Dedicated to my tribemy wife (my BFF and the love of my life), my son (my Buddy), and my girls (Little Mama and Little Bit). You are my ministry. I have not earned the right to serve or minister to the needs of others if I have not first served and ministered to your needs. I love you dearly.
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Part 1 : What Motivates Your Career Decisions?
1. The Career Question No One Asks
Why Is a Promotion Important to You?
WorkThe Center Stage of Life
We Measure Ourselves by Promotions
Others Measure Us by Promotions
2. How Do You Define Promotion?
A Limited Definition
How You End Up on the Wrong Path
Defining a Promotion Starts with Knowing What You Value
Align Your Career Path with Your Values
3. The Four Ps of Promotion
Its about What Motivates You
Position
Pay
Personal Security
Personal Satisfaction
A Note on the CareerWhitt Assessment
A Culture That Motivates You
Life-Cycle Motivators
4. Different Definitions, but the Same Work Required
Why Its Called a Career Path
Thirty-Year Decision Based on a Three-Year Plan
Theres a Reason Its Called Work
Part 2: Nine Steps to Outgrowing Your Space at Work
5. Step 1: Be Willing to Start at the Bottom
Your Current Job Matters
Entitlement
Market Realities
Employers Standards Are Changing
Youre Right! Get Over It!
6. Step 2: Master the Basics
Master Your Current Role
Skill or Will?
Read the Playbook
7. Step 3: Be an Empowered Entrepreneur
The BoxWork in It; Think outside of It
Think Like an Entrepreneur
Working Hard on a Hamster Wheel
Stop Trying to Skip Steps
8. Step 4: You Can Go Up Sideways
Sometimes Backward or Lateral Is Vertical
Pride in a Pretty Dress
Reality + Right Time = Right Move
Deepened Skills Deepen Opportunities
9. Step 5: Have a Team Attitude
Team. Get on Board!
You-First People
The Responsibility of High Performance
The Power of Interconnectivity
Be Helpful
10. Step 6: Finding and Keeping a Good Mentor
A Career GPS
A Mentor Is Like a Mirror
You Must Be Willing to Listen
You Must Be Willing to Act
Beware of Distorted Mirrors
11. Step 7: The Right Relationship with Your Boss
Its All on You
Let Them Know What You Want
Building a Plan with Your Boss
Prove You Mean It
Useless Talent
12. Step 8: Engagement Equals Loyalty
The Elephant in the Workplace
Loyalty Is about Attitude, Not Time
Hopping Bunnies Often Eat Hay
Grow Where Youre Planted
13. Step 9: Before You Say Good-Bye
Pause
Recognizing and Surviving an Offense at Work
An Offense by Your Boss
An Offense by Your Co-worker
Increase Your Stock
Conclusion
Appendix
Notes
About the Author
Back Ad
Back Cover
Acknowledgments
This work catalogs the birth and growth of my career to this current point. Everything I share in these pages Ive learned from past managers, mentors, co-workers, and a host of employees over the past two-plus decades. Thank you for being a part of my life and for allowing me the great privilege of being a part of your teams.
Dad and Mom, you were the first mentors I ever knew. Thanks for planting my mind in good ground and showing me what it means to work hard for a living.
Also, to both the personal and professional mentors who allowed me access to their livesthanks for your blatant honesty. You helped me see the true me, even when I couldnt or didnt want to. I am better because of the times you said yes, the times you said no, and, more important, the times you said, Youre not ready yet.
Thanks to my Word Weaver family and to those business owners and professionals who helped me harvest my thoughts into words that make sense.
Most important, to the perfect mirror by which Ive seen both who I am and the good I can become. Thank you, Jesus.
Introduction
People in a hurry cannot think, cannot grow, nor can they decay. They are preserved in a state of perpetual puerility.
Eric Hoffer
I never expected an employee to teach me something that would change my formula for lasting career success. But he did.
I stood outside my glass office surveying the floor. As I scanned the dark blue Berber carpet, the glow of polished black wingtips sauntering toward me grabbed my attention. On Jacob Worthys perfectly chiseled chin hung a confident smile.
He erupted before he even reached me. I need to talk to you about something very important.
I raised an eyebrow and held my breath as he continued. Boss, I think I am ready to do something else. Something bigger. Ive mastered this job, and theres not a lot more for me to learn. How can I get promoted?
Jacob had joined the firm about eighteen months earlier. In that time he had become my best-performing employee. If an important client needed concierge-level service, Jacob was typically at the top of my list of whom to call for help. His future looked bright, and he knew it. He had a keen instinct. While others on the team grappled with concepts that I coached, Jacob swallowed them whole.
Could this guy perform and produce? Absolutely. Was he ready for the next level, something that would give him charge over others? Not yet. Jacob still needed to learn critical people skills that were essential to building a cohesive and productive team. Within the next twelve to eighteen months, I had no doubt that he would be a top managerial candidate.
Clearly he had rehearsed this conversation a thousand times. His timing was impeccable. Jacob was ending his best month ever, and he had a gluttons supply of confidence.
I smiled at his request. You dont get promoted, I said. You outgrow the space that youre in. When that happens, a bigger space will be made for you.