have exactly the sex life you want, why are you reading this book?