To Lewis and Drew: Keep on making me proud and striving to achieve.
To George and Alf: Make the most of your talents.
And to my gorgeous Jose, beautiful on the inside and out: Much love.
A little while back, I wrote a book called We All Live in a Perry GrovesWorld. It put into black and white what a lot of people who knew me or had seen me play had known for years I was a cult. Yes, thats right, cult! And with the publication of the book it became official.
For some reason, fans remembered my efforts on the field, sang songs about me and had devoted websites to my life. So my book told of my growing up as a football-mad kid in East Anglia and how I started out as a teenager at Colchester United, was George Grahams first signing at Arsenal, won two championship medals with the Gooners and then went to Southampton, only to have my career ended at 28 by injury.
I also mentioned how I probably drank too much and played around with the ladies too often, and what I and other players got up to off the field. I also recalled what a great time it all was and how I enjoyed every minute of it.
To the surprise of many people, not least yours truly, the book was a great success. Yet, although it touched on some of my early influences, I didnt go into detail about those men Id worshipped as a kid or came to play with or against later on. Nor did I mention the players Ive admired since I quit the game. Now Im putting that right.
The simple reason is that anyone who has ever kicked a football has heroes. They may be some of the most famous players ever to walk on to a pitch, men whose every move is watched by countless millions in this television age and whose image is instantly recognisable. Or they could be forgotten foot soldiers who played in front of empty terraces yet bring back memories from a long-lost youth. It doesnt matter. Either way, they are imprinted on your mind and are with you forever. And, most importantly, they make you smile at the very thought of them.
Everyone has a list of their own football heroes and it wont tally with mine. Why should it? We all look for a different quality in the players we love to watch.
Some of the legends Pele, Cruyff, Beckenbauer, Moore would make the hit parade of virtually every football fan. But Anders Limpar, Kevin Beattie, Teofilo Cubillas? Thats a different matter. And as for Terry Hurlock!
Let me explain. This is not the list of the Greatest Footballers Whove Ever Lived, although they are all pretty good, I hasten to add. Nor is it a reference book with microscopic detail of their careers. These are just the 20 I reckon had that something that you cant put into words. You could call it star quality, charisma, presence, whatever. Some of them went on to great things when their playing careers ended and became part of world footballs hierarchy. Others went broke, became alcoholics or even tried to commit suicide. Thats the way it goes.
Ive tried to keep it light-hearted though, because I think football is meant to be enjoyed and its the memories of our heroes achievements on the field that we all cherish. They range from images I remember as a little kid glued to the TV in our front room in Suffolk years ago to modern stars I see week in week out, either live or on television. And by some curious coincidence a lot of the men I admired on the field seemed to be even more active off it when it came to wine, women and song.
I was lucky enough to meet or play with or against many of the men on my list. Bobby Moore gave me advice on drinking. Terry Hurlock got me involved in a mass brawl in a pub. David Seaman told me why he liked to spend all night sleeping on riverbanks and Kevin Beattie suffered one of the strangest injuries I ever came across in football a terrible mishap in a dressing-room toilet minutes before kick-off.
If there are some players Ive missed out, Im sorry, but I cant write about everybody. I just hope reading about my heroes, mates and memories gives you half the pleasure they have given me. And if you dont agree with my choices then theres a simple answer do your own book.
T he best piece of advice I ever heard from a footballer came from Bobby Moore, one of the greatest players ever. He was a living legend who will always be remembered as captain of the World Cup-winning side of 1966: handsome, clean-cut, immaculate, the first golden boy of English football.
I had just left Colchester United for Arsenal and I was in awe of him. Everything he said is still lodged in my memory all these years later. And what were those words from a man with an encyclopaedic knowledge of football and of life? He said, Never refuse a drink, because therell come a day when nobody wants to buy you one.
And there was more. Make sure you drink in halves, not pints. If youre seen knocking back pints, people think youre pissed. If its halves, they think youre a professional. How very profound. Ive never forgotten those words.
I never tire of telling this story because it shows that he wasnt just a great player, he was a proper geezer too. Everybody said that Bobby Moore had no pace. He couldnt head the ball either. Come to think of it, his left foot was nothing to talk about. Apart from that, he had everything.
Geoff Hurst, who knew him better than most, observed, People said that he wasnt particularly good in the air, but nobody outran him and nobody outjumped him. He was able to read the game at the back like nobody else.
If you look at a picture of Bobby Moore as England captain handing over a pennant to his rival skipper before kick-off and then one of him walking off 90 minutes later, he looked exactly the same. It was as if he hadnt been in a game. His barnet was never ruffled, he didnt seem to attract mud to his body or kit, and heaven forbid that he had broken into a sweat at any stage.
After climbing the Wembley stairs to collect the World Cup trophy from the Queen after two hours in the boiling sun playing the Germans, he even found time to pause and wipe his hands on his shorts and the velvet draping in the Royal Box before collecting his medal. He obviously didnt want to have sticky palms when he shook her hand class but the big surprise was that he must actually have been sweating at some point during that hot July afternoon.
Minutes later, he was hoisted aloft on the shoulders of Geoff Hurst and Ray Wilson and, with the trophy firmly in his grip, his picture was taken in an image that is as instantly recognisable today as it was in the week of that victory. That image up there on his mates shoulders in a moment of victory should have been the one that most people remember of Bobby Moore, but four years later there was an even more memorable photograph that captured the essence of the man.
This time it was after a defeat, the 10 loss to Brazil in the Mexico World Cup, a game that everyone who saw it still regards as one of the finest ever.
I was just a toddler and the big thing about the tournament wasnt just that it gave us the Brazilian side of 1970 often named as the best team ever but also that it was being televised in colour. To this day I can remember how exciting it was to watch. And after that match Bobby Moore stripped to the waist and shook hands with Pele as they swapped shirts.
Moore looked like a Scandinavian film star, and Pele was as black as mahogany. The smiles of respect for each other on their faces as they shook hands is one of the enduring images of sport. I dont think Peles English was very good at that time and Im pretty sure that Bobby Moores Portuguese wasnt all that hot, but it was as if there was an international language between them: Youre a great player and Youre a great player too.
It was during this game that Bobby Moore made a tackle that seems to get more famous as the years pass. It even got a mention in the lyrics of Three Lions, the footballs coming home song. One of the finest players in that Brazilian team was their right-winger Jairzinho, who went on to become one of the few players to score in every round of a World Cup finals. Hed already given his side the lead and England were pressing for an equaliser and had loads of bodies in the Brazil half. The temperature was in the high 80s (30C) and when an England attack broke down we had hardly anyone in defence as the Brazilians broke away.