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Copyright 2006 by Paula Poundstone
Foreword copyright 2006 by Mary Tyler Moore
All rights reserved.
Published in the United States by Three Rivers Press, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Random House, Inc., New York.
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Originally published in hardcover in the United States by Harmony Books, an imprint of the Crown Publishing Group, a division of Random House Inc., New York, in 2006.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Poundstone, Paula.
Theres nothing in this book that I meant to say / Paula Poundstone.
1st ed.
1. Poundstone, Paula. 2. ComediansUnited StatesBiography. 3. American wit and humor. I. Title.
PN2287.P573A3 2006
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Ebook ISBN9780593444016
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To the one person who thought adopting three kids was a good idea and to my three brilliant ideas, Toshia, Alley, and Thomas E, who proved beyond a shadow of a doubt that that one person was right. Oh, yeah, and to Moe, Larry, and Curly, too.
Acknowledgments
I can still remember asking Shaye Areheart, my wonderful publisher at Harmony Books, What if I cant finish the book in a year? when we had our first meeting. It seemed such an unlikely event, I dont think she even answered me. She might have chuckled. That was eight and a half years ago. I must be the luckiest writer in the world to have gotten eight and half years of enthusiasm, support, and encouragement from Shaye Areheart.
Im really glad that Shaye called Peter Guzzardi to ask him to edit my book. I think it worked out well for both of us. I got the benefit of his expertise and he got a sharp reminder to screen his calls more carefully. I also appreciated Kim Meisners help.
My literary agent, Colleen Mohyde, has been a mentor, an inspiration, and so much fun to work with, I was almost sorry to finish the last page. Almost. I appreciate the hard work, kindness, and will do attitude of my assistant, Carmen Cannon. We have called my friend Gordon McKee for technical support so many times, Im surprised he never figured out that we break that stupid computer on purpose just because we love to have him come over. Without my nanny, Heather Kang, I could not have squirreled away a minute to write so much as one run-on sentence; she has done a wonderful job for eleven years, and Mary Poppins is my favorite movie, so my nanny standards are very high. Dave Snyder and my other agents at William Morris have been kind, productive, and loyal for the many long years of our relationship and, lets face it, ten percent of my fees doesnt really cover that.
I dont know how to thank my manager, Bonnie Burns, for all she has made possible for me. She makes me feel funnier than I actually am.
In the course of writing this book, my own mistakes have brought me through an extremely dark tunnel of personal crisis. The people that I gratefully acknowledge here not only helped me to write this book, but also stuck with me throughout, and there truly are no words that can express my appreciation.
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Foreword
P AULA P OUNDSTONE is my friend, though we live on separate coasts and rarely have a chance to see each other. I have no idea what we have in common other than a shared respect for truth, a fondness for irony, and a dedication to humormostly mine, I think!
This book reveals a woman who is strong, yet vulnerable, having been through a few battles that shell share with you. I know this: Paula is steadfast in her love for the children who are her family, and they are her strength and inspiration.
Her flawless comedic musings on life, her own chief among themwhich is good, it being an autobiography and allspring from stories she tells about her heroes: Joan of Arc, Abraham Lincoln, and Helen Keller, to name a few.
This book is layered with wisdom (and I dont go seeking wise friends as a rule), but Paulas writing makes it easy to embrace its author. It is funny, thoughtful, and fluid. I was delighted and surprised at the way she takes sudden turns and meanders down less-traveled avenues of thought.
Enjoy this bookI know I did. I feel like I know my friend a little bit better now, and I want you to, too.
Mary Tyler Moore
1
Joan of Arc: Called by God and Driven by Drink
Canonized as a saint 508 years after her death, Joan of Arc led the armies of France when she was seventeen years old. At nineteen she was captured by the British, tried by the Church, and burned at the stake as a heretic. At seventeen I left high school because there was a parking lot that needed to be hung out in, and I didnt want the brainy kids to have to take a shift. At nineteen I became a stand-up comic, turning my back on a successful table-bussing career, and at forty-one I was arrested, putting off my canonization indefinitely.
Joan of Arc was born to Isabele and Jacques dArc in Domremy, France, in 1412. I dont understand French names. Apparently Joan of Arc was never called Joan in France; she was Jeanne dArc. Two different authors I read said they were calling her Joan because that was how Americans knew her. Well, who started calling her Joan in America? You cant just do that. If its Jeanne, then its not Joan. Its not even like it saves your tongue time. Its the same amount of sounds. Why not save ink and call her d?
Joan or Jeanne was raised in a manner considered proper in that time and place. Her father said he would rather have had her brothers drown her than allow her to lose her virtue. Id have been pretty water-safe back then. My mother told me that she learned to swim when someone took her out in a boat to the middle of a lake and threw her overboard. I said, Mom, they werent trying to teach you to swim.
The youngsters in Joan Jeanne Joans community had the responsibility of taking each familys sheep, goats, and cows to pasture and watching them while they ate. There is a bit of controversy in the record as to whether Joan Jeanne Joan regularly took her turn driving the livestock to pasture, but if she did it drunk wed have something in common. In June 2001 I was arrested on a felony child-endangerment charge, for driving drunk with my children in the car, a misdemeanor child-abuse charge, the details of which I am not permitted to discuss because they are sealed by the court, and four charges of lewd acts with a minor, which were later dropped. I pled guilty to the child-endangerment charge and the misdemeanor child-abuse charge because those things were true. There is nothing I care about more in the world than my children, but in fact I was drunk when I drove them to the Baskin-Robbins one day, and it was reported to the police. I have no one to blame but myselfwhich, Ive always said, takes the joy right out of blaming. I wish Dick Cheney could have been involved somehow.