Barbara Bracht Donsky - Veronicas Grave: A Daughters Memoir

PRAISE FOR VERONICAS GRAVE

A triumphant story of a woman coming to terms with the loss of her mother and an inspiring, though haunting, testament to the endurance of the human spirit.

KIRKUS

Veronicas Grave shows both the warmth of a loving family and the mistakes when secrets are kept. A compelling tale that gives wonderful insight to the readers.

MARY HIGGINS CLARK, author of more than 50 best-selling novels, including All Around the Town, Loves Music, Loves to Dance, and While My Pretty One Sleeps

Veronicas Grave is worthwhile reading for any young woman who has had to struggle to assert herself against a patriarchal and traditionally religious upbringing. For sheer joy of spirit and joie de vivre, Barbara Donskys memoir surpasses many another work of its like an experience that promises to be a rewarding read for mother and daughter alike, it fully deserves the acclaim that it has so far achieved.

BOOK PLEASURE REVIEW, July 2016

Barbara Donsky captures the words and experiences of a small child and her evolution into adulthood better than any author I have read since Jeannette Walls published Glass Castle. Donskys memoir, Veronicas Grave, is so beautifully written and rich with so much detail and so many metaphors (that actually work) that her experience, struggle with, and silent damage from family secrets comes alive and rings true. Even better, she may be the first American woman whom I can imagine understands what I mean when I say I like myself better in France.

RONI BETH TOWER, Ph.D., author of Miracle at Midlife: A Transatlantic Romance, SWP October, 2016

The voice Barbara chose resonated with someone like myself who grew up at a similar time. It was a time that women with dreams and visions had to carve their own paths with few role models to lead the way. Your book evoked many memories of discovering the world as a child, teenager, and a young adult.

RUTH WALDBAUM, M.D., Diplomate Board of Adult and Adolescent Psychiatry, Distinguished Fellow American Psychiatric Association

Veronicas Grave is a compelling account of how a young woman, confronted with the unexplained loss of her mother, relies on her own inner resources and determination to not only discover the family secret of who her mother was but, in the process, discovers her own self and her own unacknowledged potential.

PETER H. KUDLER, M.D. Department of Psychiatry, NYU Langone Medical Center

Donskys coming-of-age memoir is a vivid portrait of a remarkable life. It is a deft rendering that begins by inhabiting the shadows of a childhood lost, later illustrating a person becoming slowly visible to herself. The images and sounds of her New York neighborhoodsas well as the perfume-scented rues in the Paris she discovers as a young womanare defining brushstrokes to complement and frame this exceptional story.

RITA M. GARDNER, author of The Coconut Latitudes: Secrets, Storms, and Survival in the Caribbean (Gold Medal Winner, Autobiography/Memoir, 2015 IBPA Benjamin Franklin Awards)

Donsky gives voice to a three-year old barely verbal little girl who transitions into teenager and then young woman. The voice changes with great humor and craft as Veronicas Grave moves from the experiences of a mischievous, high-spirited youngster, to feisty and adventurous teenager, and then to a tenacious young woman. The evolution is skillfully laid out in a delicious and entertaining way capturing a time lost to many readers, an era before the feminist movement!

DIANA Y. PAUL, author of Things Unsaid

Readers who like reading about the good old days will be charmed by the protagonist, a girl named after Saint Barbara who cant shed her fathers insistence on calling her Bob. We learn from her that those days were neither charming, nor good. Still, the Bronx streets of her working class family Ryer and Decatur avenuesremain beloved by Barbara even after she manages the extraordinary feat of escaping a mundane existence, belatedly discovering the death of her young mother, and dealing with a tough-minded father who coerces her into keeping a family secret. Barbaras intelligence and persistence will take her on a journey far from her humble origins. You will cheer for her as she strolls confidently down the Champs-lyses in her TWA uniform and later, as she dines with her French beau at the romantic Le Coupe Choux.

ANNETTE LIBESKIND BERKOVITS, author of In the Unlikeliest of Places

Barbara Bracht Donsky has crafted a most poignant and important memoir, which tugs at the heart from the very first page. As the author grows from the child confused by the sudden loss of her mother to an inquisitive young adult, readers will be drawn to her strength and fierce determination not to have the secrets and mystery of her mothers death define the woman she eventually becomes.

SANDE BORITZ BERGER, author of The Sweetness, Foreword Reviews Indie Fab Finalist

When an author chooses to tell stories drawn from childhood, one of the biggest challenges is to channel the voice of a child in a way that sounds genuine to the reader. Don-sky deftly carries the reader along through the troubled childhood and adolescence of a motherless girl, expressing the ever-present longing for the one person she believes has the ability to guide and protect her. Along the way, she weaves in references to popular culture that will make readers who grew up in the same era smile with recognition. As an adult, finally out from under the control of her distant and withholding father, Donsky earns her wingsboth literally and figurativelyas she begins to live her life the way she chooses.

RISA NYE, author of There Was a Fire Here: A Memoir

This is a story of triumph, of a determined young woman who, despite her fathers protestations, breaks away from the blue-collar family that raised her under the weight of secrets, to get an education and see the world. The authors ability to channel the thoughts and voice of a child and then those of an adolescent, teenager and young woman is brilliant. The stories of the early years of commercial flight and the new career stewardess were particularly fascinating. I especially enjoyed the story, having grown up in the New York City area, and I was able to put myself in so many of the locations the author described.

MARIANNE CANEDO BOHR, author of Gap Year Girl: A Baby Boomer Adventure Across 21 Countries

.{A} poignant story

NEW YORK POST, Jane Ridley, May 5, 2105

This was a well-penned, emotional tale of triumph. It will pull at your heartstrings and encourage you to take stock of the important things in life.

NICOLE WAGGONER, author of Center Ring: A Novel (The Circus of Women Trilogy.)

Told in an almost fiction way, with great dialogue. Some memoirs are very dry and boring, not so this one. I found myself remembering some of her references, especially the Nancy Drew ones. I myself loved Nancy Drew stories but in a different way as reading was an escape for me from an abused childhood...This book is worth a read!

CELTIC LADY REVIEWS, June 2016

This highly enjoyable book is a memoir that reads like a very good novel: one continually wants to find out what happens next. Its difficult to find a book that is both delightful and serious, charming yet meaningful.