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The Come As You Are Workbook

Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College, where she teaches Womens Sexuality. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a masters degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. She is the author of three guides for Ian Kerners GoodInBed.com, including the Guide to Female Orgasm , and she writes the popular sex blog, TheDirtyNormal.com. She is the author of the New York Times bestseller Come As You Are .

Scribe Publications
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1820 Edward St, Brunswick, Victoria 3056, Australia

This edition published by arrangement with Simon & Schuster Paperbacks, a division of Simon & Schuster, Inc., New York.

Published by Scribe 2019

Copyright 2019 by Unruly, LLC
Illustrated by Erika Moen

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contents

part one

part two

part three

part four

introduction

This workbook has one job: to provide practical, evidence-based tools to enhance your personal sexual wellbeing. If you want to develop a better relationship with your own sexuality, reduce your frustration or worry about sex, or maximize your access to sexual pleasure, youre in the right place. If you want to understand who you are as a sexual person, why your sexual arousal, desire, and pleasure are what they are, and how you can begin removing the obstacles that stand between you and great sex, you, too, are in the right place! Welcome! In these pages youll find exercises, information, and tools that can deepen your understanding of your own sexual wellbeing and help you communicate clearly with your partner(s) about sex in ways that empower you to explore.

In the last few decades, the science of womens sexuality has clarified our understanding of how sex works. When seen through a scientists careful eye rather than through a distorting cultural lens, every aspect of womens sexualityfrom arousal to desire to orgasmdefies all preconceptions. While this workbook is written for women (i.e., people who identify as women) and is based on the science of womens sexuality, people of any gender can use almost every tool and activity in it. Thats by design, because everyone, of every gender, deserves to have great sex. Also, great sex comes from appreciating your sexuality and your partners sexuality, and sometimes your partner isnt a woman.

There are some things this workbook doesnt offer. If you are looking for in-depth explanations of the science of sexuality, read my first book, Come As You Are ( CAY A ). If you want to learn techniques for giving great oral sex or otherwise enhancing your sexual performance, youll find those at www.goodinbed.com. And if youre hoping for an academic exploration of the cultural or political structures that constrain and police womens sexuality, there are lots of books that offer that, but this is not one of them. This workbooks one job is to help you enhance your relationship with your own sexuality.

how the workbook is organized

The workbook is organized similarly to CAY A . If youve read CAYA , youll find this workbook deepens your understanding of the science of sexuality as it applies to your personal sex life. But even if you havent read CAYA , the workbook can help you maximize your sexual wellbeing and facilitate better communication about sex.

It is divided into four parts. Part 1, The (Not-So-Basic) Basics, is about the fundamental hardware of sexuality: your body, your brain, and your context. Part 2, Sex in Context, delves deeply into the aspects of your life that influence your sexuality: stress and culture. Part 3, Sex in Action, offers the science of sexual arousal and desire as an alternative to the cultural messages you explored in Part 2. And finally, Part 4, Ecstasy for Everybody, moves beyond the science of arousal and desire to the science of pleasure and satisfaction.

Throughout the book, youll find questions from my Q & A Vault. At many events, organizers provide a boxit might be an empty, decorated tissue box or, one time, an actual miniature mailboxinto which people can drop anonymous questions. Over the years, Ive accumulated a lot of these, written on scraps of paper, hotel stationery, paper napkins, and note cards. At the close of the event, I pull out the questions and answer them all, one by one. This workbook includes verbatim questions Ive been asked by real people just like you, with the answers I gave the audience.

You can use the workbook on your own or with a partner; independently or with the support of a coach or therapist. Use it however feels right for you. Each chapter concludes with a One Important Thing exercise, to help you clarify your thinking and experience.

effective brainstorming

Several exercises in the workbook call for brainstorming, which means generating a lot of ideas and writing them down, without judging whether theyre good or bad. Some people are naturally good at it and enjoy doing it.

If youre not one of those people, heres an analogy that might help. Brainstorming is like the tryouts for junior high cheerleading. At those tryouts, there are two unbreakable rules:

1. Everyonethat is, every ideais allowed to audition. Of course not everyone will make the squad, but only if you allow everyone, absolutely everyone, to audition do you discover the hidden gem, the shy new girl who, though youd never know it to look at her, can do splits and backflips and yells like a banshee. Before you see her, you have to let every single kid, from the popular girls to the goth and emo kids to the math team, have their turn.

2. Tryouts have a time limit. You set a timer and you let the chaos happen, then when the timer goes off, youre done. Dont keep brainstorming until you find the right answer. Sometime you cant know which answer is right until you spend more time with the promising ones.

So to brainstorm effectively, set a time limit (just a few minutes!), and then write down literally everything that comes to mind, whether it seems right or notwhether it even seems relevant or not. Its normal to think of something and then automatically evaluate it, asking yourself, But is that true? Is that what I mean? or Doesnt this idea contradict that other idea I just wrote down? Set those evaluative thoughts to one side for the moment. Youll go through the editorial process later. Assume that somewhere between 50 and 90 percent of the ideas you generate when brainstorming will never lead to anything. Those ideas are not a waste! Their role in the brainstorm is to get out of the way , to step back and become a crowd that oohs and aahs when the hidden gems appear. And they can only serve that purpose if you include them. Write them down.

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